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I HELP GIVERS, PLEASERS, AND SELFLESS PEOPLE AKA “NICE GIRLS” STOP PLAYING SMALL
AND LEARN HOW TO FIND THEMSELVES SO THAT THEY CAN FIND REAL HAPPINESS LIVING AS
THE TRUEST, FREEST, AND MOST BADASS VERSION OF THEMSELVES!



Get started with the Secrets to Finding REAL Happiness mini-video course to
learn the self-care tips to put yourself first in only 30 minutes without
wasting any more of your precious time chasing after the perfect partner or job!













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HI. IM PHOENIX.

I’M A SELF LOVE AND WELLNESS EXPERT WITH M.A. IN COUNSELING AND A CERTIFIED
PRACTITIONER.


ARE YOU WORKING HARD TO MAKE OTHERS HAPPY ALL TO END UP FEELING UNIMPORTANT AND
NOT ENOUGH?


FED UP PUTTING OTHERS FIRST AND GETTING NOTHING IN RETURN?


TIRED OF FEELING SELFISH AND GUILTY WHEN YOU TRY TO SAY NO OR TAKE CARE OF
YOURSELF?


FEEL LOST FROM TRYING TO BE WHAT EVERYONE WANTS YOU TO BE…


FEEL UNIMPORTANT, NOT ENOUGH, AND UNDER-VALUED?





I’ve been there…

I’ve stayed small and shrunk myself down… every day because even the tiniest
chance of getting disliked, judged, and rejected ….was too painful to bear.

I worked a job I hated and was stuck in a bad relationship for years because of
patterns of pleasing, giving, and selflessness! I kept putting others first at
the detriment of myself even though I was exhausted and depleted.

And when I tried putting me first…for once…I felt guilty and selfish!

I felt lost and empty because I was trying to be everything to everyone and I
lost myself in the process.

So I know just how painful it is when nothing works and you just feel so
confused.

Chasing after people’s approval, acceptance, validation, and love thinking it
will make you happy… but it doesn’t …

Good news…you don’t have to keep chasing after those things and keep yourself
small ANYMORE!

You can take matters into your own hands NOW and start stepping into the person
you were always meant to be… your True Self. You CAN create the life and
happiness you truly deserve!

I’ll show you how!










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What People Are Saying


 * "I WAS SEEKING OUT A PROFESSIONAL TO HELP ME NAVIGATE MY WAY OUT OF A TOXIC
   RELATIONSHIP AND FAMILY, WHEN I HAD SEEN PHOENIX’S VIDEOS ONLINE. ALMOST
   EVERY VIDEO RESONATED WITH THE REAL LIFE EXPERIENCES I HAD ENDURED WITH SAID
   FAMILY. WHEN WE CONNECTED, SHE WAS BEYOND GENEROUS AND EMPATHETIC. WITH HER
   COACHING, SHE GIFTED ME THE INSIGHT AND STRENGTH I DESPERATELY NEEDED. SHE’S
   SO APPROACHABLE, THAT WHAT COULD HAVE BEEN AN UNCOMFORTABLE CONVERSATION,
   TURNED INTO A FLUID, EFFORTLESS PURGE OF TOPICS I WANTED TO DISCUSS FOR
   YEARS, YET COULDN’T WITH OTHERS. I GREATLY APPRECIATE PHOENIX’S ABILITY TO
   CONNECT ON A PERSONAL LEVEL AS WELL, AS SHE SHARED HER OWN VULNERABLE
   EXPERIENCES, WHICH MADE ME FEEL MUCH LESS ISOLATED IN MINE. SHE TRULY IS AN
   EARTH ANGEL WITH YEARS OF INSIGHT AND EXPERIENCE SHE USES TO HELP HEAL
   OTHERS."
   
   Leila Herbert


 * "COACH PHOENIX HAS BEEN AN AMAZING COACH! I'VE ONLY BEEN SEEING HER FOR FOUR
   WEEKS AND ALREADY I'M EXPERIENCING A DIFFERENCE IN MY DAILY INTERACTIONS AND
   DAY TO DAY LIFE. SHE HAS THE BEST TOOLS AND BOOKS THAT HELP ME UNDERSTAND MY
   TRAUMA AND SORT THROUGH THE FEELINGS THAT COME WITH IT. SHE HAS MADE ME
   REALIZE I DON'T HAVE TO LIVE MISERABLE ANYMORE! SHE'S PROVED THAT HEALING IS
   POSSIBLE."
   
   Chanelle Powell


 * “WHEN I CAME TO PHOENIX FOR COACHING, I DIDN'T KNOW HOW TO TAKE CARE OF
   MYSELF OR PUT MY NEEDS FIRST. I FELT SO EXHAUSTED AND LIKE I WAS JUST
   SURVIVING MY LIFE INSTEAD OF LIVING IT. EVERYDAY, I HAD TO PEOPLE PLEASE AND
   PUT MYSELF LAST TO GET ACCEPTANCE FROM OTHERS. AFTER GETTING COACHING, I'M
   NOW VALUING HOW I FEEL, STANDING UP FOR MYSELF, AND I'M SHOWING UP IN A WHOLE
   NEW WAY IN MY RELATIONSHIPS! COACHING WITH HER FELT EASY AND SUPPORTIVE AND
   I'M SO HAPPY I CHOSE HER AS MY COACH! I HIGHLY RECOMMEND HER IF YOU'RE
   NEEDING ANY HELP."
   
   Beth Stewart


 * "I WAS STRUGGLING WITH MY INNER CRITIC, MASSIVE ANXIETY, AND LOTS OF ANGER.
   AFTER A FEW MONTHS OF COACHING, I'VE LEARNED TO LISTEN, CONTROL MY FEELINGS,
   MY THOUGHTS, AND DEAL WITH MY INNER CRITIC. I HAVE COMPLETELY CHANGED FOR THE
   BETTER BECAUSE OF HER HELP! NOW I THINK THINGS THROUGH, AND NO LONGER LET MY
   FEELINGS CONTROL ME. SHE LITERALLY TOOK A BROKEN, DYSFUNCTIONAL, UNRELIABLE
   PERSON AND TURNED ME INTO A HEALTHY, HAPPY, FUNCTIONAL AND RELIABLE MAN. MY
   LIFE HAS BEEN COMPLETELY CHANGED. I CANNOT THANK HER ENOUGH! WORDS JUST DON'T
   EXPRESS MY TRUE GRATITUDE."
   
   Miles Flint


 * “MY RELATIONSHIP WAS AT AN IMPASSE DUE TO MY PARTNERS INSECURITY AND CONTROL
   ISSUES. I DIDN'T KNOW HOW TO GET THROUGH TO MY PARTNER OR HOW TO SET
   BOUNDARIES. AFTER PHOENIX'S COACHING, I FELT VALIDATED AND UNDERSTOOD. SHE
   HELPED ME TO IDENTIFY MY BOUNDARIES AND COMMUNICATE WITHOUT BLAMING. NOW MY
   HUSBAND IS GETTING HELP AND WE ARE HEALING TOGETHER. WITH HER HELP I AM ABLE
   TO COMMUNICATE HOW I FEEL AND UNDERSTAND THAT I SHOULDN'T FEEL BAD FOR
   GETTING UPSET AND I SHOULD BETTER UNDERSTAND MY EMOTIONS AND NOT REACT RIGHT
   AWAY. I FEEL SO MUCH BETTER TACKLING A SITUATION DUE TO BEING ABLE TO HANDLE
   MY FEELINGS!"
   
   Casey Hunley




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DO YOU -


FEEL LIKE SOMETHING IS MISSING IN YOUR LIFE…


FEEL LIKE NO MATER HOW MUCH WORK YOU DO, YOU ALWAYS ATTRACT THE SAME THINGS?


DOES EVERYONE ELSE’S NEEDS MATTER MORE THAN YOUR OWN?


DO YOU FEEL EXHAUSTED AND DEPLETED…AND SELFISH AND GUILTY WHEN YOU EVEN TRY
PUTTING YOURSELF FIRST?


DO YOU FIND IT HARD ….AND ALMOST IMPOSSIBLE TO SAY NO?




THAT WAS ME JUST A FEW YEARS AGO… I WORKED SO HARD, FELT EXHAUSTED ALL OF THE
TIME, AND NO MATTER WHAT I DID, I COULDN’T MAKE MY LIFE BETTER AND HAPPIER…
UNTIL I REALIZED THE PROBLEM WAS WITH THE RELATIONSHIP WITH MYSELF. I HAD ZERO
IDEA HOW TO MAKE MYSELF HAPPY.




NOT ANYMORE! IF YOU WANT TO BE WHOLE, WE HAVE TO LEARN TO HEAL FROM THE INSIDE
OUT.


YOU ATTRACT WHAT YOU ARE ON THE INSIDE….SO IF WHAT’S ON THE INSIDE IS UNHEALTHY
THAN YOU ATTRACT UNHEALTHY.


AND YOU DON’T HAVE TO LIVE LIKE THAT ANYMORE EITHER.














































IMAGINE….

Feel like you keep attracting the same things and nothing ever changes no matter
how much work you put in … to feeling whole and happy on your own.

Stuck and can’t let go of your old patterns… to being Truly Free to live your
life the way you want and show up as your True, Authentic Self.

Stop waiting for the other shoe to drop… to feeling mentally and emotionally
clear and calm.

Trading self sacrifice for having your own back! You support yourself fiercely
no matter what happens in your life.

Going from feeling confused and empty… to feeling full and truly happy.

Being harsh and critical with yourself 24/7… to feeling valuable and good about
yourself!






































BECOME THE LEADING CHARACTER IN YOUR OWN STORY

This is not just a possibility….it’s a REALITY when you start learning how to
prioritize yourself and your own happiness.

You CAN truly transform your life!

Don’t waste years of your life waiting on someone’s approval, validation, or
love!

NO ONE IS GOING TO SAVE YOU!




THE JOURNEY STARTS WITH YOU.






I KNOW WHAT IT’S LIKE TO:

 * chase after other’s approval, validation, acceptance, and love

 * feel bad 24/7 and use food, relationships, and caring for
   
   others to feel better [at the expense of myself]

 * not knowing how to feel good or happy

 * feel not deserving and not enough

 * struggle letting go of the past and with being waaay too hard on myself

 * feel stuck in a cycle of getting all the things I DONT WANT over and over
   again
   
   


ONCE I FIGURED OUT HOW TO TRULY LOVE AND VALUE MYSELF, MY WHOLE WORLD CHANGED!

On my search for healing, I earned my Masters in Counseling and spent the last
20 years learning how to control what I’m attracting and stepping into who I
wanted to be.

I’ve experienced the same struggles you have and have been where you are! I am
determined to help others stop playing small and step into who there were always
meant to be! I am your guide to light your path out of the loneliness and
massive confusion that I felt on my healing journey.

Now, I share my tools and methods [backed by science] to support others on their
journey from powerlessness and confusion to empowerment and happiness. I start
by creating a safe and loving space to feel held, truly seen, and heard, using
brain science and mending the mind-body connection and many others. Just click
the button to chat with me and take the first step to true happiness!












TODAY CAN BE THE DAY THAT YOU CHANGE EVERYTHING!

Click the link to Apply for a Free Call. It’s 60 minutes long and will give you
CLARITY! You’ll get real answers to what’s been blocking you and keeping you
stuck…it may just change your life!

Begin this first HUGE step to finding yourself and being truly happy!

Just click the button to get started.

Chat with me.


PRIVATE COACHING WILL HELP YOU GROW MUCH FASTER AND EASIER THAN GOING IT ALONE.

 * Start to find happiness after years of walking down the wrong path

 * Truly learn how to love yourself and see the YOU that was always there

 * Heal the confusion and indecision that is running your life

 * Set immovable boundaries

 * Stop blaming yourself, self-rejecting and self-abandoning and start meeting
   your needs

 * Learn to let go of needing outward validation and live your life in the
   present moment

 * Truly love and support yourself NO MATTER WHAT!

 * Stop pointing the finger at your symptoms and start pointing it at the
   problem

 * Turn away from the confusion, the chase, and blame, and other self-defeating
   behaviors

 * Feel FREE and take back control of your life!!

 * Feel seen, heard, and finally understood in a safe and caring container from
   someone who has been grown through what you’re going through

 * Get the mental and emotional freedom that comes with learning how to handle
   your feelings and really love yourself!
   
   Click the button below to chat with me directly and take the first step to
   finding true happiness!






 * NO ONE’S GOING TO SAVE YOU OR MAKE YOU HAPPY… GO AFTER THE LIFE YOU WANT BY
   INVESTING IN YOURSELF. TODAY CAN BE THAT DAY!
   
   -Phoenix


 * THERE’S NOTHING “WRONG” WITH YOU….WHEN YOU IDEALIZE LOVE, YOU’LL GO TO ANY
   LENGTHS JUST TO GET SCRAPS.
   
   -Phoenix


 * IT TAKES ENORMOUS COURAGE AND BRAVERY TO STEP OUTSIDE OF YOUR COMFORT ZONE
   AND STEP INTO THE UNKNOWN.
   
   -Phoenix


 * IT'S YOUR CHOICE... HOLD ON TO WHAT'S CAUSING YOU PAIN OR LET GO AND STEP
   INTO THE YOU YOU'RE MEANT TO BE.
   
   -Phoenix


 * WHEN YOU BET ON YOURSELF , YOU'LL NEVER LOSE!
   
   -Phoenix



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WHAT IF THE SITUATION THAT CAGED YOU IGNITES THE FIRE THAT SHAPES YOU INTO WHO
YOU TRULY ARE?


START LETTING YOUR PAST GO & START STEPPING INTO YOUR TRUE SELF TODAY!

No one’s going to save you or make you happy… go after the life you want by
investing in yourself. Today, you can change everything! -Phoenix






TAKE THE FIRST STEP

1. Book a Call: Feel free to message me, just click the blue bubble to your
right if you have any questions or click the button below to schedule a
Discovery Call. The Call is 60 minutes long and you can apply for a FREE call!

I’ll help you finalllly know what the problem is that is blocking you from being
happy, satisfied, and fulfilled in your life! This is the first HUGE step on
your journey. Know that I am SO PROUD OF YOU for taking this step!

This is not a “salesy” or gimmicky call. You’ll get real answers and it may just
change your entire life.











2. Get Clarity. On the call, I’ll identify what your struggling with and explain
how I can help in clear and easy to understand terms. We’ll find out if we want
to work together, and then I’ll customize a plan just for you! Past clients have
reported that this call gave them some much-needed clarity and changed their
lives!



3. Begin Your Journey. I’ll be your guide on your journey and create a safe
space so that you feel completely seen, heard, and cared for. In this safe
space, you’ll be completely free to be yourself and get the validation and care
that you’ve been searching for! I’ll shine the light on the patterns and and
blind spots that have been holding you back so you can start growing and loving
yourself in leaps and bounds.









I'm ready to get started
I'm Ready to Take the First Step

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