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HUSBAND IGNORES FAMILY EMERGENCY TO TAKE A NAP, TRIES TO PUT ALL THE BLAME ON
HIS WIFE
Jonas Grinevičius and
Justinas Keturka
A large part of being an adult is about learning to manage your time. As we grow
up, we generally tend to have more responsibilities. Meanwhile, the sheer number
of things we have to do can make us exhausted. That means that we have to adapt
and set aside at least some hobbies that we used to love or learn to fit them
better into our busy schedules. Playing video games all night when you’ve got a
job and a family becomes harder to do.
However, one particular dad still prioritizes his entertainment, at the cost of
his relationship with his wife and kids. He plays video games at night, goes to
work, comes back dead tired, and demands that his family leave him alone for 2
whole hours while he naps. He even locks the bedroom door.
Even though we’re huge supporters of short siestas, in this particular case, the
napping is obviously out of control. And the entire situation came to a head
when a massive family emergency happened at home while the husband was napping.
Scroll down for the full story, dear Pandas. Just one note of warning—the story
is incredibly infuriating and reeks of injustice. The mods behind the AITA
subreddit had to lock the thread because of how some people expressed their
outrage.
A WOMAN SHARED HOW SHE GOT INTO A MASSIVE ARGUMENT WITH HER HUSBAND OVER VIDEO
GAMES AND NAPPING
Image credits: MART PRODUCTION (not the actual photo)
SHE SHARED HOW HER PARTNER CAME TO IGNORE A FAMILY EMERGENCY THAT WAS HAPPENING
RIGHT AT HOME
Image credits: Jonathan Petersson (not the actual photo)
Image credits: throwaydoorlock977
Most redditors were appalled by the fact that the dad kept napping through the
entire family emergency after his toddler son got hot oil spilled on his hand.
But, if possible, probably the worst part was the fallout that came later. The
dad was angry that nobody told him that they went to the hospital. He then tried
to push all the blame on his wife for not supervising their son. She finally had
enough and removed the lock from the bedroom door. What do you think of the
entire drama, dear Pandas? Share your thoughts in the comments.
Whether you’re sitting in front of a computer or console, pretending to be a
couch potato in front of the television, or scrolling through endless cat pics
on your phone, you’re still spending your time in front of a screen. In
moderation, these activities are great. But moderation is difficult to find when
entertainment is so easily accessible.
A while back, Bored Panda spoke about not letting our interests consume us with
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about the line between enjoying TV and having our lives run by it.
“Watching the latest shows isn’t a bad thing, entertainment can be a great way
to relax, often starts great conversations and helps us to explore ourselves in
the context of others. It is worth remembering that some TV as an addition to a
modern well-lived life is a net positive,” he said.
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us in an optimal place as human beings,” Lee stressed to Bored Panda how to
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told us.
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in control of you, it’s time to take a step back and build a routine that you
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be a lot of fun to take it more slowly and build up excitement and anticipation
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Justin is a photo editor at Bored Panda. He was fascinated with visual arts and
arts in general for as long as he can remember. He was obsessed with playing and
making music in his teens. After finishing high school, he took a gap year to
work odd jobs and try to figure out what he wanted to do next. Finally, around
2016, he started learning how to use Photoshop and hasn't stopped since. He
started working as a visual advertisement producer in 2017 and worked there for
almost two years. In his spare time, he creates graphic collages and even had
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lol. Dont remove lock. remove husband..
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The husband doesn't exist. The post is for karma farming, just like 99% of AITA
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Shut up!
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Ignore Tom. Tom never has anything nice to say when he comments, somehow even
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I don't he's completely wrong. If we want AITA we can go to reddit. I think this
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I mean I love video games and often stay up late to play them and even usually
take a nap when I get home. However I do not have the responsibilities this man
does. And I always make sure to have my phone on in case of emergencies.
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ummm I have so many questions, like where's your car? Why is he napping like a
child? My husband is a night owl always has been, goes to bed at 1 or 2 am and
gets up at 4 for work. EVERY. DAY. He also cooks, cleans, takes care of the
kids, does laundry etc. Your husband isn't playing video games honey, he's
cheating or about too. No man keeps a console locked up. There's something else
going on. You need to leave like now. He's a POS.
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Not every family has two cars.
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And not every adult can drive, Not to mention at the age her son is she probably
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When you're really upset and distressed it's a very smart choice not to drive
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Or husband had keys in the bedroom whilst he was napping
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You don't know that she is able to drive. I know quite a few adults who never
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that's what I was thinking honestly.
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They don't have to have two cars in order for her to have a car. Could be they
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The keys may have been in the locked bedroom with him.
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This is only my opinion, but once one becomes a parent, it is necessary to know
how to drive. This is a great case in point. Otherwise, if he did lock himself
in the room with the keys to their only car, that's a whole other level of
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Agreed. I'm sorry but the excuse of "not every adult wants to drive" that's just
impractical when you have a family UNLESS you live in an area where public
transport is abundant. I do not, so I'm not used to one car families. If that
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Depends on where you live (US then it is likely best) but people's reasons
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Oh you're right. I didn't even think of that.
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If she doesn't have access to a car/transportation, that's putting his behavior
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Especially since she has health issues.
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No not necessarily. Not every family can afford two cars. That's just the
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If he's locking her out and she has no access to transportation then, yes, it's
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That is totally abuse itself, from my experiences.
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It's not about the one car, it's not having access to the only means of
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It is if he locks the only car key in with himself while he 'naps'
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Don't need 2 cars to have access. We only have one, but I have my own keys and
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it in with him she does not have access
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No it's not. Nowhere does it say that, or she probably wouldn't even know her
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They didn't say they said that, they said IF. And IF that's the situation than
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17 hours ago
I thought he might be hiding more than an addiction to video games. If he didn't
ignore or but really was sleeping that deeply, he's on some substance. Please
check your bank account and have a divorce lawyer on speed dial. He obviously
doesn't care about you or the family.
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10 hours ago
I wouldn't even share an account with such a shitpile monster like that.
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1 hour ago
Exactly!!! That was my thought.
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17 hours ago
I have so many of them as well. Is this guy gaming with Markaplier and Septic
Jack, or Neebs Gaming? Is he making a substantial sum of money and ready to do
this full-time to support his family and making a very healthy income on Steam
or something? I can't imagine his need for the extremes he's going to for his
gaming addiction. His behavior towards his children and wife are unacceptable.
He's a vile and loathsome excuse for a man..I can't imagine having my children
exposed to this person. He's setting a horrible example as a parent. I agree
with you and the consensus that she'd be better off with him not in her life.
He's an extremely toxic person.
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3 hours ago
Not disagreeing, you make good points, but she replied to a comment that she
doesn't drive for health reasons. I don't drive either for health reasons, I'm
not going to risk others due to my eyesight being so bad, though I do admit
sometimes I'd like the independence and not rely on my husband everytime. I know
enough in case he has a medical emergency of some kind while driving.
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21 hours ago
lol. Dont remove lock. remove husband..
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13 hours ago
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The husband doesn't exist. The post is for karma farming, just like 99% of AITA
posts.
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FollowUnfollow
13 hours ago
Shut up!
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4 hours ago
Ignore Tom. Tom never has anything nice to say when he comments, somehow even
less nice if a woman is involved.
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3 hours ago
I don't he's completely wrong. If we want AITA we can go to reddit. I think this
AITA piracy starts to go too far.
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23 hours ago
I mean I love video games and often stay up late to play them and even usually
take a nap when I get home. However I do not have the responsibilities this man
does. And I always make sure to have my phone on in case of emergencies.
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1 day ago
ummm I have so many questions, like where's your car? Why is he napping like a
child? My husband is a night owl always has been, goes to bed at 1 or 2 am and
gets up at 4 for work. EVERY. DAY. He also cooks, cleans, takes care of the
kids, does laundry etc. Your husband isn't playing video games honey, he's
cheating or about too. No man keeps a console locked up. There's something else
going on. You need to leave like now. He's a POS.
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20 hours ago
Not every family has two cars.
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18 hours ago
And not every adult can drive, Not to mention at the age her son is she probably
needed to be dealing with him not driving.
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Nadine Bamberger
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16 hours ago
When you're really upset and distressed it's a very smart choice not to drive
yourself.
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malenchki
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15 hours ago
Or husband had keys in the bedroom whilst he was napping
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14 hours ago
You don't know that she is able to drive. I know quite a few adults who never
felt the urge to learn how to drive.
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FollowUnfollow
1 hour ago
that's what I was thinking honestly.
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15 hours ago
They don't have to have two cars in order for her to have a car. Could be they
have one car and it's THEIR car... making referring to it as YOUR car totally
appropriate.
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10 hours ago
The keys may have been in the locked bedroom with him.
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FollowUnfollow
14 hours ago
This is only my opinion, but once one becomes a parent, it is necessary to know
how to drive. This is a great case in point. Otherwise, if he did lock himself
in the room with the keys to their only car, that's a whole other level of
assholery.
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AzKhaleesi
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1 hour ago
Agreed. I'm sorry but the excuse of "not every adult wants to drive" that's just
impractical when you have a family UNLESS you live in an area where public
transport is abundant. I do not, so I'm not used to one car families. If that
makes sense.
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Cherries and Lace
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12 hours ago
Depends on where you live (US then it is likely best) but people's reasons
differ. I had major anxiety around driving and mine wasn't as bad as other
people I know
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FollowUnfollow
1 hour ago
Oh you're right. I didn't even think of that.
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FollowUnfollow
18 hours ago
If she doesn't have access to a car/transportation, that's putting his behavior
in "abuse" and "isolation" territory.
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FollowUnfollow
18 hours ago
Especially since she has health issues.
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FollowUnfollow
18 hours ago
No not necessarily. Not every family can afford two cars. That's just the
reality of life. Several of my friends growing up only had one car in the family
and neither parent was abusive, or isolating each other.
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FollowUnfollow
17 hours ago
If he's locking her out and she has no access to transportation then, yes, it's
definitely isolation bordering on abuse.
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Debrina Blackmoon
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10 hours ago
That is totally abuse itself, from my experiences.
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16 hours ago
It's not about the one car, it's not having access to the only means of
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16 hours ago
It is if he locks the only car key in with himself while he 'naps'
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12 hours ago
Don't need 2 cars to have access. We only have one, but I have my own keys and
access to the car anytime it's at home. If they only have one set and he locked
it in with him she does not have access
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14 hours ago
No it's not. Nowhere does it say that, or she probably wouldn't even know her
neighbor. She may not know how to drive; obviously could have been too upset to
drive; or probably just needed to tend to her child on the ride to the hospital.
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12 hours ago
They didn't say they said that, they said IF. And IF that's the situation than
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17 hours ago
I thought he might be hiding more than an addiction to video games. If he didn't
ignore or but really was sleeping that deeply, he's on some substance. Please
check your bank account and have a divorce lawyer on speed dial. He obviously
doesn't care about you or the family.
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Debrina Blackmoon
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10 hours ago
I wouldn't even share an account with such a shitpile monster like that.
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Exactly!!! That was my thought.
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17 hours ago
I have so many of them as well. Is this guy gaming with Markaplier and Septic
Jack, or Neebs Gaming? Is he making a substantial sum of money and ready to do
this full-time to support his family and making a very healthy income on Steam
or something? I can't imagine his need for the extremes he's going to for his
gaming addiction. His behavior towards his children and wife are unacceptable.
He's a vile and loathsome excuse for a man..I can't imagine having my children
exposed to this person. He's setting a horrible example as a parent. I agree
with you and the consensus that she'd be better off with him not in her life.
He's an extremely toxic person.
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3 hours ago
Not disagreeing, you make good points, but she replied to a comment that she
doesn't drive for health reasons. I don't drive either for health reasons, I'm
not going to risk others due to my eyesight being so bad, though I do admit
sometimes I'd like the independence and not rely on my husband everytime. I know
enough in case he has a medical emergency of some kind while driving.
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