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CAROLYN HAX: BEST FRIEND IS POISED TO ESTRANGE PARENTS OVER MISUNDERSTANDING

An enraged new mom sees night blindness as her parents’ “excuse” not to babysit
late, and her best friend wishes she’d see reason.

Advice by Carolyn Hax
Columnist
June 24, 2024 at 12:00 a.m. EDT

(Illustration by Nick Galifianakis for The Washington Post)

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Dear Carolyn: I love my best friend since childhood dearly, but she believes
she’s the world’s biggest victim of middle-child syndrome, when I think she can
act rather spoiled.

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She had a baby seven months ago and complains constantly about how her parents
aren’t stepping up compared with how much they help with her older sister’s
kids. I know her parents. They are lovely people who care for their daughter and
their newest grandchild deeply. They do help a lot with the other kids, but the
imbalance is primarily circumstantial, namely distance: 10 minutes from the
sister and 45 minutes from her on a highway in good traffic. Our parents all
have more limits than they used to even a couple of years ago.


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