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CAROLYN HAX: JUST FOUND OUT ONCE-CLOSE BROTHER IS GETTING MARRIED TODAY

What does it mean when a close brother “temporarily” moves far away, falls out
of touch and sends wedding news by grapevine?

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(Illustration by Nick Galifianakis for The Washington Post)
Column by Carolyn Hax
October 10, 2024 at 12:00 a.m. EDT

Adapted from online discussions, here and here.

Hi, Carolyn: My 48-year-old brother, to whom I’ve been close, took a contract
position far away and moved supposedly temporarily with his live-in girlfriend,
whom I like though don’t know well. He’s been harder and harder to reach by
phone, not responding for long times to messages or texts, but insists nothing
is wrong, he’s just busy.


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