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hjbender sukugo
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itsawritblr




 * #writing woes

hjbender the--mantling--dark
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octobersociety





90s Halloween

 * #god i miss halloween in the early 90s

hjbender backtothe80scolors
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kineticpenguin



hjbender proship-anti-discussion
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proship-anti-discussion



I’m going to use a simple metric here, though I realize this is far more complex
and nuanced than what tumblr is able to offer.

Low suffering: You feel happy most days, with little stress, anger, or another
negative emotions. You rarely suffer from breakdowns.
Mild suffering: You feel negative and positive emotions almost equally. The
emotions you experience change day per day. Sometimes you may experience a
breakdown.
High suffering: You feel constant negative emotions. Stress and anxiety wear you
down. It’s not uncommon for you to experience breakdowns.

How much suffering do you normally experience?

antiship: low suffering

antiship: mild suffering

antiship: high suffering

neutral: low suffering

neutral: mild suffering

neutral: high suffering

proship: low suffering

proship: mild suffering

proship: high suffering

Poll started on Saturday, September 28, 2024 at 05:16:24 AM Poll ended on
Saturday, October 5, 2024 at 05:16:24 AM
 * #and i feel fine

hjbender portraitoftheoddity
Postato il 28 Settembre, 2024 Postato il Sabato, 28 Settembre 2024 Postato il
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Anonimo ha chiesto

Have you heard of the Ship of Theseus?

toskarin replied

no. was it problematic or something?

harmincreasion

because various constituent parts of the boat could be older or younger than
other parts, it was considered the first ever age-gap ship

 * #oh my god

hjbender cacodaemonia
Postato il 28 Settembre, 2024 Postato il Sabato, 28 Settembre 2024 Postato il
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just-antishipper-things

"You can't ship that!"

lol what are you gonna do, climb inside my mind and shut off the imagination
switch?

just-antishipper-things





This kind of response always fascinates me, so while I've got you here, can I
just ask: legal by what standards? Do you mean real world standards, where laws
vary from country to country, and in the case of the US, state to state? Or do
you mean the fictitious laws set in place in the fictional setting of the ship?
What standard exactly should we use to tell people "you're not allowed to enjoy
this fictional thing?"

I know you didn't mean any harm by your response, but I feel it's important to
reiterate that nothing gives anyone the right to police what people do in a
fictional setting, full stop. Because at the end of the day, it's fiction, it's
a fantasy, none of it is real, and so real world rules and standards do not
apply. So, as long as you are not actively causing harm in a real world setting
(i.e. harassing real people over fictional ships) then you do you.

just-antishipper-things





a very important addition

hazel2468

Something that also drives me NUTS with this "uwu if it's legal" shit is like...

Y'all only EVER. Say it about sexual stuff. "Oh wow well if it's LEGAL-!" bitch
my ass is out here playing DnD. I roleplay a devil-them who KILLS PEOPLE FOR A
LIVING and yet I don't see y'all rushing to tell me that those thoughts are
illegal and bad and noooo you can't do THAT, murder is ILLEGAL.

It's because y'all are a bunch of puritan weirdos about sex and I reblogged a
post that hits why right on the nose but dear FUCK y'all need to really unpack
all of your weirdness about sex. Like. Right now. Because it's all conservative
bullshit.

 * #pleaaaaaase unclench about the sex kids
 * #seriously it's so fucked up to flip out over anything related to sex or
   nudity. like. that's really unhealthy
 * #<- prev tags

hjbender ecto-stone
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jackalspine





Have we considered the possibility that op might like the show

hjbender iwritesometimes
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hometoursandotherstuff





Tea party time.

 * #oh it's fuckin tea time baby

hjbender winterbonesthings
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coffee-is-my-oxygen

*sees ao3 is down*

*goes to tumblr*

*sees ao3 tag is trending with 1.5k new posts*

Me: oh good we’re all here

hjbender sunnyforestcat
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sea-mists

truly the coolest people are the ones who are just unashamedly into their
interests. passion is sexy. practice is sexy. not giving a shit what anyone else
thinks is the sexiest thing of all.

hjbender jinxiaobao
Postato il 27 Settembre, 2024 Postato il Venerdì, 27 Settembre 2024 Postato il
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apolladay

This has probably been done before but, Tea Drinkers pick your favorite tea!




Favorite Tea?

Black

Oolong

Rooibos

Earl Gray

Green

White

Herbal

Fruit Flavored

Mixed Blend*

Something else?

Tea Hater Button

Poll started on Sunday, September 22, 2024 at 02:11:11 AM Poll ended on Sunday,
September 29, 2024 at 02:11:11 AM

*Apple Cinnamon, Lemon Mint, Sleepy Time teas, those blends you can get from
Adagio.com ect

 * #oolong
 * #followed by green and white
 * #then rooibus
 * #i love tea

hjbender thesaltofcarthage
Postato il 27 Settembre, 2024 Postato il Venerdì, 27 Settembre 2024 Postato il
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bootdork

I wish it was easier to talk about mobile phone addiction without sounding like
a boomer

bootdork

Phone addiction (specifically social media addiction) is real and it's not a
joke and it is everywhere. Phone addiction literally reduces the grey matter of
your brain. It's no secret young adults are more anxious and depressed than
ever; more lonely than ever; more aimless than ever. Do you remember being a
hugely creative kid, and feel like that spark is gone now? Can't sleep at night?
Yeah, your GABA receptors are probably fucked from getting hits every 60 seconds
from checking your phone. What's your daily screen time like? 6 hours? 12? These
are common numbers. It's insane! It's insane and it's deliberate. Companies make
more money from you when you're brain is fried from scrolling 10 hours a day
through meaningless content.

But it can be reversed. Start small. If you hit this post then take 5 minutes to
put your phone down in another room and do something. Do a crossword. Go for a
walk. Be present! CBT is a hugely successful therapy for phone addiction and can
even reverse the damage done to your brain.

I get it. I have dozens of beloved friends online, and I'm more informed now
than I would ever have been without access to the Internet, but wouldn't it be
nice to wonder sometimes? Wouldn't it be nice to be able to go outside and not
itch for your phone screen? To have that creativity and confidence back? Start
small. Start now.

 * #bookmark
 * #addiction

hjbender sukugo
Postato il 26 Settembre, 2024 Postato il Giovedì, 26 Settembre 2024 Postato il
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kookntae4ever



This is me. Kinda jealous of all the writers who can write quickly because I
can't.


 * #writing woes

hjbender thesnadger
Postato il 26 Settembre, 2024 Postato il Giovedì, 26 Settembre 2024 Postato il
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daily-spooky




 * #oh im definitely going to die in a freak accident
 * #i just know it

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