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CAROLYN HAX: DO THEY APOLOGIZE FOR MOCKING IN-LAW’S ‘WEIRD’ THANKSGIVING MEAL?

Their son is cooking Thanksgiving this year. Is that because, when his wife made
a gourmet version, they mocked it as “weird”?

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(Illustration by Nick Galifianakis for The Washington Post)
Column by Carolyn Hax
November 19, 2024 at 12:00 a.m. EST

Adapted from an online discussion.

Dear Carolyn: My mom had this saying, “Least said, soonest mended,” and I’m
wondering if it’s true with our daughter-in-law, “Lindsey.” My husband, younger
son and I had Thanksgiving with my son “Todd” and his wife a few years back.
Lindsey is a great cook and likes fancy food, so she made some unusual dishes:
goose rather than turkey, for example. I loved it all, but my husband and
younger son prefer familiar food and joked during the meal about all the “weird
dishes.”


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