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CORPORATE SLAVE WHO SPENDS HER FREE TIME CRYING OVER WORDS ON INK.

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HI, BOOKTOK COMMUNITY!

July 23, 2023 dexthehallsLeave a comment

Hi to everyone who has stumbled over my WordPress page while checking on my
Linktree. If you’re here, you might be a bookworm on the lookout for free books
& audiobooks… well, you can check all those on my Linktree links & if you’re
here to request new titles, well here’s a brief explanation of why I can’t
entertain those for now.

 1. I’m working a full-time job right now & as much as I want to, I’m not fully
    available anymore to spend time downloading all audiobook requests.
 2. All my audiobooks are uploaded via Google Drive. Currently, I have 3 Google
    drive accounts storing these files. One of which is my old university drive
    (which for that time can store unli storage lol) but then, the University
    might have noticed the traffic on my drive coming from non-university
    accounts downloading/opening these audiobooks which led them to disable my
    access from said email address. Sure thing I can retrieve it, but at what
    chances? I’m an alumna now & I don’t want to undergo all the nitty gritty
    process of retrieving said account & explaining to the IT Department why my
    email/account has a lot of traffic HAHAHA.
 3. The other 2 google accounts has maxed out their free storage. I’m not
    financially able enough to pay monthly subscriptions for this. If you want
    to throw, “but you can always make new google accounts to store” statement,
    please see #1.
 4. The dropbox link where I store some of my ebooks, has on full capacity. I
    can still receive updates on people who wants to access this but I can’t
    grant any access anymore since Dropbox wanted me to pay & I’m not
    financially able to do that.

Well, if you’re still reading at this point, anything you wanted to access that
is not here, you may still email me at ticorporatebookworm@gmail.com but I’m not
promising any fast replies & it’s not guaranteed that I can answer to your
requests.



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The Mistletoe Pact by Jo Lovett (Book Review)
2021 Reads · Book Reviews


THE MISTLETOE PACT BY JO LOVETT (BOOK REVIEW)

September 24, 2021September 24, 2021 dexthehallsLeave a comment

I have received this ARC from NetGalley in exchange for an honest review

Mistletoe Pact is about two friends, Evie and Dan, who made a pact to marry each
other when they reach their thirties and if they’re both single.

The first chapter of the book narrated the incident of being drunk together in
Vegas and how the two decided to marry there. I really thought the book will
talk more about how the two characters would work up their “marriage” but the
book decided to took a different path wherein some chapters were flashbacks of
Dan & Evie’s life for the past years. It highlights their relationship with
their family and friends and how both their families are close to each other and
how they celebrate Christmas together.

What I love about this book is it does not only focus on Evie & Dan’s love story
(which is a very slow-paced friend to lovers trope, btw) but it also features
different kinds of love- love of friends, love of siblings, love of family. I
also love the uniqueness of featuring Evie’s familial setup where she was raised
by her mother alone and how she was completely okay with it.

Overall, this was such a good Christmas read and I also enjoyed Dan’s narrative.
I just hate him sometimes for being insensitive to Evie’s feelings and how the
wait was so long after their pact. 



The Memory of Murder by Ellen Shapiro (Review)
2021 Reads · Book Reviews


THE MEMORY OF MURDER BY ELLEN SHAPIRO (REVIEW)

September 18, 2021September 24, 2021 dexthehallsLeave a comment

Lisa Kane was three years old when her mother was murdered. On the night of the
murder, Lisa was awakened by a loud noise. Whatever she witnessed at the time,
the trauma from that night erased most of her memories. The primary suspect was
Lisa’s father, Jason Kane, but he was never arrested since he had an airtight
alibi.

Twenty-two years later, Lisa now twenty-five, hires PI Tracey Marks to find her
mother’s killer. Lisa’s memory is slowly coming back in flashes, but she isn’t
certain what’s real or imagined.

In this thrilling whodunit mystery, Tracey now has to dig deep to unravel the
secrets and lies that were never exposed over twenty years ago in order to
capture the killer.



I was given an Advanced Readers’ Copy of the Memory of Murder through
BooksGoSocial via NetGalley. This was my first time reviewing for a book via the
mentioned site and I am thrilled and honored to do so.

Memory of Murder turned out to be a 4th book of the Tracey Marks Mystery which I
honestly didn’t know until I found the book in NetGalley. I loved
mystery-thriller books so I kind of had high expectations with this book after
reading the book summary.

To be honest, it started with the right setting, about a cold murder case which
happened 20 years ago, which I thought was like The Girl with the Dragon Tattoo
vibe. The investigator, Tracey, then proceeded to reinvestigate the murder
through going back to the main suspect who was Lisa’s father (which they can’t
incriminate because he had solid alibi) and Lisa’s uncle who was believed to had
an argument with his sister.

I don’t know if it was because I was anxious to find out who the main suspect
was which made me to finish the book in one sitting, or maybe because it was
just short and draggy. To be honest, it was a page-turner and it hooked me to
all the details and the unraveled mysteries of the prime suspects of the murder.
I was nearly 88% finished when I kind of expected that this book will surprised
me with who the real suspect was and his motive.

On the 95% mark, this was when I was on the edge of myself and I just couldn’t
imagine finding the suspect with the 5% unread part left. I even thought there’s
a part two because you just couldn’t read a book with a carefully-laid out
evidence like that!

The real suspect was exposed and I find it disappointing that it ended like
that. It felt that the author decided to abandon her ship and decided to just
end the novel with that kind of suspect, alibi and ending.

I’d rate it 3 stars because I believe the book had so much potential from the
start.



Musings


MOTHERS’ DAY MUSINGS

May 10, 2021May 10, 2021 dexthehallsLeave a comment

I think Mothers’ Day will be an addition to my sad days – an additional reminder
that once a year, I don’t get to celebrate it with the person who brought me
into this world.

I miss my Mom so much. This time last year, she was there with me when I was
still locked up in Iloilo due to quarantine lockdowns. We used to talk about any
mundane things from my career, politcs, lovelife, anything. She’s my human diary
after all, my confidante, my bestfriend.

I used to think my mom’s death was a one-way wound that would left me with a
scar. It never felt that way. Scars are there to remind you of the wound but the
pain is already absent. Her passing was a constant wound no amount of time can
heal– whenever I am reminded of her love, sacrifices and the life of what could
have beens. I think I haven’t fully forgiven myself for being a good daughter, I
wish I could turn back time and be with her on her deathbed. I wish I could have
spoiled her more and showed her how much I love her.

Honestly, the night before my mom’s death, I bargained with God. I cried myself
in the shower so Darcia and Maam Erns can’t hear me crying. I told God to give
her more days, to wait for me. But I guess I realized how selfish that sounded
because in the end, I asked Him to tell Mamay that I’ll take care of everything
and that if she wanted to rest, she can so she won’t suffer anymore. And my mom
peacefully died in her sleep– no more heartbreaking goodbyes on deathbed, no
reviving, she let go. She always believed death was the next big adventure & I
guess, she decided to leave for her adventure that way- she was never a fan of
big hard crying, that’s why I was not showy of how I feel because at the back of
my mind I hear her telling me, “Oh nagddrama ka na naman.”

I miss you, May. I guess we never really had enough time. I’m extra sad today
because I can’t bear to scroll through social media without thinking that I
never surprised you with these celebrations because I used to be far from home.
Regardless, thank you for your upbringing, for raising me as an independent &
strong woman. Thank you for teaching me to show compassion and kindness. For
setting an example, for being a good mother and a good wife. Motherhood is scary
and exciting at the same time and I know how you wanted an apo when I’m 25 which
I always insisted but always remember, I will try my best to be half as good as
you are to my future family.

Thank you for your sacrifices and I am who I am because of you.

I love you.



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March 4, 2021 dexthehallsLeave a comment

It’s kind of weird not understanding your own body sometimes. Your laughing one
minute, the next you’re crying for some unknown reason.

Indeed, some days are just a little tougher.





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DEC 13,1:48 AM

December 13, 2020 dexthehallsLeave a comment

What was supposed to be an unexpected trip to the bathroom on this hour turned
into a twist when my half-asleep self decided to go and check outisde.

The skies were clear and I wasn’t exaggerating when I tell you how there was a
blanket of stars in the nightsky. It was cooler than usual, it reminds me of
cold Aguinaldo mass mornings when I have to get up earlier than usual to go to
church.. for nine days.

After a minute or two, there it is! At last! A meteor, a falling star, or
whatever you call it. I wasn’t expecting to catch one especially since Geminids
meteor shower is not on its peak yet but well I wish I had something with me
that time, a phone camera perhaps, to take a picture and a proof that what I’m
saying is a sham. But I guess, moments like falling stars are too fast that in a
blink of an eye, it’s gone. Just like memories, sometimes they linger, sometimes
they can easily be forgotten.

You know what’s eternal?
The feeling as THAT moment is happening. How I felt when I saw that star brought
back my younger self – fervently hoping and wishing. Old habits never die
because I still closed my eyes and wished.

Did you know that when you look at the stars, you are technically looking at the
past? Come to think of it– it takes light years for you to travel near a star,
and vice versa. So when you look these stars that are twinkling right now, they
are “somehow” from the past.

I don’t want to get all nerdy & sappy. Back to agenda, bathroom.

End: 2AM





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SCRIBBLES

October 1, 2020 dexthehallsLeave a comment

It was March 12, 2020 again. I woke up early at around four in the morning- took
a bath, got dressed, checked my luggage, ate breakfast and bid goodbye to
everyone on the household. I took the bus, went to the airport and travelled for
a business trip.



The thing is, I don’t remember much of that day. Who would have thought that
that day would be the last time I’ll see you in flesh and talk to you. Worst
part is that I don’t remember if my embrace was tight or the hug was longer than
usual.

Did I say I love you so much? Did I kiss you on the cheek like I always do? Did
you compliment me with what I was wearing.

That’s the thing May, I never really had the chance to put into memory the last
time I hugged and kissed you before you left me. And I wish I coild go back to
that exact day, say the things I wanted to say, hugged you tighter and longer
and store the memories of that day into a Pensieve I could never forget for the
rest of my life.

I still miss you, so much. Sometimes Im scared that one day I’ll forget your
voice inside my head or forget your face, your smile and your love for those red
lipsticks. Sometimes I wish you’re still here to tell me to stop working when
it’s past 5PM or when you kiss me while I was doing work or even our random pep
talks. It’s so difficult without you, May. I lost a mother, a bestfriend, a
supporter all 3-in-1. I know you really applaud my strength and maturity but
sometimes I’m lost in the dark and you’re the only guide who leads me to the
right path.

I miss you so much. It’s been almost four months yet sometimes I get to blame
myself for not being there with you on your final days. I wish I could have took
care of you, fed you, gave you meds and all those stuff. I wish I went home
sooner. I wish I haven’t left on that day and defied the company instead. I wish
I wasn’t lockdown on another place. I wish we had all the resources forbyour
medications. I wish you never had cancer. Why of all people, it has to be you?

You were kind. Always kind – – even to people you don’t know. You taught me
values that I will always be grateful to learn. You inspire me to become as
empowered and as kind and selfless woman like you. I love you. I hope you’re
looking down on us proudly now. Rest easy May, we miss you and we are doing well
down here. Papay misses you too. You know he’s never been vocal but his actions
amd words speak so much about missing his first and true love. Hay, I hope
you’ll guide me into finding or keeping that kind of love in my life. Jaypee
misses you too. You used to singit in our VCs and call him “son”. Don’t worry
Mamay, you’ll meet him someday.

I love you.



September Reads: A Wrap Up
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SEPTEMBER READS: A WRAP UP

September 30, 2020October 9, 2020 dexthehallsLeave a comment

Hi bookish friends! September slipped away easily and it was yet another month
spent productively while still on a lockdown. (Yep, you read that one right!
It’s almost six months yet we are still on lockdown due to the COVID-19
pandemic)

So here’s a brief recap of everything I read last month!

I. By the River Piedra I sat down and Wept – Paulo Coelho

Rating :

Just like any Paulo Coelho book, the novel doesn’t disappoint me in trying to
paint a picturesque landscape of where the story happens while also adding the
value of the characters in the story with some subtle dialogues about
spirituality.

By the River Piedra I sat down and Wept is an underrated novel compared to
others like The Alchemist, Fifth Mountain etc. It falls under the romance genre
but the amazing part is that when you’re reading it, you can barely feel that
it’s a romance novel! We only get subtle hints of the two characters’ emotions.

The most beautiful part that resonated with me? The novel’s prologue.

> By the River Piedra I sat down and wept. There is a legend that everything
> that falls into the waters of their river– leaves, insects, the feathers of
> birds– is transformed into the rocks that make the riverbed.
> 
> By the River Piedra I sat down and wept. The winter air chills the tears on my
> cheeks, and my tears fall into the cold waters that course past me. Somewhere,
> this river joins another, then another, until–far from my heart and sight- all
> of them merge with sea.

2. Patron Saints of Nothing by Randy Ribay

Rating :

There’s just so much to say about this book especially since it’s set on the
Philippines and it talks about the drug war & the extra-judicial killings which
I’m very vocal about. So, spoiler alert!!! this is gonna be political.

Patron Saints of Nothing talks about family, morals, ethics, friendship, crab
mentality, guilt and Duterte’s war on drugs. In addition, it also tackles about
the Philippines as a divided nation who’s take on war on drugs differs — pro,
neutral and cons.

The story is about Jay, an American-Filipino senior in high school who is on the
cusp of entering university. His family lived in the US while the rest of his
father’s family stayed in the Philippines. Jay discovered that his childhood
friend & cousin died. He wanted to know the cause of his cousin’s death and his
curiosity piqued when a certain Instagram account messaged him about his cousin
talking about the war on drugs in the Philippines.

The whole narrative was a so-so but then the plot, the characters and the plot
twist compensated it. Ribay does not only gives us the perspective of the
protagonist but a glimpse as well of the opposing side. The contradicting
opinions of the pro & the anti-Duterte governance made me self-reflect and think
twice about the facts that I read and see online. It made me reflect on the
victim & the victim’s family and the increasing cases of human rights violations
that is brought because of this war on drugs. I also liked the fact that Ribay
talked about sexuality & orientation as well, makes it a well-recommended YA
novel.

> “My family, myself, this world — all of us are flawed. But flawed doesn’t mean
> hopeless. It doesn’t mean forsaken. It doesn’t mean lost.”

I really like the quote above because it tells me of giving second chances. It
makes me think back about the drug users and if they could have been spared,
gave them a second life away from drug addiction, addresses their needs, combat
poverty, quality education. I guess, if the government could have addressed the
root causes of the problem instead of mass killing these “guilty” drug addicts,
then I can say that they are people and that they are not just doing band-aid
solutions. In reality, the war on drugs is not a success, up until now, the big
VIPs are not put into prison, just the small poor accused victims.

3. The Devil & Miss Prym – Paulo Coelho

Rating :

Everytime I read Paulo Coelho, it really exceeds my previous expectations.
Though it offers subtle outtakes on spirituality, it really is refreshing and
offers a feeling of good soul-cleansing. I like the concept behind this novel,
something I learned while I was studying philosophy – that man is naturally
evil. And this novel somehow provides an overview of that idea while also
proving as which idea will the characters arrive at the end.

4. Girl on the Train by Paula Hawkins

Rating :

Narrative-wise, I really love how the author arranged everything to be sort of a
diary/journal type. The first parts of the book were draggy and a bit boring but
when the plot twist bomb dropped, everything went anew and it was a page turner!
I had to finish the book in one night or else, I’m not gonna sleep.

One word — UNPREDICTABLE! I really love how the story progresses with a twist
and turn of the characters’ development and plotting. Really enjoyed this novel
up to the very last page!

5. Revenge of Seven by Pittacus Lore

Rating :

On its 5th installment, the Lorien Legacies book felt a little draggy to me. It
doesn’t spark that joy that it used to have while I was reading. The only thing
I liked was the value of trust that Four and his human & Mogadorian friend had
established. I’m also looking forward on the sixth book since it’s gonna be
about Setrakus Ra’s battle with Ella and the rest of the Lorien legacies. This
book marks the beginning of the climax of the series as the Mogadorians are
about to make their final blow on Earth and attempt to take the planet.



August Reads (Book Review)
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AUGUST READS (BOOK REVIEW)

August 31, 2020September 18, 2021 dexthehallsLeave a comment


Hi, bookish friends! I’m back again after n years. Here’s my attempt to write
book reviews about the books I read for this month.

 * Finding Chika by Mitch Albom (5 out of 5 stars)

You can never read a Mitch Albom novel without shedding a tear or breaking your
heart over and over again.  I learned it the hard way since I started reading
his works when I was 14.

The novel tells us another side of Mitch Albom– he was a student, a son on his
previous literary works but in Finding Chika, he was a father and a husband.

I wouldn’t narrate how the story goes but I would just tell you how this book
resonates in me. You see, I lost my mom two months ago, the grief and loss is
still fresh from memory. Reading this novel rubbed salt in my fresh wounds and I
just found myself pausing and crying while reading the novel midway.

This story was a fresher, of course, to remind us– of how a parent truly loves a
child, a husband loves a wife, and how to value life.

Here’s a quote that resonates within me while reading:

> “There are many kinds of selfishness in this world, but the most selfish is
> hoarding time, because none of us know how much we have, and it is an affront
> to God to assume there will be more.” 

 * The Alchemist by Paulo Coelho (5 out of 5 stars)

I read this back in high school and honestly, it was too deep for me to
understand that time. I just kind of relate to the tip of the ice berg, per se.
Re-reading The Alchemist  now, I appreciated how the book was beautifully
written. Coelho encourages his readers to discover their own dreams and never
give up pursuing them. 

It just tells us about Santiago’s quest for his dreams, life and love.

Here’s a quote that resonates within me while reading: 

> “And, when you want something, all the universe conspires in helping you to
> achieve it.” 

 * Veronika Decides to Die by Paulo Coelho  (5 out of 5 stars)

Sometimes when I think about how life sucks and mess me up, I kind of remind
myself about this novel.  This novel tells us about how Veronika hated her life
(despite having everything). It feels like a novel about redemption, about how
we as humans tend to hate ourselves without realizing how valuable we are. It
encourages us to embrace madness and love and celebrate life. 

“We all live in our own world. But if you look up at the starry sky – you’ll see
that all the different worlds up there combine to form constellations, solar
systems, galaxies.” 

I really love how Coelho was able to talk about this in one novel.

 Here’s a quote that resonates within me while reading:

> “Be crazy! But learn how to be crazy without being the center of attention. Be
> brave enough to live different.” 

> “You are someone who is different, but who wants to be the same as everyone
> else. And that in my view is a serious illness. God chose you to be different.
> Why are you disappointing God with this kind of attitude?” 

The book was really a reminder for each one of us to embrace our own selves and
never conform to society’s norms, or else, we will end up losing our self in the
process.

Embrace madness, embrace you.

 * Fall of Five (I am Number Four Series book 4) by Pittacus Lore  (4 out of 5
   stars)

This book just gets better? The plot, the characters, the plot twists!!!

Just when I thought the whole flow was getting draggy with how the characters
were just aiming to beat Setrakus Ra (the villain) and all other Mogs, Adam’s
side story kind of made an impact and made the plot even interesting.

Don’t wanna spoil anything but this book was really a cliff-hanger.  Also, I
felt sad because we lost someone important here. 

Can’t wait to read the next one.

 * Ballad of Songbirds and Snakes by Suzanne Collins  (4 out of 5 stars)

The prequel of Suzanne Collin’s Hunger Game’a trilogy which narrates the life
of  Cornelius Snow (President Snow in the trilogy). The setting was during the
10th hunger games where 24 tributes (all children) are forced to battle death in
reality TV. The idea of Hunger Games is to punish the districts for the
rebellion they staged against Panem.

The novel tells us about the origin of the Hunger Games’ circus, the part in
which years after it has become successful (64 years after, fast-forward to
Katniss Everdeen’s time). 

In Ballad of Songbirds and Snakes, the Hunger Games arena is a literal one, with
an absence of advanced cameras following each tributes minute to minute actions
to scoop live feeds. In addition, each district doesn’t really care to watch the
Hunger Games yet. Not until, Cornelius Snow, suggested to get people involve– to
let them be part of the Games through betting odds to each tribute and
sponsoring them thru giving food & necessities. 

In this book, I have come to understand the WHY part of the Hunger Games. Why is
there a need to have one? It’s more of the children part really  but as what Dr.
Gaul, the Head Gamemaker, said it’s more of control to the people and how the
Games is essential to it. Kind of the social contract, the things Hobbes and
Locke would talk about.

The book was not as interesting as the original trilogy was. It feels like an
additional reading, if we put in a simpler perspective. An essential reading to
understand the setup of the trilogy. The WHY.

I just love how the book tries to show how humane Cornelius Snow is. TRIES. He’s
poor, he’s a dreamer, aims to achieve great things, in love. But I guess his
history never really defines who he becomes in the next three books. 

Bonus part, we get to meet District 12′s tribute, Lucy Gray, who, SPOILER
ALERT, won the games but was not really talked about because of some tampering
and inside jobs (won’t disclose any). But this Lucy Gray was a Covey musician,
she was not originally from Panem. Her family were travelling and during the war
they got locked inside District 12. You’ll know more of her when you read the
book but she was the one who composed the Hanging Tree song that Katniss sang
during the Games ( a rebellion song) featured in the movies.

All in all, I’d give this novel a FOUR out of FIVE  because it piqued my
interest and made me nervous. I literally had to pause to catch my breath and
prepare myself for a plot twist.

~~~

I think I have blabbered one month’s worth of book readings.  Thank you so much
for reading my book review!! See you next month, bookish friends. 



Feeling like a Taylor Swift Song
Musings


FEELING LIKE A TAYLOR SWIFT SONG

August 30, 2020September 18, 2021 dexthehallsLeave a comment

Another year has passed and I have completed another revolution around the sun!
Time indeed flies fast especially when life gives you a whirlwind of surprises
packed with happiness, loss and a lot more.

~22 Things I learned in (MY) Life ~
 Might not be applicable to you 

1. Don’t be too hard on yourself. Your failures and struggles will make up to
your long TED talk in the future. Just give yourself time and always remember to
learn from your past mistakes.

2. It’s okay not to figure things out on your own. We’re young adults and as
much as we want to be independent and run things smoothly, life is far from
perfect. So…

3. Don’t hesitate to seek advices to your family, friends and mentors.

4. Never stop learning. Always be open in sharpening your knowledge. Learn a new
language, a new skill, enroll in an online class not related to your degree.
Never get tired learning because learning is infinite 

5. Don’t compare yourself to others. Life is not a race about who gets there
first so focus on yourself and bloom with the other flowers in the garden. 

6. Always make sure that you are working not just to pay the bills but you are
working because it is your passion and it makes you happy. Remember, it is
fulfilling to be happy and tired at work than just tired.

7. Don’t let your work consume you. It might get overwhelming but always make
your health a PRIORITY. Relax & take a chill pill 

8. Always make time for the things that you love! Pursue your passions and make
it tangible. 
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@thedexielkayreads)

9. Always give people the benefit of the doubt.

10. Your kindness could go a long way. Be kind always.

11. If there’s an opportunity to help, never have a second thought.

12. It’s okay to cry for help.

13. Appreciate the gift of friendship– all of its kind. Always better to face
life’s hurdles with your friends to leaaan on. (you guys know who you are!)

14. Don’t be afraid to voice out your opinions. Even if some people try to shut
you down, it is never wrong to oppose, educate and stand to whichever side you
think is right.

15. A parcel a day may seem to keep the sadness away. BUT online shops will
never make you financially secured one day. (Self-note: Minimize online shops
and save)

16. Painting interior walls are not only therapeutic but it is also very
cost-efficient. Next time, try mo magkabit ng own tiles and paint exterior
walls. Panday ka ghorl?

17. I realized that Anime shows are great and I might have missed out a lot of
years in my life not watching them.

18. In case of another lockdown, always bring a book with you wherever you go.
(and pack a lot of clothes too! )

19. Find in your heart to forgive people including those that didn’t ask for
forgiveness. And ask forgiveness to those you have wrongfully sinned. Your own
peace matters.

20. A blessing is a blessing.  Be grateful always.

21. Always value and make time for the people that you love. I don’t want you to
be like me who just woke up one day and realized that someone very dear to her
will forever be gone. Don’t underestimate time.

22. Your resiliency makes you THAT empowered woman of today. What we carry
defines who we are. And the effort we make is our legacy. 

**end**

Waited for the perfect time to finally say this so here it goes, “I don’t know
about you but I’m feeling 22!” (Taylor Swift, 2012)

This might be a happy-sad birthday but thank you Lord for making me strong and
giving me such loving and supportive family, boyrfriend
and friends. I owe this to you. 





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