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AIO: MY (41F) HUSBAND (43M) MET A YOUNG GIRL (19F) AT MY BIKINI COMPETITION AND
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AtavisticJackal

• 1d ago

"This girl is hot and I wanna see pictures of her in a bikini"

Absolute bare minimum, this is what's on his mind.

Are you ok with that? That's what you need to figure out for yourself.

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shackndon2020

• 1d ago

Can someone please explain to me how this teenager having a hot bikini body is
"inspirational" for his daughter? 🤔

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Overall-Cheetah-8463

• 1d ago

Munchausen's boner-by-proxy

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AWindUpBird

• 1d ago • Edited 19h ago

Quite telling that he doesn't find his then-fiance, now-wife "inspirational" for
having won, but is using that as his reasoning for following a girl that he
himself said was too sexy during the competition. Does he really think that he's
fooling anyone?

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Huge-Connection954

• 1d ago

Lol inspirational this guy is hilarious

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Ambitious-Island-123

• 1d ago

Inspirational for his dick, maybe

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cMeeber

• 1d ago

“I followed her for my daughter’s sake.”

Wow, what a saint!

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blackcatsneakattack

• 1d ago

Remind him that she’s the same age as his daughter, and ask him how he would
feel, as a father, if some random 43+ yo man started following HER and liking
pictures of HER in bikinis. Would he still think it’s so innocent then?

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• 1d ago

I did say that too actually. He said he would kill anyone who did that. But then
he acted so offended that I was implying he was a borderline pedophile. I said
that he was the one who chose to find her and follow her 🤷🏼‍♀️. I didn’t do
anything but ask the questions afterwards.

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No_Thanks_1766

• 1d ago • Edited 1d ago

How is a 19 year old competing in a bikini contest inspirational? Did she lose
100lbs or something?

You’re not overreacting. He’s being a perv.

ETA: got a message in my DMs telling me to grow up because there’s nothing pervy
about a 43 year old man drooling after a 19 year old girl 👀

Some of y’all need to get some help

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