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CAROLYN HAX: ‘THIRD-TIME LOSER’ BALKS AT GOING SOLO TO 1ST WIFE’S HOLIDAY DINNER

After third divorce, a parent dreads the holidays with remarried first wife and
their kids in her “suburban Barbie dream house.”

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(Illustration by Nick Galifianakis for The Washington Post)
Column by Carolyn Hax
November 7, 2024 at 12:00 a.m. EST

Adapted from an online discussion.

Dear Carolyn: At the grand age of 48, I am now facing my third divorce and
feeling pretty low about it. I mean, when that third marriage goes belly up, you
have to face the fact that the one constant has been you, right?


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