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Apply Now! START YOUR SURROGACY JOURNEY At Surrogacy in Canada Online, we believe every person has a right to become a parent via third party reproduction regardless of their ethnic origin, religion, age, marital status, gender or sexual orientation. Since 2001 we have provided information, referral and support to Canadians involved with third party reproduction. The most important thing for us is to make your journey the best that it can be… and that is possible with the right match and proper support from a program like Surrogacy in Canada Online. We work with hundreds of intended parents and surrogates each year and would be honoured to assist you on your journey! Learn More WE'VE SUCCESSFULLY WORKED WITH HUNDREDS OF INTENDED PARENTS AND SURROGATES EACH YEAR. SURROGATES SURROGATES We are dedicated to assisting you with finding the right Intended Parent(s) to help give the gift of life. Find out more about our surrogacy program and services. INTENDED PARENTS INTENDED PARENTS We are dedicated to assisting you with finding the right surrogate to build your family. Find out more about our surrogacy program and services. SURROGACY INFO SURROGACY INFO Surrogacy is an arrangement whereby a woman agrees to carry a baby for others. Surrogacy is legal in Canada and altruistic (only reimbursement of expenses is allowed). FEATURED INTENDED PARENTS FEATURED INTENDED PARENTS We strongly believe that your journey should be rewarding and stress free. Our goal is to guide and support you throughout this process. Learn more about our featured intended parents. AT SURROGACY IN CANADA ONLINE WE ARE HONOURED TO HAVE A ROLE IN ASSISTING YOU WITH YOUR SURROGACY JOURNEY. WHY CHOOSE SURROGACY IN CANADA ONLINE? * We Build Families * We Have the Right Team * We Care * Our Members Come First Learn More SURROGACY IN CANADA ONLINE GUIDE BOOK A Quick Reference for your Journey Surrogacy in Canada is a legal and very successful alternative for those who have had difficulty or need assistance creating a family of their own. A great experience depends on trust, good communication and respect for all the parties that can be involved. Download Our Guide OUR LATEST BIRTHS Play Video SEE OUR SUCCESS STORIES SCO ON FACEBOOK Like Page Share Surrogacy in Canada Online Posts Photos Albums Surrogacy in Canada Online 2 hours ago View on Facebook Intended Parents please beware going abroad for surrogacy outside Canada and the US. An international surrogacy ring exploited impoverished women, denied payments for... See more Intended Parents please beware going abroad for surrogacy outside Canada and the US. An international surrogacy ring exploited impoverished women, denied payments for miscarriages, and “commercialised” babies in Argentina, prosecutors have alleged. A team of prosecutors said they had discovered a “criminal enterprise” which has been charging foreign couples about $50,000 for a baby born by surrogacy in Argentina. They said “vulnerable women in conditions of economic deprivation” were targeted and recruited on social media. The women were offered $10,000, with a bonus of $1-2,000 if they gave birth by caesarean section. But if the pregnancy was interrupted for any reason – such as a miscarriage – the companies refused to pay the surrogates, except for the minimum monthly expenses, prosecutors claimed. Earlier this month police raided four fertility centres in Buenos Aires and two in Rosario, seven notary offices, and three law firms, seizing medical and payment records. The public prosecutor’s office, along with the office for human trafficking and exploitation, is investigating those involved for crimes of trafficking and the “commercialisation” of children. “Those under investigation carried out a criminal enterprise dedicated to the recruitment of women, many of them vulnerable and in conditions of economic deprivation, with the aim of subjecting them to exploitation comparable to reduction to servitude,” prosecutors said. A source close to the investigation said that those running the scheme, advertised by various individuals and companies as Program Argentina, “obtained significant profits”. Nigel Cantwell, the founder of Defence for Children International and one of the world’s leading authorities on child protection policies, said the allegations in Argentina were “particularly egregious”. “If the women were not being paid for their services when there was a problem during the pregnancies, then it was pure sale of children,” he added. “It’s an extraordinarily difficult thing to try to defend on an ethical basis.” No international rules or treaties exist for surrogacy, and national regulations vary widely. In wealthy countries, surrogacies now often involve pre-screening, counselling and legal advice – and in Britain intended parents are vetted by social workers. But surrogates selected in developing countries are often poor and illiterate, while experts say that some sign contracts without fully understanding the documentation. There are also usually no or few checks on those requesting a surrogacy arrangement, Cantwell said. The Argentinian investigation started in January when a 58-year-old German woman took a three-month-old baby in “very poor health” to the emergency room at a hospital in Bonn, prosecutors said. The child was found to have been born in Argentina via surrogacy. German police determined that the woman was not fit to care for the baby, and subsequently placed her into temporary foster care. Several developing countries have made attempts to end international surrogacy in recent years – Thailand and India banned foreign people from paying for surrogacy in 2015 – but the practice has continued to boom. It is estimated that the global surrogacy industry had a value of $14bn in 2022, increasing to $17.9bn in 2023, and is expected to reach $139bn by 2032. “With the decrease in inter-country adoptions, and the increasing ability to access surrogacy, international surrogacy is going up,” said Cantwell. Experts have denounced a legal vacuum for commercial international surrogacy in Argentina. The source close to the investigation said that those involved took advantage of weak regulations “to make Argentina a place of ‘reproductive tourism’” to directly benefit “couples from more developed nations”. Argentina has been suffering from a crippling economic crisis for decades. More than 50% of people are living in poverty, while 70% of workers earn less than 550,000 pesos a month – roughly £430. Prosecutors are now investigating similar cases going back to 2018. They have so far identified at least 49 others which they say share similar characteristics to the initial “German case”. None of the organisations or individuals under investigation have yet been publicly named. “The incident that led to the initiation of the case is not isolated,” federal prosecutor María Alejandra Mángano said in a statement. “On the contrary, it was revealed that it was a business scheme, developed at a national and international level.” Share Share on Facebook Share on Twitter Surrogacy in Canada Online 2 hours ago View on Facebook Having a baby via surrogate in Canada: The ups, the downs and the unexpected red tape. I never thought I'd be someone who had a baby via gestational surrogate — until I was... See more Having a baby via surrogate in Canada: The ups, the downs and the unexpected red tape. I never thought I'd be someone who had a baby via gestational surrogate — until I was diagnosed with breast cancer. My husband and I were skeptical. Who would do this for us if not for the money? When I learned that actress Olivia Munn and her husband, comedian John Mulaney, had recently welcomed their second child via gestational surrogate it made me smile. Our stories are similar; like Munn, my first year of motherhood was upended by a cancer diagnosis — and it took a special surrogate to help make my dreams of having more children come true. I first noticed the lump in my breast when my son was nine months old. What I had hoped was a plugged milk duct turned out to be stage 1 breast cancer. A double mastectomy, chemical menopause and hormone therapy followed. A few months later, I celebrated my son’s first birthday a few days after my double mastectomy, unable to hold him as I was still healing. I was relieved when I found out the cancer hadn’t spread — but my husband and I were dealt another blow when it was clear that because of my type of breast cancer, it wouldn’t be safe for me to carry another baby. My sister had been my rock through treatment and I knew I wanted my son to have a sibling of his own one day. We could adopt — but there also might be another way. Years before we had our first child, my husband and I decided to freeze our embryos. We thought that if we were unable to get pregnant on our own, we could investigate using a gestational surrogate. We never anticipated we would need the embryos after cancer — but we were grateful we had options. I grew up in the United States where surrogacy can potentially cost upwards of $100,000. In Canada, it’s illegal to pay a surrogate under the Assisted Human Reproduction Act; only altruistic surrogacy is permitted. However it’s legal to reimburse a surrogate for out-of-pocket expenses like lost wages, child care, groceries and more. My husband and I were skeptical. Who would do this for us if not for the money? After doing some research, we began working with a surrogacy agency, to help pair us, the intended parents with a potential surrogate. But the people we were “matched” with were not a fit — and the agency expected us to pay thousands of dollars once a match was made. So, I turned to social media. Desperately seeking surrogate Within minutes of posting in two Facebook groups for intended parents searching for surrogates, I connected with several women looking to help couples grow their families as well as former surrogates and intended parents who offered guidance. I had done a vlog with Rethink Breast Cancer documenting my breast cancer journey and one of the members of the community sent it to my future surrogate. After a few weeks of texting back and forth, I hopped on a plane from Toronto to Ottawa. We spent an entire day at the spa, lounging and laughing. She felt like someone I had known my entire life. We met in May 2019 and by August of the same year she was pregnant with our baby after the first embryo transfer. My surrogate, my best friend I flew to see her for all the ultrasounds, staying at her home and getting to know her amazing kids and supportive husband. When there was an issue after the five month anatomy scan, I travelled the day after Christmas so we could go to the doctor together— and we celebrated the good news that all was well with her family. I even rented an Airbnb nearby for the time leading up to her birth, just case she went into early labour. But in March 2020 a global pandemic suddenly threw a major wrench into our plans. Surrogacy during the pandemic was no picnic Our surrogate lived in Quebec, just a few kilometres from the Ontario border, and felt more comfortable giving birth there. Despite close proximity to the border, restrictions on cross-border travel proved to be an issue — and spending the month in a rental close to our surrogate was no longer an option. Our lawyers warned us that there was no guarantee we would be allowed across the border at all — even for the birth. I had to pay $250 for a letter from the fertility clinic in Ontario certifying that the embryo implanted and thus the baby she was carrying was biologically related to us. We also had to bring a copy of the fully executed surrogacy contract from our lawyer, who also warned us that due to COVID restrictions, we may not be able to enter the hospital and take custody of the baby once its delivered. Crossing the border wasn't the only obstacle we faced. Prior to a March 2024 reform, a child born via surrogacy in Quebec was considered custody of the surrogate. This meant that only my husband would be allowed in the delivery room, as the surrogate was considered the biological mother. When we got to Quebec we were pleasantly surprised with no issues at the border and the nurses greeting us warmly, and were up to speed on our entire story. While we were hopeful that we could be present for the entire labour, our surrogate needed an emergency C-section. COVID restrictions took precedence once again and we were restricted from being in the operating room and met our baby a few hours after they were born. We had to adopt our own baby Sara Cohen, a fertility lawyer based in Toronto, says there's been a significant increase in surrogacy in Canada in recent years. Cohen tells Yahoo Canada that aside from commercialized surrogacy being legal in the U.S., there are are two important differences between surrogacy in the U.S. vs. Canada. Firstly, Canadian surrogates have access to provincial health care coverage for their pregnancy. In the U.S., intended parents need to consider the costs of insurance premiums for both pregnancy and delivery. Secondly, unlike in Canada, some U.S. states have pre-birth orders, agreements between the surrogate and intended parents signed before the birth of the child declaring the intended parents the legal parents of the child. The process to have legal custody of my child was more complex. In addition to my lawyer in Ontario, I had to retain a lawyer in Quebec to be registered as the biological mother of my child. It was unsettling that after everything I'd gone through, I also had to go through an extensive adoption process. As of March 2024, a new process was implemented that still complicates matters. Any surrogacy agreements signed on or after March 6, 2024 will recognize the intended parents as the legal parents if there is a "notarized act from both the surrogate and the intended parents so long as the surrogate and intended parents be domiciled in Quebec for at least one year prior to the signature of the surrogacy agreement." Cohen says that despite the recently updated laws in Quebec surrounding surrogacy, challenges remain and she “strongly advises people not to engage in surrogacy in the province of Quebec.” In fact she says that people who are surrogates in Quebec often deliver across the border in Ontario. Ontario’s All Families Are Equal Act has simplified the process for intended parents, allowing up to four parent’s names to be listed on the birth registration, thus avoiding a complicated adoption process. Surrogacy in Canada Ontario and British Columbia are considered surrogate-friendly provinces, along with Alberta — but Alberta has a smaller pool of surrogates, and therefore longer wait times. "New Brunswick is probably the worst of the rest of the provinces in the sense that it doesn't have any on point legislation — but nothing is nearly as difficult as Quebec," Cohen says. Still, Cohen says, New Brunswick needs to catch up to the other provinces. Earlier this year she told Global News: “New Brunswick is lagging because there actually is no legislation around surrogacy or children who are conceived through the use of third-party reproduction." Grateful for our family Despite the red tape, I'm grateful for Canadian surrogacy — but that doesn’t mean surrogacy in Canada is a bargain. Lawyers fees, travel expenses, paid time off from work for our surrogate, all those items can really add up. But when you find a surrogate you connect with and trust, none of that matters. My surrogate is forever part of my family, and even one of the godmothers of the baby she delivered. Having breast cancer was not part of my life plan, but if it meant I got to know this amazing woman and her incredible family, in some way, it was all worth it. Share Share on Facebook Share on Twitter Surrogacy in Canada Online 20 hours ago View on Facebook It's a Boy! Congratulations to New Dad Brian and his Surrogate Kaylee who welcomed Baby Charlie on October 17th, 2024 weighing 7lbs! 29 Share Share on Facebook Share on Twitter Surrogacy in Canada Online 20 hours ago View on Facebook The power of love: N.L. woman helping to make Quebec couple's dreams of a second child come true through surrogacy. Rumsey currently pregnant with couple's second child after... See more The power of love: N.L. woman helping to make Quebec couple's dreams of a second child come true through surrogacy. Rumsey currently pregnant with couple's second child after already carrying their daughter. Alexandre Béland and Carl Mastrovito aren’t claiming Céline Dion helped them become parents. All they’re saying is that she was involved, both times. Well, in voice, anyway. Dion was playing on the radio in the Toronto medical clinic during the couple’s first successful embryo transfer to surrogate Lesley Rumsey in 2022, giving them their daughter Sofia. Coincidentally, the Québécoise megastar’s music was playing again during their second successful transfer to Rumsey this past spring, after three previous attempts. Rumsey is due to give birth to their second daughter in St. John’s at the end of November. “Céline is the very distant godmother,” jokes Béland of Dion. “It’s definitely our angels’ way to say this was going to work,” Mastrovito says, more seriously. “I think we were all getting pretty defeated after three failures. Like Lesley says, you can stay optimistic, but reality starts to kick in and the more we were going forward, the more we knew we’d have less and less of a chance. At some point, you have to call it quits.” The power of love As The Telegram reported last year, Rumsey, of St. John’s, had connected Béland and Mastrovito, of Montreal, through Canadian surrogacy consulting agency Proud Fertility. Inspired by her then-20-year-old daughter Skylar’s decision to donate her eggs through the agency, Rumsey decided to become a surrogate. When the organization sent her videos of prospective parents to consider, she felt drawn to couple No. 4 - Béland and Mastrovito – and told the agency she didn’t need to see any others. The men had taken steps to start their family a year earlier, eventually creating two sets of embyros — one set genetically linked to each of them — with the help of an anonymous egg donor, before they were put on a waiting list for a surrogate and told it could be a while. They say they were ecstatic to learn a potential surrogate had chosen them, and felt the same connection to Rumsey when they saw her profile that she did seeing theirs. The power of love, some might say. Emergency delivery The couple stayed in constant contact with Rumsey throughout her pregnancy, attending doctor appointments with her by FaceTime or in person on one of their visits, and had meticulously planned to be in the case room when their daughter was born. Sofia, however, came early in an urgent situation, after the umbilical cord wrapped around her tiny body like a lasso, causing her vital signs to become unstable. Beland and Mastrovito made it to St. John’s quickly, staying in a private hospital room with their daughter and Rumsey until the baby was ready to go home and the paperwork to name Béland and Mastrovito on her birth certificate was in order. At that point, Rumsey had already signed on to carry the couple’s second child, if they decided to try for one. She didn’t know for certain that was their plan until a few months later, when they texted her a picture of Sofia’s new stroller. “I was looking at it and thinking, that’s a double stroller,” Rumsey says, chuckling. “We had already talked about them having a second baby, and if everything went OK for us the first time, that I’d be open to it, now that I knew what was involved.” Busy little girl This pregnancy has been much different for Rumsey than her pregnancy with Sofia. She has been feeling good but is less energetic this time around, whereas with Sofia she was constantly on the move. That tracks, say the dads, since Sofia is the same. These days, she enjoys going to the park, being in daycare, and playing with the new toy kitchen she received for her second birthday on Oct. 21. She loves cats and airplanes and wants to be involved in whatever Papa and Daddy are saying. Her first language is French, and she has already picked up some English. “She’s been a super easy baby. We really lucked out,” says Béland, “but she has a strong character, for sure. Now it’s all about ‘no’ and pushing back.” Always family The couple told The Telegram after Sofia’s birth they would always consider Rumsey and her own two daughters family. They maintain that connection through regular contact and visits. Sofia came with her dads to St. John’s in July and heard her little sister’s heartbeat with them at Rumsey’s ultrasound appointment. It was Sofia who revealed to her dads that her sibling is a girl at a party organized by Rumsey. Sofia emerged wearing a “Big Sister” t-shirt, with a baby doll wearing a matching “Little Sister” shirt. She’ll understand more about her big sister role and Rumsey’s connection to her family when she returns to the province in a month’s time for the baby’s birth, her dads say. In time, she’ll understand how Rumsey helped make her parents’ life dream come true. Lucky Béland and Mastrovito say their surrogacy story – connecting so quickly with Rumsey, having a successful embryo transfer on the first try with Sofia, and Rumsey offering to carry their second child – is not typical. Most surrogates who decide to undergo the process a second time choose a different couple who have yet to have a child, they explain. They consider themselves lucky. Surrogacy is a lot to ask, they explain, describing themselves as having the easy end of the situation and wishing they could be closer to Rumsey to support her in person throughout the process. They also wish surrogacy was an accessible option for more people. “It’s a topic that I’m really, really passionate about, and I think it’s something I would definitely try to change,” says Mastrovito. The cost of the surrogacy process is high, and he’d like to see more financial support from government for Canadian couples who aren’t able to conceive and want to take that route. He’d also like to see changes to legislative barriers. For instance, recent provincial rules allow people in Quebec who want to have a baby by a surrogate to do so only if the surrogate lives in that province or one of seven others. Newfoundland and Labrador isn’t on the list, meaning Rumsey wouldn’t have been allowed to carry Béland and Mastrovito’s child if she hadn’t already been pregnant when the legislation was implemented last June. Finished? Rumsey says she’s often asked whether she’s done being a surrogate. She doesn’t give a clear yes or no. “My daughter Skylar brought it up to me the other day. She said, ‘Mom, everyone asks you if you’re done, and you hesitate for too long. Then you say, ‘Well, the boys are finished,’” Rumsey says. “I know it’s in the universe for me to say, ‘OK Lesley, now it’s time for you.’ But I’ve seen it in a light where I’ve helped this beautiful family. Hopefully, we’ll always have that special thread. It’s just a fear of the finality, when I know there are so many other people out there who will probably never, ever get a surrogate.” 3 Share Share on Facebook Share on Twitter Surrogacy in Canada Online October 20 at 2:59pm View on Facebook Why an Ottawa city councillor carried a baby for a gay couple in Spain. Stéphanie Plante wanted to bring some joy into the world eight years ago as a surrogate. The experience... See more Why an Ottawa city councillor carried a baby for a gay couple in Spain. Stéphanie Plante wanted to bring some joy into the world eight years ago as a surrogate. The experience has helped shape her work at city hall. The little girl blows kisses and, in practised English, says thank you for the gifts. “I love you,” she adds, waving as the video ends. Stéphanie Plante puts down her phone and smiles. As Ottawa councillor for Rideau-Vanier ward since 2022, Plante’s work life includes policies and budgets and helping residents with problems big and small. “I have learned a lot about food banks.” But Martina, the little girl sending a thank you video from Spain where she lives with her two dads, is also part of Plante’s life. And that connection has given the 45-year-old city councilor a rare perspective in Canadian politics. In 2016, before she entered municipal politics, Plante became a gestational surrogate for a gay couple. It was her way, she says, of trying to bring some joy into the world during what was a difficult time in her own life and beyond. Her marriage had imploded and she was a single mother to her young son. As she later wrote in a piece published in Today’s Parent magazine, it was a terrible year. (She cites Trump’s election victory, Brexit and the death of rock star Prince, in addition to her marriage breakdown, as factors). The article was titled: Why Donald Trump and a bad divorce made me decide to become a surrogate. “As (the year) drew to a close, I started thinking about what I could do to counteract all of that terrible. I wanted to look back on that year and think, ‘Yeah, I put something good in the world’,” she wrote. Around that time, Plante saw a post on social media from a man who had once been an exchange student at the University of Windsor where she attended. He was from Spain and had been travelling in the U.S. When she asked about his trip, he said he and his partner were supposed to meet with a surrogate, but it didn’t work out. Plante was working at the University of Ottawa at the time and, during the pregnancy, she started dating the man who would become her husband. She also had a young son. She quickly realized that keeping her decision to become a surrogate a secret would not be an option. “I didn’t ever want my son to feel like this is weird that my mommy is pregnant and she is not keeping the baby. I spoke very openly about it. I told anyone who would listen. I was just very honest because I thought that was the best way to deal with it.” People she spoke to were curious about surrogacy. “Most people had questions.” Plante felt strongly about helping a gay couple who wanted a child, especially after a mass shooting at a gay nightclub in Orlando that left 49 people dead and 53 wounded. “I wanted to help normalize two men having a son or a daughter and raising her. When you normalize all families, you have to build your society around that.” Through participation in surrogacy groups and speaking about her experience, Plante says she has also heard many stories about people who seek a surrogate after years of struggling with infertility. For many of those parents, surrogacy is a last chance. “This is a kind of last whistle-stop for many of them. I wish more people knew that because these stories are absolutely heartbreaking.” And Plante says carrying the baby also helped her get through a difficult time. “In a weird way, it nourished me too. I think she saved me. I needed her as much as she needed me,” said Plante of the pregnancy. It helped ensure she took care of herself, got enough sleep and generally got her life in order after a period of shock and sadness when her marriage ended. And Plante said she knew she would be OK with carrying the baby and giving her up to her fathers. In the days leading up to the baby’s birth, Plante says she was “bloated and looking like a Michelin Man.” She was told to take it easy, and did. But as a final outing before the birth, she attended the 2017 Pride parade. “I thought, I am pregnant with a gay couple’s kid. I have to go watch the Pride parade.” For the cesarean birth, Plante’s husband (then boyfriend) was with her and the fathers were in a nearby room. “My husband was there when the baby was handed to them.” He also took a video of the moment. “They looked up after 15 seconds and said ‘Is Stéphanie OK?’ The nurse said yes, she is fine, and then they looked back at the baby. “It was beautiful. Sometimes when I am having a bad day, I just watch the video of them crying and holding her.” Plante continues to have a close bond with the family who live and raise now seven-year-old Martina in Madrid. They are in “constant touch”, texting each other multiple times a week. Sometimes Plante gets messages from Martina about her day, about her life, about the fact that she didn’t like what was served for dinner. The family visited Canada last year. They will continue to be parts of each other’s lives, even from a distance, she says. It is illegal to pay a surrogate in Canada, but surrogates are reimbursed for pregnancy-related expenses. In some cases, surrogacy agencies manage a trust to handle the expenses. While some see surrogacy as altruistic, similar to living organ donors, there are also critics of the process who say that surrogacy is under-regulated and lacks proper oversight and transparency. It also raises complex ethical issues. Plante has spoken frequently about being a surrogate – making her a rare public voice on the issue, especially among politicians. She has participated in discussions and sessions on how the legislative and policy framework of surrogacy could be improved. Her experience, she says, helped shape the work she now does as city councillor to Rideau-Vanier. Plante, the daughter of a francophone auto worker in the Windsor area, says her blue-collar roots have helped her better understand some of the economic struggles residents she works with are dealing with. “I feel deeply about people who are having some kind of a setback and just need a helping hand.” Being a surrogate for a gay couple has made Pride celebrations even more important to Plante. In August, when Capital Pride was embroiled in a controversy after releasing a pro-Palestinian statement, Plante posted her own statement on the social media platform X, saying she wanted to acknowledge “two very important people who inspire me every day.” One was Ottawa’s first drag queen and Lowertown resident Paul Fournier, known as Peaches Latour, who refused to identify friends who were gay after being arrested by the RCMP in the 1960s. Plante nominated him for the Order of Ottawa this year. She also talked about being a surrogate. “As many of you know, I was a gestational surrogate. Watching her amazing dads raise her is the most heartwarming experience. All families are created equal!” Plante later said that she wanted to tell a personal story “about why we celebrate Pride. Everybody has a story.” 7 Share Share on Facebook Share on Twitter Surrogacy in Canada Online October 19 at 8:36pm View on Facebook This Guelph, Ont., couple is looking for a surrogate via social media after frustrating search. In Canada, it's illegal to pay for surrogate services or to buy human sperm and... See more This Guelph, Ont., couple is looking for a surrogate via social media after frustrating search. In Canada, it's illegal to pay for surrogate services or to buy human sperm and eggs. Stephanie Craig and Mike Murphy of Guelph, Ont., are a pretty average couple. They got married and bought a home together, and have been trying to grow their family since 2017 — but that's been difficult. Because of a medical condition, Craig was force to give birth prematurely in 2019 at 24 weeks. The baby died just 36 minutes after birth. After that, the couple tried in-vitro fertilization (IVF) but it didn't work. Since then, they've been looking for a surrogate but there aren't many available for their needs. In July, the couple decided to create an Instagram page documenting their search and sharing their experience with others going through the same the same experience. They also hoped the online profile might help them find their surrogate. "We found out that we were likely going to have to go public with our search, and that's scary, putting yourself out there," Craig said. Craig said while you can use an agency to find a surrogate, many couples search independently to have more flexibility. She said an agency will have a list of all the service providers a couple would work with, but they want to be able to carefully pick their own lawyers and therapists to work with. "It's more work for us, but we get to have the benefit of working with those that fit our needs best. It is particularly important to us that our future surrogate have the choice as to [which lawyer and therapist] she wants to work with as well." Legal considerations Under Canadian regulations, surrogacy is legal but there are rules surrounding what can and can't be paid to surrogates. For instance, you can't offer to pay or advertise payment for someone to be a surrogate. However, surrogates may be paid for medical and some other expenses related to the pregnancy. To reduce the chances that young women are taken advantage of, it is also illegal to help or advise someone under age 21 to become a surrogate. Anyone found guilty of breaking these laws can be fined up to $500,000 or jailed for up to 10 years. Lisa Feldstein, a lawyer in Markham, Ont., who helps families navigate the health-care system, said there's lots to consider when looking for a surrogate. They include ensuring it's the right path for you, including by speaking to your doctor and getting well informed. Feldstein said one of the biggest barriers can be the financial implications. "Surrogacy is very expensive. Even in the altruistic environment, it is going to be minimum in the tens of thousands of dollars because of the expenses at the fertility clinic," she said. "Then, the reimbursement of the surrogate can dramatically vary if they're paying her back for lost income or if she's a high-income earner and she has to travel a great distance to the clinic, [and] if she has several kids and needs a lot of child-care help." These are costs Craig and Murphy are willing to reimburse for their surrogate. Feldstein said it can add up to about $80,000 and some people can end up spending over $100,000 based on their individual needs. Becoming a surrogate Karen Harnack-O'Connor of Cambridge, Ont., signed up with an agency two years ago to become a surrogate, and gave CBC insight into the process. As a first-time surrogate, she's about 29 weeks into the pregnancy. Harnack-O'Connor said the couple she chose to help were complete strangers. Over a two-year span, they've slowly become her close friends. "It's very much like an interview process at first where you get profiles, you read through the profiles and you find someone that you think that you're going to click with. But then you still have to go through this whole dating process of seeing if both of your values match up together and your outlook of what you want during the pregnancy, and even contact afterwards." Counselling highly suggested Feldstein said couples and surrogates should also be thinking about their individual mental well-being. "Counselling is very important; it's not legally required, but many fertility clinics require it and it's a highly valuable step. Many lawyers do not want to even write a surrogacy contract until counselling has been done." Feldstein said counselling "will often make sure that a surrogate is emotionally fit and mentally fit to be a surrogate, carry a pregnancy for someone else and relinquish the child, and for the intended parents as well, to make sure that they're ready, because many intended parents, they are grieving [a lost child]." Craig said it also helps to have a strong community around you. "I found amazing women on IVF groups that I'm good friends with. We've been meeting up. We now have the surrogacy community that's rallied around us and they're checking in with me all the time," she said. "If this is the way that you need to build your family, you can do it." 6 Share Share on Facebook Share on Twitter Surrogacy in Canada Online October 19 at 8:27pm View on Facebook Government of Yukon introduces medical travel subsidy for fertility and surrogacy treatments. The Government of Yukon is making fertility and surrogacy treatments more accessible... See more Government of Yukon introduces medical travel subsidy for fertility and surrogacy treatments. The Government of Yukon is making fertility and surrogacy treatments more accessible by expanding the medical travel subsidy for eligible Yukoners. This initiative comes into force immediately and will help reduce the financial burden of travel for those seeking fertility and surrogacy treatments not available within the territory. This initiative was committed to in the 2023 Confidence and Supply Agreement. Under expanded regulations for the Medical Travel Program, Yukoners may be eligible to have airfare costs covered and a subsidy to assist with the cost of accommodations, meals and transportation. Given the often-high costs of fertility treatments, this subsidy is aimed at easing some of the financial barriers associated with accessing fertility or surrogacy services outside the Yukon. Expanding medical travel coverage for fertility and surrogacy treatments is the first phase in the government’s broader plan to improve access to fertility treatments for Yukon residents. Work is underway to explore additional options to make fertility treatments more affordable, including the introduction of a tax credit for Yukoners undergoing fertility and surrogacy treatments. The medical travel subsidy applies only to travel for fertility and surrogacy treatments undertaken after the regulation changes take effect. For more information people can contact Shauna Demers, Director of Insured Services at shauna.demers@yukon.ca or 867-335-1534. "Fertility and surrogacy treatments can be both emotionally and financially overwhelming, especially when travel is required to access care. This travel subsidy is aimed at reducing some of the financial pressures, making it easier for Yukoners to access the care they need. We understand how significant these costs can be and are committed to helping Yukoners pursue their family planning goals by reducing some of the financial barriers so they might pursue their dreams of parenthood." Minister of Health and Social Services Tracy-Anne McPhee "The Yukon NDP is proud to have closed this long-standing, glaring gap in medical coverage for families across the territory. We listened to Yukon families when they told us what they needed, and we're happy to see our advocacy on their behalf is taking root in meaningful action." Leader of the Yukon NDP and MLA for Takhini-Kopper King Kate White Quick facts For the most part, fertility treatments, such as in-vitro fertilization (IVF) and surrogacy services are not currently available within the Yukon, requiring residents to travel within Canada, to other jurisdictions for these specialized services. Medical travel for fertility and surrogacy treatment is available for both in and out of territory medical travel when services are not available in one's home community. Including fertility in medical travel is an element of the Confidence and Supply Agreement and is supported by both the Yukon Liberal Government and the Yukon NDP Caucus. Backgrounder Regulatory amendments include the following definition of fertility treatment: Artificial insemination and in vitro fertilization including Intrauterine insemination, Therapeutic donor insemination, and Cycle monitoring Egg (ova) sperm and embryo donation, Egg (ova) and sperm retrieval procedures Fertility preservation including Egg (ova) and embryo freezing and thawing Sperm freezing, thawing and washing, and Fertility preservation for age-related reasons Intracytoplasmic sperm injection Ovulation induction Superovulation Tubal ligation reversal Vasectomy reversal and Assessments, consultations, diagnostic and other treatments including anesthesia, ultrasound or blood tests that are required in connection with any fertility treatment listed above. Applications for medical travel for fertility or surrogacy treatment will follow the same process as applications for insured health services. Media contact Laura Seeley Cabinet Communications 867-332-7627 laura.seeley@yukon.ca Nigel Allan Communications, Health and Social Services 867-332-9576 nigel.allan@yukon.ca Bronte Renwick-Shields Chief of Staff, Yukon NDP bronte.renwick-shields@yla.gov.yk.ca https://laws.yukon.ca/cms/images/LEGISLATION/AMENDING/2024/2024-0163/2024-0163.pdf 1 Share Share on Facebook Share on Twitter Surrogacy in Canada Online October 19 at 8:16pm View on Facebook Italy criminalizes surrogacy abroad in move slammed as ‘medieval’ by critics. Many lawmakers were opposed to the new legislation. Italian parents who have made the often... See more Italy criminalizes surrogacy abroad in move slammed as ‘medieval’ by critics. Many lawmakers were opposed to the new legislation. Italian parents who have made the often difficult and expensive decision to have children through surrogacy abroad have been thrown into a state of fear after a sudden shift in the country’s already strict restrictions on bringing those children up in Italy. Italy has broadened its legislation on surrogacy, which has been illegal in the country since 2004, to now criminalize “surrogacy tourism” in countries like the United States and Canada, subjecting any intended parent who breaks the law to fines of up to €1 million ($1 million) and jail terms of up to two years. As written, the law does not affect parents whose children born of surrogacy are already registered in the country, but many parents of younger children fear they could be targeted anyway when their children reach school age and have to register for the public school system. The law, which came into effect immediately, passed the Italian Senate 84-58 after an impassioned debate that lasted more than seven hours on Wednesday and at times seemed as if it would come to blows. Protesters demonstrating in front of the Senate during the lengthy debate carried signs that said: “We are families, not crimes,” and featured photos of their children under the words “the children we could never have.” Meanwhile, some called the proposed law a “medieval” ruling in interviews with Italian media. The bill was introduced by Giorgia Meloni’s ruling far-right Brothers of Italy party and personally pushed by the prime minister, who has found in Pope Francis an ally on the surrogacy issue - underscoring the continued political influence of the Catholic Church in Italy, especially when it comes to reproductive issues. Italy was one of the last western European nations to legalize same-sex unions, which it did in 2016, but still does not recognize same-sex unions as “marriage” under pressure from the Italian Catholic Church. Meloni welcomed the Senate’s decision on X Wednesday, calling it “a common sense rule against the commodification of the female body and children. Human life has no price and is not a commodity.” Earlier this year, Francis called for a global ban on surrogacy, describing the practice as “deplorable” and insisting that “a child is always a gift and never the basis of a commercial contract.” The pope, however, has not called for the practice to be criminalized and a 2023 Vatican doctrinal ruling pointed out that children born through surrogacy can be baptized. The Catholic Church opposes surrogacy because it is “contrary to the unity of marriage and to the dignity of the procreation of the human person” and is against in-vitro fertilization (IVF) because the process involves the disposal of unneeded embryos, which the church believes is immoral. Francis has shifted the church’s approach on welcoming LGBTQ people, but has maintained a strong line opposing both abortion and surrogacy. He has framed his critique of surrogacy as part of his long-running concerns about a “throwaway culture” where human beings are considered as “consumer goods” to be discarded and in surrogacy sees a danger of poorer women being exploited. The new Italian law does not differentiate between same-sex and heterosexual couples, nor between altruistic or paid surrogacy, but it will disproportionately affect the LGBTQ community, advocates fear. “The alleged defense of women, the vaunted interest in children, are just fig leaves behind which the homophobic obsession of this majority is hidden, not so much,” Laura Boldrini, an Italian politician and former speaker of Italy’s lower house of Parliament who also joined the protest in front of the Senate posted on X. “Law or no law, same-sex families exist and will continue to exist. We will always be at their side in the battle for the affirmation of the rights of boys and girls and the self-determination of women.” Alessia Crocini, president of the Rainbow Families advocate group, said: “We as Rainbow Families will not stop and will continue our battle in the courts and in the streets. We will fight every day to affirm the beauty and freedom of our families and our sons and daughters.” Italy already bans gay couples from adopting children and last year the country started removing lesbian mothers’ names from some birth registrations if they were not the biological parent. Many local governments have already changed birth registrations to allow for only “mother” and “father” rather than “parent 1” and “parent 2,” which is widely accepted across the European Union. Michela Calabro, head of LGBTQ rights group Arcigay’s political arm, called the law a serious denial of individual freedoms and self-determination. “Introducing a crime, even a universal one, not only limits the possibility of choice, but also fuels a patriarchal vision of women’s bodies,” she said in a statement on X. “This measure highlights the Government and Parliament’s inability to address other important and urgent issues in our country. In fact, the parliamentary majority once again chooses to demonstrate its strength mainly on ideological arguments, while on pragmatic issues it confirms its total inability.” It is unclear how the new law will be enforced, or if DNA checks could be required when babies are said to be born to Italian women abroad. LGBTQ activists who protested outside the Senate on Wednesday said that heterosexual couples make up 90% of all surrogacies. They argue that those couples will still be able to “sneak their children in” and get around the new law since, in the US and Canada, intended parents’ names can be put on foreign birth certificates for babies born to surrogates in compliance with state rules. Gay male couples would find it harder to find a loophole when returning to Italy. The new legislation could prove challenging for Meloni politically. She enjoys a strong approval rating, with the latest polls showing she has 29.3% support (up 3% from when she took office in late 2022). But the broad reach of the legislation has prompted wide criticism, including from heterosexual couples who have come out to protest alongside those in the gay community. She is also a close political ally of tech billionaire Elon Musk, who has had children via surrogates and who spoke at her political convention in December, telling her supporters to “make more Italians” to combat the country’s dwindling birth rate. The pope and Meloni have also found common ground on this topic, with the pair joining forces at a conference aimed at tackling Italy’s declining birth rate, while Francis has generated attention for his view that some couples nowadays prefer to have pets rather than children. But not all of Meloni’s policies are in line with those of Francis. The same day the controversial law passed, Italy began shipping some migrant men rescued at sea to Albania, in a move that is starkly against the Church’s teaching that migrants should be welcomed and Francis’ outspoken advocacy on this topic. CNN 1 Share Share on Facebook Share on Twitter Surrogacy in Canada Online October 19 at 8:08pm View on Facebook Italy passes law banning surrogacy abroad that activists say targets LGBTQ+ couples. PM Giorgia Meloni has pursued a highly conservative social agenda since taking... See more Italy passes law banning surrogacy abroad that activists say targets LGBTQ+ couples. PM Giorgia Meloni has pursued a highly conservative social agenda since taking office. Italy's parliament made it illegal on Wednesday for couples to go abroad to have a baby via surrogacy — a pet project of Prime Minister's Giorgia Meloni party that activists say is meant to target same-sex partners. Since taking office in 2022, Meloni has pursued a highly conservative social agenda, looking to promote what she sees as "traditional family values," making it progressively harder for LGBTQ+ couples to become legal parents. The upper house Senate voted into law a bill proposed by Meloni's Brothers of Italy party by 84 votes to 58. The bill was already approved by the lower house last year. The legislation extends a surrogacy ban already in place in Italy since 2004 to those who go to countries such as the United States or Canada, where it is legal, imposing jail terms of up to two years and fines of up to one million euros ($1.49 million Cdn). "Motherhood is absolutely unique, it absolutely cannot be surrogated, and it is the foundation of our civilization," Brothers of Italy Senator Lavinia Mennuni said during the parliamentary debate. "We want to uproot the phenomenon of surrogacy tourism." Legal in Canada In Canada, as many as one-third of surrogate pregnancies have international intended parents, according to a 2020 study published in the Journal of Obstetrics and Gynaecology Canada. "The internet has been demonstrated to be a major source of information for intended parents, with Canada presented as a desirable destination," note the study authors. As the consultancy website Surrogacy In Canada explains, Canada may be be seen as a "preferable country for surrogacy" due to its "altruistic surrogacy legislation, high standard of health care and supportive environment for intended parents and surrogates." Under Canadian regulations, surrogacy is legal, but there are rules surrounding what can and can't be paid to surrogates. For instance, you can't offer to pay or advertise payment for someone to be a surrogate. However, surrogates may be paid for medical and some other expenses related to the pregnancy. Earlier this year, Meloni called surrogacy an "inhuman" practice that treated children as supermarket products, echoing a position expressed by the Catholic Church. On Tuesday, demonstrators gathered near the Senate voicing their outrage at the bill, saying the Italian government was lashing out at LGBTQ+ people and damaging those who wanted to have children, despite Italy's sharply declining birth rate. A 'monstrous law' "If someone has a baby, they should be given a medal. Here, instead, you are sent to jail ... if you don't have children in the traditional way," Franco Grillini, a long-time activist for LGBTQ+ rights in Italy, told Reuters at the demonstration. Rainbow Families president Alessia Crocini said 90 per cent of Italians who choose surrogacy are heterosexual couples, but they mostly do so in secret, meaning the new ban would de facto affect only gay couples who cannot hide it. The clampdown on surrogacy comes against the backdrop of falling birthrates, with national statistics institute ISTAT saying in March that births had dropped to a record low in 2023 — the 15th consecutive annual decline. "This is a monstrous law. No country in the world has such a thing," said Grillini, referring to the government's move to prevent Italians from taking advantage of practices that are perfectly legal in some countries. 2 Share Share on Facebook Share on Twitter Surrogacy in Canada Online October 13 at 5:56am View on Facebook Happy Thanksgiving weekend! 🍂 We are thankful to be helping to create families via Surrogacy for 24 years! We are also thankful for the 51 matches and 19 babies born so far this... See more Happy Thanksgiving weekend! 🍂 We are thankful to be helping to create families via Surrogacy for 24 years! We are also thankful for the 51 matches and 19 babies born so far this year ... and 33 babies on the way! 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