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r/AITAH • u/p1nkribbon • 12h ago


AITAH FOR SAYING I'M SECOND-GUESSING HAVING A BABY WITH MY HUSBAND AFTER HE
ASKED FOR A PATERNITY TEST?

13.7k Upvotes

I (26F) and my husband Alex (27M) have been married for a year. Recently, I
found out I was pregnant. This was not planned, HOWEVER, ever since we got
married we have not been using protection every time we got intimate and I'm
currently not on any birth control.

My guess is that I'm only a few weeks along (I haven't seen a doctor yet)

Anyway, I told him when he got back home from work yesterday. I personally was
very happy about it because I've always wanted a mom. I was pretty sure I was
all smiles when I told him, and I thought he would be too once he found out the
news. Let me add that he's been neutral on having kids.

My assumption was wrong. Immediately he gets super upset and asks how in the
hell this could happen? I explained to him that while it was sudden, we hadn't
been using protection every time so it wasn't that surprising. I thought he
would have understood.

For some reason he didn't. After a few minutes of back and forth, he demanded a
paternity test and told me there was no way it was his.

I was hurt and insulted. Let me be very clear that I did not, and will never,
cheat on my husband. I have also never given him any reason for him to be
suspicious about me cheating on him, either.

I was so taken aback that he doubted my loyalty enough to ask for a paternity
test. I told him I couldn't believe he was seriously asking me for that.

He said that I wasn't helping my case, and that if I had nothing to hide, then I
would take the test and prove my loyalty to him.

I honestly can't remember all that I said, but I ended up saying something along
the lines of "if you're doubting me and my loyalty so much that you think I
cheated on you and got pregnant with someone else's baby, then I don't think I
want one with you anymore. I don't want to be tied to someone who clearly
doesn't trust me."

He blew up at me and accused me of cheating once again. It was a big argument,
and he said I was being shitty, dismissing his concerns, and saying that asking
for a paternity test was valid. In the end, !!I AGREED TO THE TEST!! but said
that I stood by my words. Had to highlight that because some people are saying
that I didn't agree to it when I very much did.

We haven't spoken since the argument and he's currently at work.

I went to my friend for advice and she said that while he was out of line for
accusing me of cheating, I shouldn't have said that to him over one of his
"valid" concerns, and that clearly had a reason to feel that way about the
situation.

I cannot fathom made him feel like I was cheating on him. I was just so hurt
that he would insult me like that and accuse me of doing something so disgusting
when I thought we were supposed to have trust in each other.

But AITA for saying what I did?

Edit: A lot of people are suggesting he got a secret vasectomy that failed, and
that did cross my mind! During the argument I did ask if he got a vasectomy or
was infertile and that's why the baby couldn't be his, but he dismissed that and
continued saying "it just couldn't be his" without providing me a solid reason.
So in that regard I have really no idea what to say...

Edit 2: I feel I should elaborate on the "neutral about kids" part. I told him
while we were still just dating that no kids was a dealbreaker for me. He said
that was fine because his stance on it was that if we ever have kids, it's fine.
if something happens and we don't, it's fine. I'm calling that neutral since I
don't know what else to call it. So when I told him I was pregnant I thought he
would be fine with it like he said. But apparently he just changed his mind
about that and didn't tell me!

And also, I have no issues with men wanting paternity tests, I just had an issue
with him blatantly accusing me of being a cheater with no solid proof to back it
up along with it.

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r/todayilearned • u/Snakebite7 • 5h ago


TIL THE IDIOM "SAID THE QUIET PART LOUD" ORIGINATED FROM THE SIMPSONS IN 1995

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842 comments

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r/pics • u/BallBearingBill • 4h ago


POLITICS THAT TIME WHEN MELANIA TRUMP STOLE MICHELLE OBAMA'S SPEECH VERBATIM


29.9k Upvotes

1.2k comments

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r/interestingasfuck • u/Chadrasekar • 8h ago


R/ALL ULTRA-ORTHODOX CUSTOMARY PRACTICE OF SPITTING ON CHURCHES AND CHRISTIANS


19.9k Upvotes

6.0k comments

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r/NewsAndPolitics • u/_II_I_I__I__I_I_II_ • 15h ago


US ELECTION 2024 PROGRESSIVE JEWISH & MUSLIM PROTESTERS TOGETHER UNFURLED A
BANNER THAT READ “STOP ARMING ISRAEL,” BEFORE IT WAS GRABBED BY DNC CONVENTION
STAFF. THE CROWD BLOCKED THE BANNER & CHANTED 'WE LOVE JOE'. DEMOCRACY NOW!'S
CAMERAMAN TRIED TO RECORD THIS, BUT WAS BLOCKED & STALKED BY THE CROWD AS WELL.


6.2k Upvotes

3.6k comments

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r/facepalm • u/Visqo • 8h ago


🇲 🇮 🇸 🇨 NOTHING WRONG WITH GAMING WHILE IN YOUR 30S


10.6k Upvotes

3.6k comments

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r/landscaping • u/Crackedcoconutt • 6h ago


AM I OVERREACTING OR DOES THIS LOOK LIKE SHIT FOR $15K


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5.7k Upvotes

I personally think the execution looks so bad. Already paid half upfront but
they want to come pick up the other half tomorrow since the job is “finished”.
They planted grass seed in between the stepping stones to hopefully get grass to
grow in between them. This is my first time paying for a project like this and I
don’t know how to confront my concerns. Also the cost of the white rock and
black mulch was not included in the 15k.

2.8k comments

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r/clevercomebacks • u/Craptose_Intolerant • 5h ago


ELMO GOT OWNED AGAIN 😭😭😭


20.5k Upvotes

575 comments

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r/pics • u/dreamcastfanboy34 • 8h ago


POLITICS DONALD TRUMP'S PRESS AIDE DISPLAYING A JAN 6TH TEXT FROM MELANIA TRUMP
ON A JUMBOTRON


69.2k Upvotes

2.5k comments

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r/AdviceAnimals • u/GabeSter • 12h ago


CAN'T WAIT TO HEAR HOW TRUMP APOLOGISTS SPIN DONALD TRUMP BREAKING A 225 YEAR
OLD LAW SIGNED INTO LAW BY THE SECOND PRESIDENT OF THE US.


62.5k Upvotes

2.4k comments

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r/mildlyinfuriating • u/BootsAndBananas • 13h ago


BOSS WANTS ME TO “MAKE UP” WORK DAY I’M MISSING BECAUSE IM FLYING BACK FROM A
WORK TRIP


58.5k Upvotes

Boss (well-known influencer) travels a lot and I had to accompany her on a trip.
The flight is 14+ hours and she booked my return trip on a weekday.

She wants me to either work in the flight or come in on the weekend to “make up”
for the missed day. This is after I worked 20 straight days with no days off on
this trip.

And no, I’m not a personal assistant.

PSA - don’t work for fucking influencers.

2.3k comments

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r/PublicFreakout • u/Odlavso • 3h ago


R/ALL ANDREW TATE BEING ARRESTED IN NEW INVESTIGATION INVOLVING TRAFFICKING OF
MINORS, SEXUAL RELATIONS WITH A MINOR AND MONEY LAUNDERING


8.3k Upvotes

757 comments

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r/news • u/calm_wreck • 7h ago


TEEN GIRL SUES DETROIT JUDGE WHO DETAINED HER AFTER SHE FELL ASLEEP IN COURTROOM

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42.3k Upvotes

2.1k comments

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r/europe • u/EUstrongerthanUS • 13h ago


NEWS SANDRO GOZI: "IF MUSK DOESN'T COMPLY WITH OUR LAWS, THE UNION WILL SHUT
DOWN "X" IN EUROPE


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2.1k comments

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r/atheism • u/Leeming • 5h ago


MOMS FOR LIBERTY LOSE FLORIDA SCHOOL BOARD RACES.


joemygod.com
11.9k Upvotes

157 comments

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r/interestingasfuck • u/CrispyMiner • 5h ago


R/ALL TRUMP AT A NORTH CAROLINA RALLY INSIDE HIS BULLETPROOF GLASS BOX


14.1k Upvotes

3.4k comments

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r/AskReddit • u/OutlandishnessSea258 • 5h ago


WHAT’S THE SCARIEST CONSPIRACY THEORY YOU’VE EVER HEARD?

2.1k Upvotes

2.1k comments

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r/inthenews • u/Advanced_Drink_8536 • 6h ago


'DON'T GET PERSONAL': TRUMP RAGES AFTER MICHELLE AND BARACK OBAMA SPEAK AT DNC

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15.4k Upvotes

1.5k comments

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r/wholesomememes • u/Morbatx • 7h ago


DIFFERENT PEOPLE HAVE DIFFERENT NEEDS


32.0k Upvotes

204 comments

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r/NewsOfTheStupid • u/wdomeika • 5h ago


J.D. VANCE RIDICULED AS JOKE AIMED AT TIM WALZ BACKFIRES ON TRUMP


rawstory.com
12.3k Upvotes

608 comments

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r/television • u/MarvelsGrantMan136 • 5h ago


DNC NIGHT 2 AUDIENCE EXCEEDS OPENING NIGHT WITH 20.6 MILLION VIEWERS; THE EVENT
CONTINUED TO OUTPACE THE RNC, WITH NIGHT 2 SCORING A 38.9% BIGGER AUDIENCE THAN
THE REPUBLICAN CONVENTION


thewrap.com
11.0k Upvotes

481 comments

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r/StarWars • u/JarJarJargon • 11h ago


GENERAL DISCUSSION THE ACOLYTE COST A STAGGERING $670K PER MINUTE OF FOOTAGE AND
GARNERED OVER A BILLION LESS MINUTES WATCHED THAN EVERY OTHER STAR WARS SHOW.
HOW IS ANYONE SURPRISED IT WAS CANCELLED?


9.0k Upvotes

1.9k comments

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r/Music • u/Artemistical • 11h ago


ARTICLE THE DNC ROLL CALL FEATURED A MUSICAL SALUTE TO EACH STATE. HERE'S WHAT
YOUR STATE CHOSE

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7.0k Upvotes

1.9k comments

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r/kitchener • u/[deleted] • 8h ago


KEEP THINGS CIVIL, PLEASE KITCHENER HOUSE PUBLICLY FLYING WWII NAZI FLAG


4.5k Upvotes

Utterly disgusting to see this in our community. Have we moved so far backwards
as a city that someone feels justified flying this on a busy road like Stirling?

1.8k comments
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