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TO TALK ABOUT VIOLENCE IS FORBIDDEN AT THE CHAOS COMPUTER CLUB.

 Posted on 18.2.2024  (Last modified on 5.9.2024)  • Other languages: de

I have deliberately chosen a provocative title here to draw attention to an
unfortunate dynamic that comes with dealing with the topic of interpersonal
violence. I want to stimulate reflection and invite people to talk, even if and
precisely because the topic is so uncomfortable.

Since 2018, I have been working more intensively and more explicitly on the
emergence and persistence of violence in society. How victims become
perpetrators, of themselves and others, how experiences of violence are passed
down through generations and contribute to mental disorders and other illnesses.
The deeper I dig, the more I realize how important it is for society in general
and peace and human rights movements in particular to deal with this topic
openly and broadly, because only when we look we can heal and change. I see this
as a logical continuation and ongoing development of my political engagement.

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TOXIC RELATIONSHIPS AND NARCISSISTIC ABUSE MEETUP AT 37C3

 Posted on 9.12.2023  (Last modified on 30.12.2023)  • Other languages: de

At this meeting at the 37th Chaos Communication Congress in Hamburg, we will
collectively explore healing of toxic relationships and narcissistic abuse. We
will share experiences, insights, and coping strategies to liberate ourselves
from the chains of unhealthy connections, and discuss how we can support others
who may still feel trapped in such situations.

The objective of this gathering is to promote a sense of solidarity and
understanding among individuals who have either overcome the challenges of toxic
relationships or are still in the process of processing their experiences.

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TOXIC RELATIONSHIPS IN COMMUNITY


LET'S DEVELOP BETTER ANSWERS TOGETHER.

 Posted on 7.11.2023  • Other languages: de

> “What brings us together is not what we already know, but what we still want
> to learn. This exchange of knowledge is only possible if we approach each
> other with an open mind and with an attitude of mutual respect and support. We
> want to create an environment characterised by tolerance, respect, curiosity,
> fun, openness to communicate, friendliness and consideration.” – Principles of
> the Chaos Computer Club

I would like to bring attention to a problem in our communities. It’s not just
something I’ve encountered myself, but others before me. I want to network with
others who have been affected, and work together to find solutions and
suggestions for improvement, so that there are better answers in the future. For
those who have been through a toxic relationship, and for those who want to
help. This is an uncomfortable and painful topic. That’s exactly why we should
talk about it.

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ON LIVING IN A TRAUMATIZED SOCIETY: NARCISSISM, TOXIC RELATIONSHIPS, AND OTHER
FORMS OF VIOLENCE.


MY SUBMISSION FOR CCCAMP23

 Posted on 12.7.2023  • Other languages: de

> The lecture, “On Living in a Traumatized Society,” will cover the current
> state of research on physical, psychological and emotional violence, and its
> links to traumatic experiences in childhood.

A central aspect of the presentation is the role of childhood experiences in the
development of violence. Research shows that people who experienced violence in
childhood are at higher risk of becoming violent themselves or being trapped in
toxic relationships. The traumatic experiences affect the development of
self-image, lead to emotional dysregulation, and impair the ability to form
healthy relationships.

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MY GOAL IS NONVIOLENCE.


INSIDE AND OUTSIDE.

 Posted on 1.1.2023  • Other languages: de

> “Communicating non-violently means not only refraining from physical violence
> and obvious forms of verbal violence, such as threatening someone or calling
> them names. Accusations, judgments, interpretations, evaluations, analyses,
> manipulations, advice, praise, etc. are also subtle forms of violence and
> block real encounters unnoticed.”

I cannot undo the past. I can only ask for an apology, and gradually reconcile
with myself. I cannot demand to be excused, neither from myself nor from others.
I can demonstrate by my actions that I am willing to learn. At the same time, I
admit to myself that to live nonviolence requires profound changes in order to
make unconscious patterns visible and gradually dissolve them. That I will not
always succeed, and that complete nonviolence may not be achievable for someone
who has grown up with violence.

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interpersonal, and start questioning: What does it look like to set up social
structures which are designed with the intention of creating the conditions for
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