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RECLAIMING PURITY


MY JOURNEY TO LIVE GOD’S WAY IN A CHRISTIAN DATING RELATIONSHIP, AND IN MARRIAGE

by Laura C. Mayer

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“So I find this law at work; when I want to do good, evil is right there with
me. For in my inner being I delight in God’s law; but I see another law at work
in the members of my body, waging war against the law of my mind and making me a
prisoner of the law of sin at work within my members. What a wretched man I am!
Who will save me from this body of death? Thanks be to God—through Jesus Christ
our Lord!” Romans 7:21-25




I was torn. I felt God’s conviction cautioning me to stop. But deep within me
was a longing for this boy to hold me—to gaze into my eyes and tell me I was
beautiful and desirable…to reassure me just one more time. Kissing him was
inviting escalating passion as I felt him respond to me. But I didn’t want to go
too far. How far was too far? Can you relate to this struggle?

The Bible is very clear that sex before marriage is outside of God’s plan for
His people. Hebrews 13:4 says, “Marriage should be honored by all, and the
marriage bed kept pure, for God will judge the adulterer and all the sexually
immoral.” I am not just trying to convince you to seek purity before marriage.
If you have picked up this book, I assume you have already made the commitment
to purity, or at least you feel that quiet conviction that I did in my dating
years. But maybe you, too, struggle with how to implement it. As the verse in
Romans 7 above suggests, the problem is not just a lack of knowledge of God’s
standards; it’s the difficulty in resisting the temptation to violate them. Paul
says that even though He loves God’s law and wants to do good, evil is right
there with him. There’s a tension between what our spirit knows to be right and
the pull of our flesh. So once we make a commitment to purity, what happens
next?

It took Brian, my husband, and I some time to grasp the idea of purity while we
were dating. After reading our story, you’ll see that making the commitment to
purity was just the beginning. We had tasted the forbidden fruit for a number of
years. Then I got to know Jesus in a new and powerful way. Brian eventually
followed and we knew things had to change. We had the difficult task of trying
to figure out how to have a Christian dating relationship; living in the Garden
of Eden so to speak, right next to the tree but resisting the habit and
compulsion of reaching for that fruit. How close to the forbidden tree can you
get? Can you actually hold the apple in your hand but not taste it? There is no
hard and fast rule I can give you for where to draw the line. However, I will
share with you some lessons that I learned that can show you how to build your
relationship together through Christian dating and describe some strategies to
keep the pilot light of your passion lit but under God’s gentle control.

I want to give you some ideas for ways to invest time in your relationship that
won’t rob you of your purity but will help you to explore one another in new
ways—to develop the emotional, intellectual and, most of all, spiritual sides of
your relationship together. You may or may not be 100% sure of your future
together. That’s ok. I believe God will provide clarity. In any case, you’re not
just dating to pass the time. You’re dating with a purpose: to see if you’re
compatible together. If you keep God in the center of your relationship, rather
than just a passing thought on Sunday, He will bless your lives abundantly. He
will guide you in the way you should go, and if it is His plan to join you in
marriage one day, He will honor your vows of purity and help you grow and change
in a blossoming relationship.





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Book Details

Language : English
Publication Date : 11/29/2018

Format : Softcover
Dimensions : 5.5x8.5
Page Count : 192
ISBN : 9781973645276
Format : Hardcover
Dimensions : 5.5x8.5
Page Count : 192
ISBN : 9781973645283
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Page Count : 192
ISBN : 9781973645269

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ABOUT THE BOOK

It took Brian, my husband, and me some time to grasp the idea of purity while we
were dating. After reading our story, you’ll see that making the commitment to
purity was just the beginning. We had tasted the forbidden fruit for a number of
years. Then I got to know Jesus in a new and powerful way as I recovered from an
eating disorder. Brian eventually followed, and we knew things had to change. We
had the difficult task of trying to figure out how to have a Christian dating
relationship, living in the Garden of Eden, so to speak, right next to the tree
but resisting the habit and compulsion of reaching for that fruit. How close to
the forbidden tree can you get? Can you actually hold the apple in your hand but
not taste it? There is no hard-and-fast rule I can give you for where to draw
the line. However, I will share with you some lessons that I learned to show you
how to build your relationship together through Christian dating. I will
describe some strategies to keep the pilot light of your passion lit but under
God’s gentle control. Then, how does it work to take two imperfect people,
joined under God to become one in a loving marriage?

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ABOUT THE AUTHOR

Laura Mayer is a wife and mother, Occupational Therapist and speaker. She has
been involved in multiple women’s and children’s ministries since 2001. She and
her husband, Brian, have been married 17 years and live in Indianapolis, Indiana
with their three children. She shares her journey as she came to know Jesus
through her life experiences in her relationships as well as through her
recovery from an eating disorder.

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CUSTOMER REVIEWS

 * Disclaimer: I was given this book free of charge, with no strings attached.
   In her new book, Reclaiming Purity, Laura C. Mayer tackles the difficult
   subject of sexual purity. In today’s age of “free love,” I found Laura’s
   approach to the subject refreshing, timely, and much needed. Her writing is
   clear, concise, and easy to read. One of the things that appealed to me the
   most was Laura’s honesty and openness about her own personal journey. She
   shares stories about her insecurities of the past and how she attempted to
   fill that void with food. Before reading her account, I wasn’t even aware
   that such unique eating disorders existed. She makes no excuses for her
   actions, but rather explains her mindset at the time. I found it fascinating.
   She tells the story of meeting her future husband, Brian, a man burdened with
   his own problems but also someone who obviously cared more for her than he
   did for himself. The two of them made mistakes. Sometimes those mistakes were
   repeated. While Laura doesn’t gloss over these lapses in judgment, neither
   does she go into more detail than is needed. As the book title suggests,
   Laura’s journey was one of reclaiming her sexual purity. She understands,
   first hand, the difficulty men and women face in resisting the “forbidden
   fruit” once it has been tasted. She offers numerous suggestions for
   alternative dating ideas. These ideas work just as well for those who’ve
   never married as they do for those who have been divorced and want to get
   back into the dating scene. I highly recommend Reclaiming Purity for anyone
   who is dating, soon to be married, singles groups, or anyone who wants
   guidance from a woman with enough experience and wisdom to be a mentor. I
   look forward to reading her next book.
   Steve Bolin
   
 * Disclaimer: I was given this book free of charge, with no strings attached.
   In her new book, Reclaiming Purity, Laura C. Mayer tackles the difficult
   subject of sexual purity. In today’s age of “free love,” I found Laura’s
   approach to the subject refreshing, timely, and much needed. Her writing is
   clear, concise, and easy to read. One of the things that appealed to me the
   most was Laura’s honesty and openness about her own personal journey. She
   shares stories about her insecurities of the past and how she attempted to
   fill that void with food. Before reading her account, I wasn’t even aware
   that such unique eating disorders existed. She makes no excuses for her
   actions, but rather explains her mindset at the time. I found it fascinating.
   She tells the story of meeting her future husband, Brian, a man burdened with
   his own problems but also someone who obviously cared more for her than he
   did for himself. The two of them made mistakes. Sometimes those mistakes were
   repeated. While Laura doesn’t gloss over these lapses in judgment, neither
   does she go into more detail than is needed. As the book title suggests,
   Laura’s journey was one of reclaiming her sexual purity. She understands,
   first hand, the difficulty men and women face in resisting the “forbidden
   fruit” once it has been tasted. She offers numerous suggestions for
   alternative dating ideas. These ideas work just as well for those who’ve
   never married as they do for those who have been divorced and want to get
   back into the dating scene. I highly recommend Reclaiming Purity for anyone
   who is dating, soon to be married, singles groups, or anyone who wants
   guidance from a woman with enough experience and wisdom to be a great mentor.
   I look forward to reading her next book.
   Steve Bolin
   



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