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 * Home
 * Quote EJ Gold
 * Hookability
 * QUOTE Clinton Callahan
 * Reactivity
 * QUOTE Lee Lozowick
 * 99 Ways
 * EXP 01-24
 * EXP 25-45
 * EXP 46-65
 * EXP 66-85
 * EXP 86-99
 * Bonus Experiments
 * Bonus Experiments
 * QUOTE
 * StartOver.xyz
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   * Home
   * Quote EJ Gold
   * Hookability
   * QUOTE Clinton Callahan
   * Reactivity
   * QUOTE Lee Lozowick
   * 99 Ways
   * EXP 01-24
   * EXP 25-45
   * EXP 46-65
   * EXP 66-85
   * EXP 86-99
   * Bonus Experiments
   * Bonus Experiments
   * QUOTE
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 * Quote EJ Gold
 * Hookability
 * QUOTE Clinton Callahan
 * Reactivity
 * QUOTE Lee Lozowick
 * 99 Ways
 * EXP 01-24
 * EXP 25-45
 * EXP 46-65
 * EXP 66-85
 * EXP 86-99
 * Bonus Experiments
 * Bonus Experiments
 * QUOTE
 * StartOver.xyz
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   * Quote EJ Gold
   * Hookability
   * QUOTE Clinton Callahan
   * Reactivity
   * QUOTE Lee Lozowick
   * 99 Ways
   * EXP 01-24
   * EXP 25-45
   * EXP 46-65
   * EXP 66-85
   * EXP 86-99
   * Bonus Experiments
   * Bonus Experiments
   * QUOTE
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Gremlin


 * BEING UNHOOKABLE
   
   IS ONE OF THE 7 CORE SKILLS
   
   OF A POSSIBILITATOR
   
   NOTE:
   
   NO ONE CAN BECOME UNHOOKABLE FOR YOU.
   
   ON THE OTHER HAND, NO ONE CAN STOP YOU FROM BECOMING UNHOOKABLE.

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 * THE ART OF BEING HOOKABLE
   
   TO GET SOMEWHERE ELSE THAN WHERE YOU ARE, YOU FIRST HAVE TO KNOW WHERE YOU
   ARE. PROBABLY, YOU ARE STILL HOOKABLE. ARE YOU HOOKABLE FROM HOOKS, BUTTONS,
   TRIGGERS, VOICES, PHYSICAL IMBALANCES OR UNHEALED TRAUMAS?
   
   HOOKED FROM THE INSIDE OR THE OUTSIDE
   
   Being unhookable is one of 7 core skills of a Possibility Manager and one
   that will change your life.
   
    
   
   When you are hooked, you go to sleep. Being hooked is being captured by your
   Box’s mechanical reactivity and your Gremlin defense mechanism getting
   triggered. You lose the possibility of choosing from alternative options.
   
    
   
   Being hooked cuts you off from the flow of the universe and forces your Box
   to run your life. The Box is a dead machine, so when you are hooked you lose
   your sentient multi-dimensional relatedness and turn into a robotic slave.
   This explains how people can soldier in the name of corporate agendas, fight
   religious wars, or replace self-exploration and service with daily financial
   desperation.
   
    
   
   There are two hooked states to detect: hooked from the inside, and hooked
   from the outside.
   
    
   
   Being hooked from the inside is when your empty space of silence is filled to
   the point where you become convinced of your own monologue (in technical
   terms: when you believe your own bullshit). This is when people join the
   ranks of the walking dead, when parents turn fanatical, or when consumers and
   employees accept being brainwashed. When you get innerly hooked you have no
   empty space to use for shifting into other possible ways of being.
   
    
   
   Being hooked from the outside is when your empty space is crushed by your
   Box’s survival reactions to external stimuli (in technical terms: when you
   believe their bullshit). Your Box’s neurotic reflex tramples your free inner
   space and discards it like a wadded up piece of litter. When you get outerly
   hooked you lose the silent inner emptiness out of which to generate nonlinear
   ways of behaving.
   
    
   
   In both cases, under a survival imperative, your Box and Gremlin jump up and
   run your life instead of you.
   
   YOUR BOX GETS HOOKED
   
   Being unhookable means having the capacity to act independently from the
   circumstances, no matter what the circumstances are.
   
    
   
   A 'hook' is any stimulus that might cause an automatic emotional reaction.
   The list of potential hooks is endless. It can drive people instantly nuts if
   you chew with your mouth open, ring the doorbell twice, insinuate that
   someone is stupid, criticize someone’s religion, brag about your kids’
   grades, give problem solutions unasked for, continuously talk, make house
   decoration suggestions, refuse to tell your birthday, give away a movie plot
   before someone has seen the movie, and so on.
   
    
   
   Obviously it is not you that gets hooked; it is your Box that gets hooked.
   You can prove this because different hooks catch different kinds of 'fish',
   meaning what hooks one person’s Box may be invisible to another’s. The
   instant you are hooked you lose access to any possibilities other than your
   Box’s mechanical reactions – you forget what Extraordinary and Archetypal
   possibilities are and how to go there. You are stuck in Ordinary. The brain
   dumps a truckload of hormones into your system and your adrenaline shoots
   through the roof. You can’t hide being hooked because everybody around you
   sees and feels the side effects. It takes a minimum of fifteen minutes to
   metabolize the chemicals out of your system and return to normal again –
   fifteen minutes you will never get back again.
   
    
   
   Each of us contains a variety of internal characters or parts, one of which –
   known as the “Gremlin”­– derives great joy by hooking other people. Some
   Gremlins entertain themselves by seeing how many people they can hook in a
   day, because once a person is hooked, the Gremlin has won. Hooking others is
   also a strong defensive strategy for the Box because once you have hooked
   someone else they have no power to create unpredictable behaviors.
   
    
   
   Human beings are so easily hooked that if you actually succeed at becoming
   even partly unhookable you almost seem inhuman. Staying unhookable, while
   still remaining human, is an art form.
   
   STAYING UNHOOKABLE
   
   Staying unhookable does not mean unfeeling, isolated, shut down or numb. On
   the contrary, staying unhookable means that you perceive the hooks with great
   sensitivity and precision, and while still being compassionate, you shift
   slightly into a different space before the hooks have a chance to set into
   the psychological flesh of your Box.
   
    
   
   Staying unhookable is not so different from bullfighting. The toreador knows
   that a bull performs certain predictable movements, which are neither good
   nor bad; they are simply the movements that bulls make. To interact with the
   bull the toreador stands with his Red Cloth to his side, not in front of him.
   The bull automatically goes for the red cloth. With the cloth held to the
   side, the bull runs past while doing no harm. The toreador stays in contact
   with the bull but does not get hit. If the toreador held his cloth in front
   of him he would bullfight no longer. He would be hooked.
   
    
   
   Hooks can be anything – looks, gestures, sounds, physical objects – so you
   cannot stay unhookable by simply trying to avoid hooks. A true capacity for
   staying unhookable emerges through first admitting that you are indeed hooked
   when you realize you are hooked.
   
    
   
   Start by naming your condition. Say, “I am hooked.” Notice what it feels
   like, how often it occurs, how long it lasts, and what your
   hooked-reaction-patterns tend to be. Consciousness creates freedom. Your
   ability to stay unhookable matures through increased awareness of your Box’s
   hookability.

 *  
    
    
    
   "BECOMING UNHOOKABLE IS AN IDENTITY-SHIFT,
   NOT A SKILL THAT YOU CAN 'MASTER'."
   
   - CLINTON CALLAHAN

 * REACTIVITY
   
   IF YOUR ACTION IS ACTUALLY REACTION, THEN YOU ARE NOT BEING YOU. YOU ARE
   BEING A ZOMBIE.
   
   
   COMMON SYMPTOMS OF BEING HOOKED:
   
   
   
   There are a zillion indicators that you are Hooked when you are Hooked, so
   many that pretending you are not Hooked when you ARE Hooked is silly.
   
    
   
   Here are some examples:
   
    
   
   • Feeling offended or insulted, being stressed, worrying, disapproving
   
   • Swearing, striking out, destroying, attacking, throwing dishes, kicking the
   dog
   
   • Making physical gestures or faces (giving the finger, sticking out the
   tongue, etc.)
   
   • Childish fears or sadness, feeling as a victim, sacrificing yourself,
   playing small
   
   • Resenting, judging, criticizing, blaming, threatening, overdoing it,
   underdoing it
   
   • Trying to be right, defending yourself, justifying yourself
   
   • Being numb, being indifferent (as opposed to being neutral)
   
   • Pouting, sulking, making excuses, giving up hope, resignation
   
   • Being cynical, ironical, being self–important, bragging, exaggerating
   
   • Being stuck in linear thinking, trying to be prepared for anything
   
   • Competing, challenging, comparing yourself with others, envy, jealousy
   
   • Excluding others, feeling superior, trying to look good, being arrogant
   
   • Thinking that you have lost, feeling like a failure, isolating, feeling
   depressed
   
   • Defending your position, arguing, giving reasons, saying, “Yes, but…”
   
   • Being adaptive, ‘kissing ass’, giving your center away, trying to be nice
   
   • Manipulating, blackmailing, forcing your way, trying to enforce control
   
   • Complaining, feeling ‘sour grapes’, saying “So what!”; ignoring someone
   
   • Backbiting, gossiping, triangulating, having arguments in your mind
   
   • Forgetting your destiny or your Bright Principles
   
   • Thinking of having a drink... or a smoke...
   
   • Panicking, compulsive behavior, addictive behavior, mechanical behavior
   
   • Being embarrassed, saying, “I cannot,” feeling stage fright, being stuck at
   Go
   
   • Losing your attention, being distracted by advertising, snooping, voyeurism
   
   • Hesitating, being speechless, stalling, delaying, oversleeping, daydreaming
   
   • Answering questions with questions, saying, “Of course!”
   
   • Name calling, making fun of someone, imitating someone else’s mannerisms
   
   • Interrupting conversations, having to tell your opinion, having to do
   something
   
   • Saying, “Always…” or, “Never…” trying to be perfect, trying to be the best
   
   • Thinking that you can win, trying to profit, trying to have power over
   others
   
   • Trying to Hook someone back, trying to piss someone else off
   
   • Pretending to be unhookable… and so on.
   
    
   
   NOTE: The moment you have any of the above behaviors, attitudes or
   experiences, you are hooked! (Go directly to jail – do not pass GO. Do not
   collect $200.)
   
    
   
   It does not work to try to be unhookable once you are already hooked. You
   re-enter reality by simply admitting, “I am hooked!” Then giving yourself a
   pause before starting over.
   
   
   6 TYPES OF HOOKING MECHANISMS
   
   
   
   One of the most powerful blocks against linear and nonlinear Possibility is
   ‘being Hooked’.
   
    
   
   ‘Being Hooked’ refers to an emotional state of Reactivity that arises through
   unconsciously responding to:
   
    1. A BUTTON that is designed into your Box as a rule, belief, conclusion,
       assumption, expectation, judgement, bias, etc.
    2. A HOOK that is thrown by another Gremlin to seduce your Gremlin into a
       Gremlin Feeding Frenzy.
    3. A TRIGGER Phrase that opens the door to your internal energy world as a
       24 hour all-you-can-eat free-for-all buffet for energetic vampire
       entities to devour your life energy and force you into low energy,
       hiding-out behaviors, and depression.
    4. An psycho-emotional TRAUMA that has not yet been made conscious and used
       responsibly as a Doorway to a Transformational Emotional Healing Process.
    5. An IMBALANCE in the physical body caused by improper diet, over-eating,
       under-eating, toxins in the system including phone radiation, WiFi
       radiation, food additives, exhaustion, stress or hormonal imbalances.
    6. A VOICE in your head which you still listen to that comes from an
       external authority figure which you have not taken your Authority back
       from, still give your Center to, still behave Adaptively towards.
   
   
   

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   'BE THAT WHICH NOTHING CAN TAKE ROOT IN.'
   
    
   
   - LEE LOZOWICK
   
    
   
    
   
    
   
    
   
   

 * 99 WAYS FOR BEING UNHOOKABLE
   
   ...EACH WAY IS A STEP ALONG A PATH OF PRACTICE, A STEP YOU TAKE OVER AND
   OVER.
   
   

 * 01-24 EXPERIMENTS FOR BEING UNHOOKABLE
   
   PRACTICE IS A PATH OF DISCOVERY!
   
   
   BECOME UNHOOKABLE BY LOWERING YOUR NUMBNESS BAR
   
   MATRIX CODE: BUNHOOKA.01
   
   The hint that tells you that your numbness bar is high is that you do not
   even notice that you are hooked until hours, days, maybe months after the
   incident that hooked you. During those hours, days or months, you were hooked
   and out of the present without noticing it, and therefore without a choice
   about it.
   
    
   
   Lowering your numbness bar makes you more sensitive to when you are hooked or
   even about to be hooked so that you have a choice about being hooked or
   staying unhookable.
   
    
   
   Once a day, for an entire week, take 20 minutes for yourself and bring your
   Beep! Book along. Go through your interactions of the day, one by one and
   check thoroughly how and what hooked you in your interaction.
   
    * What is the tone of their voice?
    * What is the word they used?
    * What is an idea of them? an old story that you've heard too often?
    * What is the voice in your head telling you 'you were not good enough, not
      smart enough to talk to them' or maybe 'you are too busy and too brilliant
      to spend time with those people'?
    * What is their physical appearance?
    * What is the story that you have about them?
   
   Write clearly and descriptively your hook and the emotions that came with it
   (anger, sadness, fear or joy). Keep your Beep! Book around and start paying
   attention to when those particular hooks take you out (they will more often
   than you think!!).
   
    
   
   The sooner you can notice the hooks, the less time you have to be hooked.
   Lowering your numbness bar one step at a time, one hook at a time, creates in
   you an awareness of the sensation of being hooked. Soon, you will notice that
   sensation before you let your Box and Gremlin get hooked and that is when you
   have the real choice: to stay awake, present and loving or to go in survival.
   It is a choice worth working for.
   
    
   
   At the end of this week, please enter Matrix Code: BUNHOOKA.01 in your free
   account at StartOver.xyz.
   
    
   
   This experiment is worth 1 Matrix point.
   
    
   
   
   BECOME UNHOOKABLE BY BECOMING CENTERED
   
   MATRIX COD: BUNHOOKA.02
   
   Being centered is a sensation, not a concept. Being centered is the sensation
   that you experience when you put your energetic center on your physical
   center (your center of gravity).
   
    
   
   Being centered is the sensation when you stand in your own power. When you do
   not give you power/center away to authority figures.
   
    
   
   You can also give your center away to ideas, or to the future or to the past.
   
    
   
   For a whole week, practice Being Centered. Every time you pass through a
   doorway, pause for several moments and bring your attention to your Physical
   Center, and use your Clicker to move your Energetic Center onto your Physical
   Center. Also do this before you get out of bed, before you go to sleep, and
   before you eat or drink. Put up signs to remind yourself.
   
    
   
   At the end of each day, write in your Beep! Book about any ways or people,
   ideas that you gave your center to. Did you give it to the past or the
   future? This is not about right or wrong this is about noticing.
   
    
   
   When the week is over, please log into your free account at StartOver.xyz and
   enter the Matrix Code: BUNHOOKA.02.
   
    
   
   This experiment is worth 1 Matrix point.
   
    
   
   
   BECOME UNHOOKABLE BY BECOMING GROUNDED
   
   MATRIX CODE: BUNHOOKA.03
   
   Your Grounding Cord connects your energetic Center to the center of the
   Earth, the center of Gaia.
   
    
   
   This connection functions in both directions:
   
    1. As a grounding cord to dispose of unneeded energies into Gaia.
    2. As a receiver of personal and general impulses directly from Gaia.
   
   No one can Become Grounded for you.
   
    
   
   More interestingly, no one can stop you from Becoming Grounded.
   
    
   
   For a whole day, split 10%-5% of your attention to notice your Grounding Cord
   as you move through your day. Start with the percentage you need to maintain
   noticing it.
   
    
   
   Use your clicker, with a burst of low intensity Anger to declare your
   Grounding Cord, and keep noticing it.
   
    
   
   Notice, as you move through your day if your Grounding Cord changes colour,
   and any other changes. Notice if you need to raise the percentage of your
   split attention to keep noticing your Grounding Cord.
   
    
   
   Set an alarm to go off every hour to remind you you are doing this experiment
   in case you forget.
   
    
   
   At the end of the day, record in your Beep! Book for 20 minutes about what
   happened.
   
    
   
   After completing this experiment, please log into your free account at
   StartOver.xyz and enter Matrix Code: BUNHOOKA.03
   
    
   
   This experiment is worth 1 Matrix point.
   
    
   
   Keep doing this experiment for the rest of your life. Notice the change in
   percentage of split attention it takes as you practice over the years.
   
    
   
   Give your Gremlin the job of catching you if you become ungrounded.
   
    
   
   
   BECOME UNHOOKABLE BY STAYING BUBBLED
   
   MATRIX CODE: BUNHOOKA.04
   
   When you stay in a Small NOW in the Present and use your Split Attention,
   your Intention, and your Clicker, you can energetically Declare a Bubble of
   personal space.
   
    
   
   The Bubble is an Experiential Distinction that surrounds your Physical Body
   at about half-an-arm's distance.
   
    
   
   The Bubble is transparent, flexible, and resilient.
   
    
   
   Inside the Bubble is your own personal Space.
   
    
   
   Outside the Bubble is everyone else's Space.
   
    
   
   Psychic etiquette demands that the inside of your Bubble remain free of
   everyone else's energy.
   
    
   
   The indicator that you have someone else's energy in your Space is if you are
   having a conversation or argument with another person in your mind.
   
    
   
   Having a cleansed and renewed Bubble is part of the First Position of a
   Possibility Manager.
   
    
   
   For a week, at the beginning, middle and end of each day, set your Bubble and
   for five minutes, use your attention and intention to:
   
   - for one minute, cleanse it,
   
   - for another minute, spin it slowly in one direction
   
   - and the other, for another minute, then
   
   - for one minute expand and contract your bubble as you breathe, and
   
   -for one more minute just be with your bubble, feeling it, and enjoying it.
   
    
   
   At the end of the week, log into your free account at StartOver.xyz and enter
   the code: BUNHOOKA.04
   
    
   
   This experiment is worth 1 Matrix point.
   
    
   
   
   BECOME UNHOOKABLE BY DOING COMPLETION LOOPS
   
   MATRIX CODE: BUNHOOKA.05
   
   Conscious communication with Completion Loops is so simple, rewarding, and
   enjoyable.
   
   How do you do it?
   
   You complete the communication from the other person before starting the next
   communication of your own.
   
    
   
   Read the Completion Loops website about Roadblocks and how to do completion
   loops.
   
    
   
   For one week, at the end of every day, in your Beep! Book, write down
   examples of when you used either Road Blocks or Completion Loops. For the
   first day, just notice, and write about it. From the second day, on, commit
   to catching yourself using Road Blocks, and use Completion Loops instead. You
   may need to ask people for Do-Overs.
   
    
   
   Each evening for 20 minutes, write in your Beep! Book about how it's going.
   
    
   
   At the end of the week, log into your free account at StartOver.xyz and enter
   the code: BUNHOOKA.05
   
    
   
   This experiment is worth 1 Matrix point.
   
    
   
   
   BECOME UNHOOKABLE BY SAYING: "I FEEL MAD/SAD/GLAD/SCARED ABOUT THIS
   BECAUSE..."
   
   MATRIX CODE: BUNHOOKA.06
   
   We have been discovering that human beings have only four feelings: anger,
   sadness, joy, and fear, from which every other feeling or emotion is made.
   
    
   
   The four primary feelings are like the primary colors from which all other
   colors can be made.
   
    
   
   Clearly communicating about your feelings and emotions establishes deep
   connections between people almost instantly. Learning how to clearly
   communicate your feelings and emotions does not take so long.
   
    
   
   To do this experiment, first review the website 4 Feelings with a friend, or
   with a team, and if you are doing it with a team, pair people up for a week
   long experiment.
   
    
   
   Agree with your experiment partner about who will go first, and for the
   duration of the week, make time to send messages back and forth to each other
   so that you each send at least five messages a day.
   
    
   
   To do this, pause, notice your four feelings: anger, sadness, fear and joy,
   and compose a text to your partner beginning with:
   
    
   
   I feel anger about/I feel angry because....
   
   I feel sadness about/I feel sad because....
   
   I feel fear about/I feel scared because....
   
   I feel joy about/I feel glad because....
   
    
   
   When you have completed the four sentences, send the message, and this will
   prompt your partner to respond, "Thank you," and, when they are able, to
   pause, notice and write their own four sentences.
   
    
   
   At the end of the week, in your next Team meeting, or of you are doing this
   with one partner, have a call or visit with them to tell about how you felt
   and what you thought about doing this experiment together.
   
    
   
   At the end of the week, log into your free account at StartOver.xyz and enter
   the code: BUNHOOKA.06
   
    
   
   This experiment is worth 1 Matrix point.
   
    
   
   
   BECOME UNHOOKABLE BY MAKING BOUNDARIES USING CONSCIOUS ANGER
   
   MATRIX CODE: BUNHOOKA.07
   
   On the Old Map of Four Feelings, when we feel angry, we believe (or others
   think of us) that we are aggressive, out of control, dangerous, loud, crazy,
   hysterical, we create conflict, we destroy everything.
   
    
   
   On the New Map of Four Feelings, each feeling has its own unique information
   and energy that is your own rocket fuel to fulfill your Destiny.
   
    
   
   With anger you can start, stop and change things, you can say no/yes, say
   stop, say what you want and what you don't want, make boundaries and
   distinctions, make decisions and hold commitment, etc (and a lot lot more!)
   
    
   
   This experiment is about using Conscious Anger to make boundaries.
   
    
   
   In your Beep! Book, on a new page, write the heading, "MY BOUNDARIES," and
   make two columns by drawing a line down the middle of the page.
   
    
   
   Start a list in the left side of the page of Boundaries you have, boundaries
   about what you want and do not want, what you choose and do not choose. As
   the week goes on, add to your list on the left. Notice especially Boundaries
   that you have challenges about making. For example, you might write down:
   
   "I don't want to be interrupted;
   
   I want no dirty dishes in the morning;
   
   I choose to be on time for my appointments;
   
   I want quiet after 10pm at night;
   
   ..."
   
    
   
   Also as the week goes on, make 10 minutes twice each day to write in the
   right column, ways of making each Boundary. For example:
   
    
   
   Saying: "Wait, I am not finished talking"/ "Don't interrupt me"/"Stop!"
   
    
   
   Declaring: "I will do the dishes by 8pm."
   
   Declaring: "I propose that we take turns washing the dishes by 8pm;" asking,
   "Can you agree?"
   
    
   
   Deciding: "I set alarms to remind myself it's time to leave"/ "I add five
   minutes extra time to arrive, get settled, get centered, grounded and bubbled
   for my appointment."
   
    
   
   Asking: "Will you turn down the music?"
   
   Declaring: "I want quiet now."
   
   Closing the door, putting in ear plugs.
   
    
   
   Practice setting these boundaries, with others and with your self, using
   conscious anger.
   
    
   
   On the last day of the week, write about how this went for you. Then log into
   your free account at StartOver.xyz and enter the code: BUNHOOKA.07
   
    
   
   This experiment is worth 1 Matrix point.
   
    
   
   If you want to do more experiments using Conscious Anger, find and join a
   Rage Club.
   
    
   
   
   BECOME UNHOOKABLE BY KEEPING YOUR SWORD OF CLARITY TO HAND
   
   MATRIX CODE: BUNHOOKA.08
   
   Your Sword of Clarity is one of your 13 tools on your energetic toolbelt.
   Once you can distinguish your 5 bodies, you gain access to your energetic
   toolbelt through the senses of your energetic body. Read more about your 5
   bodies here.
   
   This experiment is to experientially experience your Sword of Clarity as a
   tool for unhookability. Start by reading the entire website Sword of Clarity
   slowly and thoroughly. While you are reading the website, start experiencing
   that your Clarity is held in your 5 bodies, and that distinctions are held in
   your energetic body.
   
   Then, starting now and for the next 3 days, use your Sword of Clarity to
   distinguish when someone is hooked around you. Do not say anything about it,
   do not try to make it go away, do not try to fix them. Your experiment is to
   notice experientially the quality of the person’s energy, of your
   interaction, of the space when that person is hooked.
   
   You might notice, for example, tightness in the space, a withdrawal from the
   person, coldness in their voice, aggression in the word they use, emotions
   that they would try to suppress, them trying to be right or clever…
   Distinguishing that these behaviours are symptoms of them being hooked comes
   from your Sword of Clarity.
   
   Once you have completed this experiment please enter Matrix Code: BUNHOOKA.08
   in your free account at StartOver.xyz.
   
   This experiment is worth 1 Matrix point.
   
   Bonus experiment: who else do you think gets hooked? Yes, you! For the next 3
   days, notice experientially using your Sword of Clarity - this time towards
   yourself - the sensation of being hooked. Do not try to make it go away, do
   not try to suppress it (you cannot!), instead, admit that you are hooked by
   saying: ‘I am hooked’.
   
    
   
   
   BECOME UNHOOKABLE BY SPEAKING DISTINCTIONS OUT LOUD IN THE SPACE
   
   MATRIX CODE: BUNHOOKA.09
   
   Today, read through the online Distinctionary.
   
   Keep in mind that people create what they can create according to the
   limitations of their Thoughtware.
   
   During this day, whenever something does not seem 'right', think about
   Thoughtware.
   
   What Thoughtware is being used? By you? By the others?
   
   What Thoughtware is being ignored? By you? By the others?
   
   When a Distinction comes to you, say it out loud in the space. For example,
   "There is a difference between a Feeling and an Emotion."
   
   It does not matter if the Distinction you say matches the rest of the
   conversation or not. Just say the Distinction out loud with fierceness, and
   then stay in the space of the Distinction. Notice what happens.
   
   People may leave that new space and try to return to the previous space.
   
   People may stay in the new space with you and an interesting conversation
   might start.
   
   Make notes about what happens in your Beep! Book, and say what you learn.
   
   At the end of this day, please enter Matrix Code: BUNHOOKA.09 in your free
   account at StartOver.xyz.
   
    
   
   This experiment is worth 1 Matrix point.
   
    
   
   
   BECOME UNHOOKABLE BY LISTING 50 NITS OF YOUR BOX
   
   MATRIX CODE: BUNHOOKA.10
   
   You have a Box. You are not your Box.
   
   Your box is made up of your likes and dislikes, your opinions, beliefs,
   justifications, preferences, stories, assumptions, expectations, and so on.
   It is an intricate machine built for survival. It has specific ways of
   filtering your output AND the input from the world with the objective of
   keeping you safe.
   
    
   
   Tada! The Box technology has worked, because you have survived until now.
   
    
   
   One of the ways to Become Unhookable is to get to know your Box. Once your
   Box mechanisms become conscious, you get to choose whether you want to use
   them or not. WARNING: this is not about killing the Box. This is about
   putting your "x" on the map so you can Expand the Box.
   
    
   
   This experiment starts with self-observation. For one week, pay attention to
   the mechanisms of your box. Write down a list of 50 Box characteristics in
   your Beep! Book. It might take you more than one week to get to 50 - take the
   time that you need. Hint: start by reading the 18 standard Boxes website.
   
    
   
   Once you have completed the list of 50 characteristics of your Box, please
   enter Matrix Code: BUNHOOKA.10 in your free account at StartOver.xyz.
   
    
   
   This experiment is worth 1 Matrix Point.
   
    
   
   
   BECOME UNHOOKABLE BY CREATING 10 NEW OPTIONS TO CHOOSE FROM
   
   MATRIX CODE: BUNHOOKA.11
   
   Human beings have the power to create stories that shape the way we interact
   with the world, with ourselves, with goals/obstacles, and so on. These
   stories are inspired by our Box mechanisms, and serve the purpose of
   protecting the Box. Once we have a story, we attach emotions to it and start
   telling our story to others and to ourselves. This shapes our reality.
   
    
   
   To do this experiment, take 30 minutes to sit down Beep! Book and a pen. Ask
   yourself: what is stopping me from achieving my fullest potential? Write down
   all the stories that come to mind, without taking time to think about them.
   
   Now, take a look at what you wrote. It could be that you wrote something
   like:
   
   "I don't have enough money to pay for the training that I need."
   
   or
   
   "I can't achieve my fullest potential because I don't know what my Purpose
   is."
   
   or
   
   "I have to take over the family business."
   
    
   
   Just as you have the power to create stories, you have the power to change
   your mind about them. Take one, two or three of your stories, and change them
   to create 10 new options for yourself to choose from. Use some Is-Glue
   Dissolver!
   
    
   
   Once you have your list of 10 new options, please enter Matrix Code:
   BUNHOOKA.11 in your free account at StartOver.xyz.
   
    
   
   This experiment is worth 1 Matrix point.
   
    
   
   
   BECOME UNHOOKABLE BY UNMIXING YOUR EMOTIONS
   
   MATRIX CODE: BUNHOOKA.12
   
   You don't have access to your Feelings because you are hooked into your
   psycho-emotional chemical experience. This seems like reality.
   
    
   
   Mixed emotions are experiences such as depression, guilt, excitement, shame,
   jealousy, nostalgia, resentment, despair, etc. You cannot heal the emotions
   until they are unmixed.
   
    
   
   For this one-week experiment, notice when you have mixed emotions. As soon as
   you notice the mixed emotion, pause. Ask your heart, "what am I sad about?
   What am I mad about? Scared? Glad?" Start with the emotion that has the
   highest intensity.
   
    
   
   Write in your Beep! Book the patterns you discover. Which mixed emotions are
   you most familiar with?
   
    
   
   Ask for an Emotional Healing Process to unmix them.
   
    
   
   Once you have completed this experiment, enter the Matrix Code: BUNHOOKA.12
   in your free account at StartOver.xyz.
   
    
   
   This experiment is worth 1 Matrix Point.
   
    
   
   
   BECOME UNHOOKABLE BY HOLDING YOUR RED CLOTH TO THE SIDE
   
   MATRIX CODE: BUNHOOKA.13
   
   Nobody has told you that you have an energetic tool called the Red Cloth,
   which allows you to stay unhookable. This is the toreador tool.
   Unconsciously, you have been holding the Red Cloth in front of your heart.
   This allows bulls (that is to say, Gremlins) to kill you, to hook you.
   
    
   
   Before you start this experiment, get yourself a red cloth; a
   handkerchief-sized one that you can put in your pocket.
   
    
   
   For one week, once a day for one conversation, pull your cloth out. Do this
   even if you don't know that there will be any hooks (there will be). Hold the
   cloth out beside you. Do not say anything, explain or justify yourself. If
   the person asks about it, tell them that you are doing an experiment but you
   are listening to them and you are with them.
   
    
   
   Do the experiment of letting any hooks go by, into the Red Cloth.
   
    
   
   When the conversation is over, put the cloth back in your pocket and continue
   with your day.
   
    
   
   Do this once a day on each of the seven days then enter the Matrix Code:
   BUNHOOKA.13 in your free account at StartOver.xyz.
   
    
   
   This experiment is worth 1 Matrix point.
   
   
   BECOME UNHOOKABLE BY USING YOUR DISK OF NOTHING
   
   MATRIX CODE: BUNHOOKA.14
   
   The Disk of Nothing is your primary energetic tool to become unhookable and
   most of you don't even know that you have a Disk of Nothing. Now you do.
   
    
   
   It is your own personal 'stargate,' through which exists the immense
   Nothingnesss.
   
    
   
   When a Gremlin throws a hook and you pull out your Disk of Nothing, the hook
   is immediately pulled into your Disk of Nothing. It cannot hold on to you
   because it is sucked into Nothingnesss.
   
    
   
   This might be weird for you if you haven't been to Expand the Box, or have
   not yet become familiar with the other 13 Tools on your energetic tool belt.
   Once you start using your Disk of Nothing, you will see how powerful it is.
   
    
   
   For this experiment, find or make a golden ring that is 10 cm across. It
   could be anything: plastic or iron, coloured or painted gold, or you could
   braid together some hay into a golden circle. This will be your Disk of
   Nothing. Have it before you start.
   
    
   
   For one whole week, 3 times a day, use your Disk of Nothing in the face of
   Gremlin hooks.
   
    
   
   Take it out when you know you are in a meeting, a call or a conversation with
   a Gremlin. It might be with your boss, your mother, or the friend of your
   child. Just pull it out. You can hold it next to your pocket; it doesn't have
   to be visible for it to work. 
   
    
   
   Have the conversation with your Disk of Noting in your hand. The Gremlin will
   try to hook you. Notice the hook getting pulled into Nothingness. Stay in
   Connection with the Being in front of you.
   
    
   
   When you have used it 3 times a day for one week enter the Matrix Code:
   BUNHOOKA.14 in your free account at StartOver.xyz.
   
    
   
   This experiment is worth 1 Matrix point.
   
   
   BECOME UNHOOKABLE BY DISTINGUISHING BETWEEN BULLSHIT AND NOTHING
   
   MATRIX CODE: BUNHOOKA.15
   
   We have been trained to be hooked by Bullshit. To be gullible to Bullshit. We
   even get hooked into believing our own bullshit.
   
    
   
   There are only two things in life: Bullshit or Nothing. Nothing is true for
   more than 3 seconds. A moment passes, and it is gone. The rest is all stories
   (Bullshit). This hook is made up of the belief that the Bullshit is true.
   
    
   
   The purpose of this experiment is to practice the distinction between
   story-making, and Nothingness.
   
    
   
   For one week, choose one hour per day where you filter everything that is
   happening, that you're thinking or that other people are telling you. "Is
   this bullshit or not?"
   
    
   
   Take out your Beep! Book and write down your major sources of Bullshit. Write
   down the major source of other people's Bullshit. Yes, survival; and more
   precision will bring more consciousness.
   
    
   
   The more your Bullshit Detector goes off, the more hooks are contained within
   the Bullshit.
   
    
   
   After one week of distinguishing between Bullshit and Nothing for one hour
   each day, enter the Matrix Code: BUNHOOKA.15 in your free account at
   StartOver.xyz.
   
    
   
   This experiment is worth 1 Matrix point.
   
   
   BECOME UNHOOKABLE BY MAKING INTERESTING OFFERS
   
   MATRIX CODE: BUNHOOKA.16
   
   You can make offers from each of your Ego-states. Any offer that is not an
   Adult or Archetypal offer serves the purpose of survival.
   
    
   
   For the next week, your job is to make offers that are serving life. Start
   conversations with a hook-free offer that sets the context of the
   conversation as an extraordinary space free from Gremlin.
   
    
   
   Watch out not to get hooked by other Gremlins' survival offers.
   
    
   
   For example, starting a conversation about somebody that is not there is a
   Gremlin offer for gossip. Instead, look beyond your Box and beyond the other
   person's Box. Declare the other person's qualities of Being: what you
   appreciate about their presence, what they bring into a space, why the Earth
   needs them, and so on.
   
    
   
   On the first day, make three offers for Being to Being connection, through
   the Adult or Archetypal ego-state. The next day, make four offers. Then 5, 6,
   7, etc., until you have experimented for one week.
   
    
   
   When you have completed this experiment, enter the Matrix Code: BUNHOOKA.14
   in your free account at StartOver.xyz.
   
    
   
   This experiment is worth 1 Matrix point.
   
   
   BECOME UNHOOKABLE BY HAVING YOUR GREMLIN SIT AT YOUR SIDE
   
   MATRIX CODE: BUNHOOKA.17
   
    
   
    
   
   enter the Matrix Code: BUNHOOKA.14 in your free account at StartOver.xyz.
   
    
   
   This experiment is worth 1 Matrix point.
   
   
   BECOME UNHOOKABLE BY USING YOUR VOICE BLASTER AGAINST THE VOICES
   
   MATRIX CODE: BUNHOOKA.18
   
   The voices are actually not in your head but just floating around you. The
   instant you listen to those voices, you believe them and automatically you
   are hooked out of the present in some swampy storyworld. Most probably, you
   know the swamp...
   
   The instant you listen to a voice you're hooked. You're hooked into the value
   system ad storyworld of the voice. Wrost then that, you might try to hook
   other people into this story world so they can pity you, understand you,
   rescue you. Sets up survival conversations. It's a sensation to get hooked by
   the voices. The voices are not in your head - you think they're in your head
   because you've made them normal. When you shoot make sure the echo of the
   voice in your head also gets shot .The voices are vampire entities. They're
   not mine. Saying them out loud moves them to outside.
   
    
   
   For one week, shoot all the voices. Notice how you unhook yourself by doing
   that. The experience of the silence and not falling into the storyworld.
   
    
   
    
   
   enter the Matrix Code: BUNHOOKA.14 in your free account at StartOver.xyz.
   
    
   
   This experiment is worth 1 Matrix point.
   
   
   BECOME UNHOOKABLE BY REMEMBERING YOUR OWN DEATH
   
   MATRIX CODE: BUNHOOKA.19
   
   Our unconscious ability our unconscious skill to be hookable is ignited and
   fed by our amnesia that this could be our last moment with this person or
   even on Earth.
   
    
   
   If we lived in that possibility, the insane choice of being hooked with
   someone or with ourselves would seem so ridiculous, that that is how we would
   want to spend our last moment on Earth.
   
    
   
   In reality, this moment you will never have again. Ever.
   
    
   
   It is forever gone. You will never be able to change what you said, how you
   felt or how you behaved. It is forever in history how you chose to spend that
   moment.
   
    
   
   The experiment for this week is therefore to live closer to death, live with
   death by your side.
   
    
   
   Find and carry a reminder of death for seven days.
   
    
   
   It could be the real skull of an animal.
   
    
   
   Carry it with you everywhere you go, in the shower, when you cook, in your
   bed, on your desk at work, if you read stories to your children at bedtime,
   as a reminder that this moment could be your last, you will never get the
   chance to live this moment again.
   
    
   
   That moment dies. The next moment dies.
   
    
   
   Notice what matters. Your righteousness? Notice what you put at the center of
   your life. What is important?
   
    
   
   A warning or hint: this is not about not having boundaries. On the contrary,
   if this is your last moment, how do you want to spend it?
   
    
   
   When you have kept this reminder of death with you everywhere for one week
   you can enter the Matrix Code: BUNHOOKA.19 in your free account at
   StartOver.xyz.
   
    
   
   This experiment is worth 1 Matrix point.
   
   
   BECOME UNHOOKABLE BY BECOMING A TRIGGER HUNTER (FOR TRIGGERS)
   
   MATRIX CODE: BUNHOOKA.20
   
   Trigger Sentences are vampires waiting for you to be available for their
   hooks.
   
    
   
   The way you become available is you tell yourself the Trigger Sentence and
   that is the hook into which they can pull to feed on you.
   
    
   
    
   
   This experiment is about you and a buddy becoming Trigger Sentence Hunters.
   
    
   
   With a Buddy, someone else who wants to become unhookable, read SPARK 135 at
   the beginning of the week each with the intention of becoming a Trigger
   Hunter to become unhookable.
   
    
   
   With your buddy, make a Pirate Agreement that you will pay 10 euros or
   dollars to a specific cause, every time you get hooked by a Trigger Sentence.
   
    
   
   For the entire week, hunt the triggers, and refuse to be food for this kind
   of hook. Take a stand for yourself to not be available to the vampires.
   
    
   
   Tell your buddy about every trigger that you capture.
   
    
   
   At the end of your week, with your buddy, take all the money and give it to
   the cause.
   
    
   
   Then you can each enter the Matrix Code: BUNHOOKA.20 in your free accounts at
   StartOver.xyz.
   
    
   
   This experiment is worth 1 Matrix point.
   
   
   BECOME UNHOOKABLE BY LEARNING LANGUAGE FOR THE DOMINANT BRAINS OF YOU AND
   YOUR TEAM
   
   MATRIX CODE: BUNHOOKA.21
   
   We each have four brains and we often grow dominant in one or two brains.
   What is important in terms of being unhookable is that some dominant brains
   are at war with each other.
   
    
   
   The BLUE brain that is about planning and thinking, is often in war with the
   RED brain, which is about getting things done. The RED brain could be at war
   with the YELLOW brain, because the yellow brain is all about vision and
   timelessness. Dominant brains hook each other by their differences, and by
   their different relationships to life or to projects.
   
    
   
   It is such a relief to have the clarity that, one, you have all four brains.
   Two, your project needs all four brains, and three, each brain helps you
   interact with the gift of the other brains that may have hooked you
   otherwise.
   
    
   
   The experiment is to learn to speak in the language of the dominant brains of
   others, not as being adaptive, but as a way to have ecstasy.
   
    
   
   Choose a gameworld. It can be your work, a project, a team, your family, any
   gameoworld where you want to be less hookable.
   
    
   
   Map out on a piece of paper four quadrants, one for each brain. Write down
   the names of the people in your gameworld in the quadrant that matches their
   brain.
   
    
   
   Some people might be in two categories, find out more about the four brains
   on the 4 Brains website.
   
    
   
   Then, for one week, interact with the people by loving their dominant brain
   and empowering them in the jewels of the dominant brain, without losing your
   center or your authority.
   
    
   
   For example a Red Brain might hear out the ecstasy the Green Brain has being
   in this team. How do they love all the people in the team, what do they love
   about them? A Red Brain could ask for the history of the Team from a Green
   Brain. A Yellow Brain could ask a Blue Brain about how the team's plans fit
   into their vision of the future. The Yellow Brain could build a bridge
   between the vision they have and a Blue Brain could help create the steps,
   with input from a Green Brain, for a Red Brain to take action.
   
    
   
   All four brains care about the same thing, but from a different angle. Learn
   to share the love differently for the same things you love.
   
    
   
   After one week of interacting and engaging with your Team in your four brains
   and their four brains, you can enter the Matrix Code: BUNHOOKA.21 in your
   free account at StartOver.xyz.
   
    
   
   This experiment is worth 1 Matrix point.
   
   
   BECOME UNHOOKABLE BY DOING DRAGON SPEAKING
   
   MATRIX CODE: BUNHOOKA.22
   
   
   
   
   BECOME UNHOOKABLE BY BEING CLEAR ABOUT WHOSE PROBLEM IT IS
   
   MATRIX CODE: BUNHOOKA.23
   
   People love problems. More precisely, people's Gremlins love problems.
   
    
   
   Your Gremlin loves a problem too.
   
    
   
   It is an easy technique for Gremlins to hook other people into their problem,
   making it even more problematic. Especially if your favourite position in the
   Low Drama triangle is Rescuer, you've been a pawn for other people's victim
   to hook you into their problem.
   
    
   
   If you ever want to have bigger problems in your life than Who Is to Blame,
   for example, you want to have problems such as How to Upgrade Thoughtware on
   Planet Earth or How to Create a Million Nanonations, or How to Stop Old
   Growth Forest (and any forest) From Being Cut Down, the only way to have
   access to these bigger problems is to refuse to be hookable by ordinary Low
   Drama Gremlin problems.
   
    
   
   This experiment is about noticing about problems.
   
    
   
   For the next week, consciously count on people giving you their problems. It
   could be your mother, the cashier at the grocery store, your neighbour, your
   children, (parents love taking on their children's problems).
   
    
   
   For three different problems a day for the whole week, give an answer to the
   hook into problems something like:
   
   "Wow that is really a fabulous problem to have"
   
   "I am impressed that you found such a complex problem"
   
    
   
   Do this as an observer, making a boundary that this is not you problem.
   
    
   
   This is not about being sarcastic. It is to appreciate the trouble that
   people go through to create problems that are evolutionary stepping stones to
   bigger problems. This is your chance to appreciate that.
   
    
   
   After one week, you can enter the Matrix Code: BUNHOOKA.23 in your free
   account at StartOver.xyz.
   
    
   
   This experiment is worth 1 Matrix point.
   
    
   
   
   BECOME UNHOOKABLE BY USING REALITY CHECK QUESTIONS
   
   MATRIX CODE: BUNHOOKA.24
   
   

 * 25-45 EXPERIMENTS FOR BEING UNHOOKABLE
   
   PRACTICE IS A PATH OF DISCOVERY!
   
   
   BECOME UNHOOKABLE BY HOLDING SPACE (WITHOUT BEING AN EMOTIONAL BIN)
   
   MATRIX CODE: BUNHOOKA.25
   
   
   
   
   BECOME UNHOOKABLE BY WITHDRAWING EXPECTATIONS
   
   MATRIX CODE: BUNHOOKA.26
   
   Put some theory in there. The power of expectation is that either you will
   surround yourself with people that can unconsciously read your expectation
   and get hooked. An expectation is a hook. Either you are surrounded by
   adaptive people that get your hook, or the other option is for people to not
   take the hook and then basically your Gremlin gets hooked by them not getting
   the hook. It's a hook game.
   
    
   
   For a week, choose one person per day, people that you would consider are the
   closest to you. Collegues, friends, partners, children. Your job is to spend
   15-20 minutes everyday making a list of one thing you expect them, that they
   have been adaptive to. That you have forced them to match what your box and
   gremlin are comfortable with. Write down how they have been adaptive.
   
    
   
   I expect my partner to come to bed at the same time as I do. He's adaptive by
   not spending time with his friends. By not finishing a project or a book that
   he was reading because you were going to bed and he had to stop. Not spending
   extra time with children. Write all the ways that they sacrifice to adapt to
   your expectation.
   
    
   
   Put an extra bonus: for each person every 7 days, for the same person, what
   are they expecting from you that you have been adaptive to. That you have
   been totally hooked.
   
    
   
   Healing process to not throw hooks, and to learn not to get hooked by
   expectations - put info on the expectations website - most people realize
   they had an expectation because they had resentment.
   
   
   BECOME UNHOOKABLE BY STELLATING YOUR FEELINGS
   
   MATRIX CODE: BUNHOOKA.27
   
   Stellate your feelings.
   
   
   BECOME UNHOOKABLE BY CREATING HIGH DRAMA
   
   MATRIX CODE: BUNHOOKA.28
   
   
   
   
   BECOME UNHOOKABLE BY DISMANTLING YOUR RESENTMENTS
   
   MATRIX CODE: BUNHOOKA.29
   
   One week of dismantling your resentment. Can only happen with a spaceholder.
   It takes some skills to be able to that without your Gremlin bulshitting
   around. If you have resentment, then it's guaranteed that the other person
   had resentment towards you. One week of emotional healing process.
   
   If you have resentment you are already hooked. You can't even think about the
   other person without having the hook.
   
   Once a day dismantle one resentment with one person. Ideally you have the
   real person across from you. Just link to the resentment website for the
   process.
   
   3 people.
   
   
   BECOME UNHOOKABLE BY SPINNING YOUR ENERGETIC BODY
   
   MATRIX CODE: BUNHOOKA.30
   
   
   
   
   BECOME UNHOOKABLE BY USING APPRECIATION 
   
   MATRIX CODE: BUNHOOKA.31
   
   
   
   
   BECOME UNHOOKABLE BY MAKING NO ASSUMPTIONS
   
   MATRIX CODE: BUNHOOKA.32
   
   For one week, once a day, choose one person and decide to make no assumption.
   Declare it to the person you are talking to. I will not make any assumption
   about what I think you're saying how our relationship goes or doesn'T go
   taboos, what is appropriate or not to say, etc. I take on this challenge to
   make no assumption in our conversation so that I stay unhookable. Unhookable
   by also their assumption. The purpose is to become unhookable to your
   assumption or their assumption about your space of relationship. How it goes.
   What's appropriate or not. What I can say or not. When you notice that you
   make an assumption, write it down. When you notice even later that you made
   an assumption write it down.
   
   What was the assumption that you made. What's the benefit your Box and
   Gremlin to be hookable about this? That can be an emotional healing process.
   
    
   
   please enter Matrix Code: BUNHOOKA.12 in your free account at StartOver.xyz.
   Thank you!
   
   
   BECOME UNHOOKABLE BY KEEPING A SMALL NOW 
   
   MATRIX CODE: BUNHOOKA.33
   
   
   
   
   BECOME UNHOOKABLE BY KEEPING A SMALL HERE 
   
   MATRIX CODE: BUNHOOKA.34
   
   
   
   
   BECOME UNHOOKABLE BY KEEPING A SMALL YOU: LET THE PAST GO INTO THE PAST 
   
   MATRIX CODE: BUNHOOKA.35
   
   
   
   
   BECOME UNHOOKABLE BY GOING NONLINEAR
   
   MATRIX CODE: BUNHOOKA.36
   
   
   
   
   BECOME UNHOOKABLE BY PUTTING YOUR POINT OF ORIGIN IN YOUR ADULT EGO-STATE 
   
   MATRIX CODE: BUNHOOKA.37
   
   
   
   
   BECOME UNHOOKABLE BY DECONTAMINATING YOUR ADULT EGO-STATE FROM YOUR GREMLIN,
   CHILD, OR PARENT EGO-STATE
   
   MATRIX CODE: BUNHOOKA.38
   
   
   
   
   BECOME UNHOOKABLE BY MAKING BLACK HOLES
   
   MATRIX CODE: BUNHOOKA.39
   
   
   
   
   BECOME UNHOOKABLE BY SHIFTING IDENTITY TO SOMETHING ELSE THAN YOUR BOX
   IDENTITY (FOR EXAMPLE A POSSIBILITY MANAGER OR AN ARCHETYPE)
   
   MATRIX CODE: BUNHOOKA.40
   
   
   
   
   BECOME UNHOOKABLE BY PLAYING OFFENSIVE. START A MEANINGFUL CONVERSATION. EVEN
   WITH STRANGERS. ESPECIALLY WITH STRANGERS
   
   MATRIX CODE: BUNHOOKA.41
   
   
   
   
   BECOME UNHOOKABLE BY QUEEN MAKING
   
   MATRIX CODE: BUNHOOKA.42
   
   
   
   
   BECOME UNHOOKABLE BY KING MAKING
   
   MATRIX CODE: BUNHOOKA.43
   
   
   
   
   BECOME UNHOOKABLE BY BEING YOUR BRIGHT PRINCIPLES IN ACTION
   
   MATRIX CODE: BUNHOOKA.44
   
   
   
   
   BECOME UNHOOKABLE BY HAVING A META-CONVERSATION
   
   MATRIX CODE: BUNHOOKA.45
   
   

 * 46-65 EXPERIMENTS FOR BEING UNHOOKABLE
   
   PRACTICE IS A PATH OF DISCOVERY!
   
   
   BECOME UNHOOKABLE BY MAKING YOUR GROUNDING CORD BI-DIRECTIONAL AND LET GAIA
   INFORM YOU
   
   MATRIX CODE: BUNHOOKA.46
   
   
   
   
   BECOME UNHOOKABLE BY ASKING FOR COACHING FROM THE PERSON WHO HOOKED YOU
   
   MATRIX CODE: BUNHOOKA.47
   
   
   
   
   BECOME UNHOOKABLE BY GETTING OUT OF YOUR MIND, LETTTING YOU HEART SPEAK
   
   MATRIX CODE: BUNHOOKA.48
   
   
   
   
   BECOME UNHOOKABLE BY GETTING OUT OF YOUR MIND - YOUR BOX- LETTTING YOUR BEING
   SPEAK
   
   MATRIX CODE: BUNHOOKA.49
   
   
   
   
   BECOME UNHOOKABLE BY THANKING THEM FOR HOOKING YOU: THEY JUST GAVE YOU GOLD
   
   MATRIX CODE: BUNHOOKA.50
   
   
   
   
   BECOME UNHOOKABLE BY BEING RADICALLY HONEST ABOUT BEING HOOKED WITH YOUR
   GREMLIN PAYOFF
   
   MATRIX CODE: BUNHOOKA.51
   
   
   
   
   BECOME UNHOOKABLE BY DOING BRAIN SURGERY ON YOURSELF
   
   MATRIX CODE: BUNHOOKA.52
   
   
   
   
   BECOME UNHOOKABLE BY GOING FOR A JOURNEY INTO THE MOUNTAIN
   
   MATRIX CODE: BUNHOOKA.53
   
   
   
   
   BECOME UNHOOKABLE BY CONNECTING TO A TREE AND ASK FOR ITS ADVICE
   
   MATRIX CODE: BUNHOOKA.54
   
   
   
   
   BECOME UNHOOKABLE BY FINDING 3 THINGS THAT ARE IMPORTANT FOR YOU AND BEING
   ONE OF THEM
   
   MATRIX CODE: BUNHOOKA.55
   
   
   
   
   BECOME UNHOOKABLE BY REACHING INTO YOUR BAG OF THINGS AND PULLING OUT
   SOMETHING
   
   MATRIX CODE: BUNHOOKA.56
   
   
   
   
   BECOME UNHOOKABLE BY TELLING THEM "I HAVE A STORY ABOUT YOU..." 
   
   MATRIX CODE: BUNHOOKA.57
   
   
   
   
   BECOME UNHOOKABLE BY SINGING A TUNE FROM A BROADWAY MUSICAL
   
   MATRIX CODE: BUNHOOKA.58
   
   Choose a Broadway Musical
   
   
   BECOME UNHOOKABLE BY INVESTIGATING - EXPLORE WHAT IS SO
   
   MATRIX CODE: BUNHOOKA.59
   
   
   
   
   BECOME UNHOOKABLE BY EATING BARDO SPECIAL
   
   MATRIX CODE: BUNHOOKA.60
   
   
   
   
   BECOME UNHOOKABLE BY TAKING YOUR SHOES OFF AND GIVING YOURSELF A FOOT
   MASSAGE 
   
   MATRIX CODE: BUNHOOKA.61
   
   
   
   
   BECOME UNHOOKABLE BY TAKING ONE OF YOUR SOCKS OFF AND TELLING A NONLINEAR
   STORY
   
   MATRIX CODE: BUNHOOKA.62
   
   
   
   
   BECOME UNHOOKABLE BY USING YOUR POSSIBILITY STONE TO REMIND YOURSELF WHERE
   NOW IS
   
   MATRIX CODE: BUNHOOKA.63
   
   
   
   
   BECOME UNHOOKABLE BY SHIFTING FROM VERBAL REALITY INTO EXPERIENTIAL REALITY
   
   MATRIX CODE: BUNHOOKA.64
   
   
   
   
   BECOME UNHOOKABLE BY BEING RADICALLY HONEST ABOUT YOUR FEAR OF CONNECTION
   
   MATRIX CODE: BUNHOOKA.65
   
   

 * 66-85 EXPERIMENTS FOR BEING UNHOOKABLE
   
   PRACTICE IS A PATH OF DISCOVERY!
   
   
   BECOME UNHOOKABLE BY ASKING YOUR TEAM FOR POSSIBILITIES
   
   MATRIX CODE: BUNHOOKA.66
   
   
   
   
   BECOME UNHOOKABLE BY CLEANING YOUR BUBBLE OF PERSONAL SPACE
   
   MATRIX CODE: BUNHOOKA.67
   
   
   
   
   BECOME UNHOOKABLE BY DISTINGUISHING BETWEEN FEELINGS AND EMOTIONS
   
   MATRIX CODE: BUNHOOKA.68
   
   
   
   
   BECOME UNHOOKABLE BY COMPLETING INCOMPLETE EMOTIONS (BUTTON)
   
   MATRIX CODE: BUNHOOKA.69
   
   
   
   
   BECOME UNHOOKABLE BY PUTTING YOUR BOX ON THE SIDE (BOX IS OPTIONAL)
   
   MATRIX CODE: BUNHOOKA.70
   
   
   
   
   BECOME UNHOOKABLE BY LETTING YOUR BOX BE HOOKED OR CONFUSED AND YOU ARE NOT
   
   MATRIX CODE: BUNHOOKA.71
   
   
   
   
   BECOME UNHOOKABLE BY RECOVERING INTIMACY
   
   MATRIX CODE: BUNHOOKA.72
   
   
   
   
   BECOME UNHOOKABLE BY ASKING FOR WHAT YOU WANT AND NOTICING WHICH PARTS OF YOU
   WANTS IT
   
   MATRIX CODE: BUNHOOKA.73
   
   
   
   
   BECOME UNHOOKABLE BY HAVING A 'DO-OVER'
   
   MATRIX CODE: BUNHOOKA.74
   
   
   
   
   BECOME UNHOOKABLE BY WEARING YOUR ARCHETYPAL TALISMAN AS A GATEWAY
   
   MATRIX CODE: BUNHOOKA.75
   
   
   
   
   BECOME UNHOOKABLE BY USING IS-GLUE DISSOLVER
   
   MATRIX CODE: BUNHOOKA.76
   
   
   
   
   BECOME UNHOOKABLE BY USING IS-GLUE CONSCIOUSLY
   
   MATRIX CODE: BUNHOOKA.77
   
   
   
   
   BECOME UNHOOKABLE BY USING YOUR GREMLIN TO DETECT OTHER PEOPLE'S GREMLIN
   
   MATRIX CODE: BUNHOOKA.78
   
   
   
   
   BECOME UNHOOKABLE BY USING YOUR GREMLIN TO SHIFT SPACE
   
   MATRIX CODE: BUNHOOKA.79
   
   
   
   
   BECOME UNHOOKABLE BY PULLING THE RUG OUT UNDER YOUR CERTAINTY
   
   MATRIX CODE: BUNHOOKA.80
   
   
   
   
   BECOME UNHOOKABLE BY CHECKING YOUR CURRENT STATE OF ACTION AGAINST YOUR LIFE
   MISSION
   
   MATRIX CODE: BUNHOOKA.81
   
   
   
   
   BECOME UNHOOKABLE BY HAVING CLARITY ABOUT FAIR/UNFAIR CONVERSATIONS
   
   MATRIX CODE: BUNHOOKA.82
   
   
   
   
   BECOME UNHOOKABLE BY NEGOTIATING NEW DEALS OF INTIMACY
   
   MATRIX CODE: BUNHOOKA.83
   
   
   
   
   BECOME UNHOOKABLE BY BEING YOUR ARCHETYPAL LINEAGE IN ACTION
   
   MATRIX CODE: BUNHOOKA.84
   
   
   
   
   BECOME UNHOOKABLE BY TAKING RADICAL RESPONSIBILITY
   
   MATRIX CODE: BUNHOOKA.85
   
   

 * 86-99 EXPERIMENTS FOR BEING UNHOOKABLE
   
   PRACTICE IS A PATH OF DISCOVERY!
   
   
   BECOME UNHOOKABLE BY COMMUNICATING YOUR FULL FOUR FEELINGS CYCLE
   
   MATRIX CODE: BUNHOOKA.86
   
   
   
   
   BECOME UNHOOKABLE BY ACCEPTING THE OFFER AND GOING TO THE HIGHEST POSSIBILITY
   
   MATRIX CODE: BUNHOOKA.87
   
   
   
   
   BECOME UNHOOKABLE BY USING YOUR WAND OF DECLARATION TO CREATE
   
   MATRIX CODE: BUNHOOKA.88
   
   
   
   
   BECOME UNHOOKABLE BY USING YOUR POSSIBILITY PAINT BRUSH TO PAINT DOORWAYS
   
   MATRIX CODE: BUNHOOKA.89
   
   
   
   
   BECOME UNHOOKABLE BY USING GAP IN IDENTITY (NO IDENTITY)
   
   MATRIX CODE: BUNHOOKA.90
   
   
   
   
   BECOME UNHOOKABLE BY USING GAP IN TIME (TIMELESSNESS)
   
   MATRIX CODE: BUNHOOKA.91
   
   
   
   
   BECOME UNHOOKABLE BY USING GAP IN SPACE
   
   MATRIX CODE: BUNHOOKA.92
   
   
   
   
   BECOME UNHOOKABLE BY USING GAP IN KNOWLEDGE (NOT KNOWING)
   
   MATRIX CODE: BUNHOOKA.93
   
   
   
   
   BECOME UNHOOKABLE BY USING GAP IN NOISE (SILENCE)
   
   MATRIX CODE: BUNHOOKA.94
   
   
   
   
   BECOME UNHOOKABLE BY USING GAP IN GAMEWORLDS (NO RULES)
   
   MATRIX CODE: BUNHOOKA.95
   
   
   
   
   BECOME UNHOOKABLE BY USING GAP IN RESONANCE FIELD (DISSONANCE)
   
   MATRIX CODE: BUNHOOKA.96
   
   
   
   
   BECOME UNHOOKABLE BY USING YOUR SPRING SCREEN TO CLEAN THE SPACE 
   
   MATRIX CODE: BUNHOOKA.97
   
   
   
   
   BECOME UNHOOKABLE BY BEING NOTHING OR EVERYTHING
   
   MATRIX CODE: BUNHOOKA.98
   
   
   
   
   BECOME UNHOOKABLE BY ADMITTING THAT YOU ARE HOOKED
   
   MATRIX CODE: BUNHOOKA.99
   
   By saying 'I am hooked right now'. It takes about 20minutes for the hormones
   released in your system by the hook to go away. You can tell the person you
   are conversing with: 'I need about 20 minutes, I will come back and talk to
   you then'.

 *  
   
    
   
    
   
   "BEING UNHOOKABLE MEANS HAVING THE CAPACITY TO ACT INDEPENDENTLY FROM THE
   CIRCUMSTANCES,
   
   NO MATTER WHAT THE CIRCUMSTANCES ARE."
   
    
   
    
   
    
   
   -CLINTON CALLAHAN

 * BONUS S.P.A.R.K. EXPERIMENTS
   
   
   
   
   (SPARK161.00) SPARK 161 
   
   When you lose the empty space of silence in yourself you are already hooked.
   
    
   
   SPARK161.01 Stop filling your inner silent space with random noise, such as
   whistling, humming to yourself, talking to yourself, inner arguments with
   others, disavowing unexpressed feelings, justifying your actions or
   inactions, or bouncing your attention from shiny object to colorful object to
   loud object back to shiny object, all the while listening to the endless
   stream of judgments, criticisms, comparisons, excitements and worries from
   your mind. It is almost impossible to stop the space-filling because it
   automatically starts up again so quickly. So instead, focus on doing
   something different, for example, enjoying the experience of getting to
   stretch out your being in the warm evolutionary bath of inner silence.
   
    
   
   SPARK161.02 Remember your inner space of silence each time you start a new
   conversation, such as when the phone rings, when you greet someone at the
   café, each time you say “Hello” to someone, each time you begin a meeting, or
   each time you interact with a cashier. Use the beginning of the encounter as
   a trigger for relocating to your inner space of silence. Split your attention
   and keep 10% on the experience of stretching out your being luxuriously into
   your inner silence while the rest of your attention interacts with the
   others.
   
    
   
   SPARK161.03 Each time you detect yourself being internally or externally
   hooked immediately make a concise yet richly descriptive note in your Beep!
   Book about what just triggered your reaction and what you thought, said, felt
   and did. At first your list may grow impossibly long and complex as your
   underworld reveals its true dimensions. Let it be so. Becoming aware of what
   you were not already aware of is a natural procedure. It may even be what you
   came here for. Trying to ignore what you have been for so long in denial
   about does not make your underworld go away. Instead make it a practice to
   welcome disillusionment. Doggedly extend your Beep! Book list and bring it
   with you to your next Possibility Lab. Then sit in the Possibility Chair and
   use each incident as a gateway to an evolutionary process. You may be
   surprised by how momentous the seemingly little things turn out to be. This
   is the fastest way to build matrix that I have ever discovered.
   
   Download SPARK161 Here.
   
   
   (SPARK010.00) SPARK 010
   
   Between the outer world (sights, sounds, physical sensations, smells,
   experiences, relationships, external conversations, etc.), and the inner
   world (concepts, memories, reactions, images, internal conversations, etc.),
   there exists a thin space of freedom called the gap.
   
    
   
   SPARK010.01 Accept an invitation to an informal dinner party where people are
   relaxed and interacting in a friendly social atmosphere. Select 5 minutes in
   the middle of the party. During these 5 minutes neither smile nor laugh, no
   matter what is said or what happens. If you can avoid the impulse to laugh
   you may be in the gap.
   
    
   
   SPARK010.02 Go to a romantic or adventure movie at the cinema. Sit two thirds
   of the way back from the screen in the center of the row. For the whole movie
   do not look at the screen. Only look at the other people who are in the
   theater. If you can avoid “snapping into” the space of the story in the movie
   and never forget that you are at a movie theater you may be in the gap.
   
    
   
   SPARK010.03 Spend a day at an industrial trade show fair. Walk up to booth
   after booth. No matter what the sales representative says to you, you say
   nothing at all in return. Make no faces, use no gestures, and offer no
   explanation. Stay completely relaxed and alert, looking at whatever interests
   you at the booth. After a while leave without warning and go to the next
   booth. If you can avoid the automatic reflex of speaking when spoken to you
   may be in
   the gap.
   
   Download SPARK010 Here.

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