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Accessibility statementSkip to main content Democracy Dies in Darkness SubscribeSign in Advertisement Democracy Dies in Darkness AdviceAsk ElaineAsking EricAsk SahajCarolyn HaxMiss MannersParenting AdviceWork Advice AdviceAsk ElaineAsking EricAsk SahajCarolyn HaxMiss MannersParenting AdviceWork Advice CAROLYN HAX: IS IT UNFAIR FOR SPOUSES TO VENT TO FRIENDS ABOUT THEIR MARRIAGE? A best friend and longtime sounding board for a troubled marriage wonders where the line is between healthy outlet and betrayal. 3 min 599 (Illustration by Nick Galifianakis for The Washington Post) Column by Carolyn Hax November 11, 2024 at 12:00 a.m. EST Adapted from an online discussion. Dear Carolyn: Best friend of 25 years has a roller-coaster marriage. His spouse has some diagnosed mental illness that is sometimes treated, often not. He loves his wife and his family, but it is often a lot to navigate. He uses me as a venting and sounding board, usually via text. 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