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FROM GPS TRACKING TO DIGITAL HARASSMENT: HOW TO BEST DEAL WITH CYBERSTALKING?

Updated on: 05 January 2023
 * Jurgita Lapienytė
   Chief Editor

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A whopping number of Internet users report falling victim to cyberstalking.
Following classic fairytale narratives, perpetrators, sometimes seemingly nice
in person, turn to villains when diving into the digital world.

Many of us might have felt stalked online. It can start with someone constantly
liking your old Instagram pictures in the middle of the night or even taking
extreme measures such as installing a stalkerware app on your phone.

Cyberstalking, using the internet and other technologies to harass or stalk
another person, is on the rise and may affect any of us – from schoolchildren to
those going through a divorce, from gamers to celebrities.

In 2019, nearly one million US residents aged 16 or older fell victim to
cyberstalking. They reported receiving distressing messages, having unwanted
information posted about them online, being spied on, or having their
whereabouts tracked.

Unfortunately, cyberstalking is rising, and many such cases last for months and
even years. Cyberstalking can induce psychological damage, including fear,
anger, hypervigilance, and PTSD.

Cybernews reached out to a cyberstalking victim, as well as an expert dealing
with such cases, to learn more about how to deal with villains.


DUNGEONS&DRAGONS STALKER

One cyberstalking story started with a group of friends playing a fantasy
role-playing game, Dungeons and Dragons (D&D), on Discord. The stalker, in this
case, was a mutual friend, persistently trying to insert himself into the game.

“He was very much attempting to push himself to become much more of a permanent
member in the game, even though we had made it clear multiple times that we did
not have enough room for an extra person on the regular,” Reddit user who wished
to remain anonymous told Cybernews.

At that moment, there wasn’t enough room for one more player for the game host
to handle. As Reddit user said, he could just come in to observe the game for
“laughs and fun.”

“He [stalker] just started responding very negatively after that. It started to
get to very uncomfortable of how much he was attempting to push himself into
it,” our interviewee recalled.

D&D players got upset since the person in question tried to push his standards
of beauty or ableism, insisted that making an LGBTQ character an outcast was
funny, and even went as far as drawing pornographic sketches of other people’s
characters without their consent.

“This ongoing behavior of his started to become much more prevalent, not just in
the game. It started to bleed into other aspects of how we would interact with
each other socially, not just with D&D, to the point that he was sexually
harassing one of my friends.” Cybernews learned.

That’s when the group of friends decided to let him know that this behavior was
not appreciated and give him an indeterminate amount of time to think this over.

“Even though we all gave him this very clear boundary of not contacting us until
we contact you first, within a day, he began to send us long messages. It ranged
from him apologizing to him blaming us for what he did, and in other cases,
saying that our friend should be grateful for what he did to her.”

Friends repeatedly asked him to stop, but he didn’t, so D&D players had no
choice but to block him on their Discord, Twitter, and any other platform they
knew he was on.


ANXIETY, FEAR, AND FRUSTRATION

For a while, it seemed like Reddit user and his friends managed to cut what they
called a toxic person out of their lives. It was before they learned that the
person created new accounts to stalk the group, see what they were up to, what
they were saying about him.

"Unfortunately, we never got information on what this new account was called, so
we've never really had a way to block that. Even today, we're not sure if he's
still stalking us," he said.

At one point, the stalker tried to contact the group from other people's
accounts and kept sending disturbing emails.

"I can say for myself and the rest of us that we all had a lot of anxiety,
stress, and powerlessness, knowing that he was still there, seeing what we were
putting out on the Internet."

Some of his friends have even gone as far as making their Twitter, Facebook, and
other social media accounts private.

"It is heartbreaking to know that we can't let others see our work and find us
in the usual ways that we used to without that fear of him finding it."

Our interviewee said the group was part of the stalker's main circle of friends,
they were close and conversing with one another almost daily.

"That can lead to the desperation of trying to cling to something you care so
much about. If he had not been so aggressive in trying to keep in contact with
us, this might have turned out to be different. Because he was so aggressive
with cyberstalking us and sending us messages on a very obsession-like level,
that ruined it for him."

Our interviewee said that being in a group and having friends going through the
same thing made it easier for them to go through this and express anxieties,
fears, and frustrations.

"That support system was really important for our healing process."




BRAVE WHEN ONLINE

"This is a pretty typical cyberstalking case. It happens a lot with groups, in
groups of gamers and people like that, especially when it gets highly
competitive or when there's money involved," Keatron Evans, Principal Security
Researcher at Infosec Institute, part of Cengage Group, told when asked by
Cybernews to comment the D&D cyberstalking case.

The Internet produces villains – people who are generally lovely in person
suddenly gain all this courage and turn to pretty intimidating cyberstalkers.

"Many of them would never intimidate someone or even have any friction with
someone if it were in person. But suddenly, behind the keyboard where you're out
of reach of everyone, those people who are technical savvy become the bullies,"
Evans said.

He believes that the D&D players did the right thing by asking the toxic not to
interact with them. Once he started creating new accounts and finding ways to
reach out, it became an obvious case of cyberstalking.

"At that point, you can contact law enforcement and let them know what's going
on. There have been more and more cases where cyberstalking did turn into real
stalking, in-person stalking, and in some cases in-person assaults and
confrontations," Evans explained.

A victim's record asking a perpetrator not to contact them could help get a
restraining order.

Evans says it's not a good idea to go and meet your online stalker in person
because that creates an even more dangerous situation.

"You have to be careful with that because if you don't want someone to contact
you online, but you invite them to contact you in person, that kind of sets up a
disastrous type of relationship anyways."

In any case, he urges a victim to let as many people as they are comfortable
telling know what's happening.

"The more people know this is going on, the more witnesses you'll have and the
more likely it is for you to have some level of protection there. You may even
let this person know that you've let your family, friends, and law enforcement
know this is going on," Evans said.


EXTREME CYBERSTALKING CASES

Former spouses trying to keep track of their exes is a typical cyberstalking
case. During the pandemic, experts observed an uptick in stalkerware, often
reported by domestic violence victims.

In cases when a stalker is an (ex)spouse and the victim is already experiencing
domestic abuse, it's not recommended to confront the aggressor or even try to
uninstall the app since this might alert the stalker. You can find some advice
on what to do here.

"Generally, our role is to help collect evidence so that the victim can have
their stuff together when they go to law enforcement or get help because it's
not wise to try to interact with these people," Evans said.

Recently, he has observed a spike in what he calls stalking by strangers –
stalkers abuse popular security cameras and doorbells.

"There are people who will buy those things just because most of these vendors
have a community you can be a member of, see what people are posting and what's
going on around their houses," Evans said.

It can be a good thing since this can prevent, for example, car theft.

"But a lot of times stalkers are using that same thing to keep track of what's
going on and to stalk people."

Evans gets quite a lot of calls from celebrities being stalked. "They have the
money to pay someone like me to investigate and try to help them. Many victims
don't have the resources to pay for help."

He’s also planning to put together a resource to help people who can't afford
professional help to aid in these situations.

Evans believes cyberstalking is on the rise since more people now work remotely
and generally use the Internet more.

"Remember when you were going into the office and sitting at your office working
on the Internet, you were going through all the security protections that your
corporation had. Now you're just going through whatever you got at home, your
little wireless router and whatever security you get at home, you're a lot more
exposed than you were when you were going into the office to work."


PERSISTENT STALKERS

Cyberstalking cases might be extreme. One of the stellar examples is an
aggressive campaign carried out by former eBay employees that involved not only
harassing victims by sending unsettling messages and comments on the social
media platform and victim GPS traffic but also delivering a bloody pig Halloween
mask, a funeral wreath, and a book on surviving the loss of a spouse to the
victims' home.

Evans said cyberstalkers are persistent, and some buy services to keep
investigators like himself from tracking them. For a judge to issue a subpoena
or a warrant, a victim or their representative needs to make a compelling
argument backed with enough evidence. A judge might not act on a message like "I
hate you."

When can you get law enforcement to do something about the stalker?

"Death threats, pieces of evidence of other laws being broken. What some of
these stalkers do is they'll go to a target's house and watch them through the
bedroom window while they're sleeping and record themselves watching the person
asleep. Then they'll come back and send that person that video to let them know,
like, hey, I was watching you sleep last night, or I was watching you walk to
work," Evans said.

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