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When you learn a new way to think, you can master a new way to be... via Private Life Coaching. Marc and Angel Hack Life Practical Tips for Productive Living * Blog * About * Events * Books * Podcast * Getting Back to Happy 10 DAILY HABITS THAT OFTEN DRAIN 90 PERCENT OF OUR JOY (WEEK AFTER WEEK) Written by Marc Chernoff // 38 Comments GET OUR FREE EBOOK: "30 Things to Start Doing for Yourself" — the positive daily guide that will keep you on track. Check your email. There was an error submitting your subscription. Please try again. Email Address I'd like to receive the free email course. Get It Powered by ConvertKit You ultimately become what you repeatedly do. If your habits aren’t helping you, they’re hurting you. Here are some fairly common and widespread examples of the latter that will drain all your joy, week after week, if you let them: 1. FOCUSING ON HOW LIFE “SHOULD” BE EVERY STEP OF THE WAY. Try to use frustration and inconvenience to motivate you rather than annoy you. You are in control of the way you look at life. Instead of getting angry, find the lesson. In place of envy, feel admiration. In place of worry, take action. In place of doubt, have faith. Remember that your response is always more powerful than your present circumstance. A small part of your life is decided by completely uncontrollable circumstances, while the vast majority of your life is decided by your responses. Where you ultimately end up is heavily dependent on how you play the hands you’ve been dealt. MY LATEST VIDEOS Buried Life Final.qt More Videos 0 seconds of 4 minutes, 6 secondsVolume 0% Press shift question mark to access a list of keyboard shortcuts Keyboard ShortcutsEnabledDisabled Play/PauseSPACE Increase Volume↑ Decrease Volume↓ Seek Forward→ Seek Backward← Captions On/Offc Fullscreen/Exit Fullscreenf Mute/Unmutem Decrease Caption Size- Increase Caption Size+ or = Seek %0-9 Next Up Quote vid.mov 00:57 facebook twitter Email pinterest Linkhttps://cdn.jwplayer.com/previews/FGCLdiQl Copied Auto180p720p540p360p270p180p Live 00:00 04:06 04:06 2. WANTING TO CONTROL THE UNCONTROLLABLE. Be selective with your energy today. If you can fix a problem, fix it. If you can’t, then accept it and change your thoughts about it. Whatever you do, don’t attempt to invest more energy than you have, tripping over something behind you or something that only exists inside your head. Truth be told, some of the most powerful moments in life happen when you find the courage to let go of what can’t be changed. Because when you are no longer able to change a situation, you are challenged to change yourself — to grow beyond the unchangeable. And that changes everything. 3. HOLDING TIGHT TO THE WAY THINGS ONCE WERE. You’re not the same person you were a year ago, a month ago, or even a week ago. You’re always learning and growing, and life is always evolving. Again, even though you can’t control everything that happens, you can control your attitude about what happens. And in doing so, you will gradually master change rather than allowing it to master you. So be humble today. Be teachable. The world is often bigger than your view of the world. There’s always room for a fresh idea or a next step. But first you must accept the fact that things may never go back to how they used to be, and that this ending is really a new beginning. 4. REFUSING TO PRACTICE SELF-FORGIVENESS. Forgive yourself for the bad decisions you’ve made in the past, for the times you lacked understanding, for the choices that accidentally hurt others and yourself. Forgive yourself, for being young and reckless. These are all vital lessons. And what matters most right now is your willingness to grow from them. (Note: Angel and I discuss this further in the Adversity chapter of “1,000 Little Things Happy, Successful People Do Differently”.) 5. ENDLESSLY SETTLING FOR THE DEFAULT SETTINGS. There are thousands of people who live their entire lives on the default settings, never acknowledging the fact that they can customize everything. Don’t be one of them — don’t settle for the default settings on a daily basis. Don’t hide behind indecision or laziness either. And forget popularity! Just do your thing with passion, humility, and honesty. Do what you do, not for an applause, but because it’s what’s right. Pursue it a little bit each day, no matter what anyone else thinks. That’s how dreams are achieved. 6. RESISTING NEW IDEAS AND LESSONS. To make real progress in the long run you must let go of the assumption that you already have all the answers. So don’t stop learning! Don’t stop investing in yourself. Research. Read. Devour books. Engage with people, including those who think differently. Ask questions. Listen closely. And don’t just grow in knowledge. Be a person who gives back. Use what you’re learning to make a real and lasting difference. (Note: “The Good Morning Journal” is a great tool for noticing and keeping track of all your lessons learned.) 7. CONSTANTLY SEEKING FLEETING CONTENTMENT. There are two variations of contentment in life — fleeting and enduring. The fleeting type is derived from instants of material comfort, while the enduring type is attained through the gradual growth and progress on matters that are truly important to you. At a quick glimpse it might be difficult to decipher one from the other, but as time rolls on it becomes vividly obvious that the latter is far superior. So just remember, if it entertains you now but will hurt or bore you someday, it’s a distraction. Don’t settle. Don’t exchange what you want most for what you kinda want at the moment. Study your routines. Figure out where your time goes, and remove distractions. It’s time to focus more on what matters in the long run. 8. ALWAYS WORRYING ABOUT EVERYONE ELSE’S STORY. Don’t be so satisfied with the success stories of others and how things have gone for them, that you forget to write your own. Unfold your own tale and bring it to life on a daily basis. You have everything you need to become what you are capable of becoming. Incredible change happens when you decide to make yourself a priority. And remember, you won’t always be a priority to others, and that’s why you have to be a priority to yourself. Learn to respect yourself, take care of yourself, and become a daily part of your own support system. This means consuming less and creating more. It means refusing to let others do your thinking, talking, and deciding for you. It means learning to embrace and use your ideas and instincts to write your passage, one day at a time. 9. FEARING LITTLE (NECESSARY) FAILURES. Sometimes we literally have to fail dozens of times to succeed. And no matter how many mistakes you make or how slow you progress, you are still way ahead of everyone who isn’t trying. So don’t get so hung up on a few failed attempts that you miss the opening for a hundred more opportunities. All of your ideas that don’t work are simply stepping stones to the one idea that does. And remember, failure is not falling down; failure is staying down when you have the choice to get back up. Always get back up! Oftentimes good things fall apart in the near term so better things can fall together in the end. (Read “Stumbling on Happiness”.) 10. WAITING FOR THE “PERFECT” MOMENT TO TAKE THE NEXT STEP. Don’t buy into the myth of the perfect moment. Moments aren’t perfect, they’re what you make of them. So many people wait around for the stars to align to do what they’re here to do. The perfect moment, the perfect opportunity, the perfect state of being, etc. Wake up! Don’t “wait” away the vast majority of your life! Remind yourself that too many people wait all day for 5pm, all week for Friday, all year for the holidays, all their lives for happiness. And you don’t be one of them. Ultimately, you will come to succeed not by finding a perfect moment, but by learning to see and use life’s imperfections as stepping stones. AN EXERCISE FOR BUILDING BETTER HABITS STARTING TODAY If you feel a like you’ve wasted too much time and joy on one or more of the points above, this quick actionable closing exercise is for YOU. Choose any area in your life that you want to improve, and then: 1. Write down the specific details about your current circumstances. (What’s bothering you? Where are you stuck? What do you want to change?) 2. Write down your answer to this question: What are the daily habits that have contributed to your current circumstances? (Be honest with yourself. What are you doing regularly that actually contributes to the situation you’re in?) 3. Write down a few specific details about the “better circumstances” you’d like to create for yourself. (What would make you happy? What does an improved situation look like for you?) 4. Write down your answer to this question: What are the daily habits that will get you from where you are to where you want to be? (Think about it. What small, daily steps will help you gradually move forward from point A to point B?) NOW, IT’S YOUR TURN… Yes, it’s your turn to not fall back into your old patterns of living today simply because they’re more comfortable and easier to access. It’s your turn to remember that you’re leaving certain habits and situations behind for a reason: to improve your life — because you can’t move forward if you keep going back. And it’s undoubtedly your turn to reclaim your joy and make your time count going forward! But before you go, please leave Angel and me a comment below and let us know what you think of this essay. Your feedback is important to us. Which one of the points above resonated the most today? Also, if you haven’t done so already, be sure to sign-up for our free newsletter to receive new articles like this in your inbox each week. Photo by: Georges Petrequin Share Share on Facebook Share Share this Pin Pin this Share Share on LinkedIn ENTER YOUR EMAIL TO GET NEW ARTICLES LIKE THIS DELIVERED FOR FREE. Join 130,000+ subscribers and get life-changing ideas in your inbox: Thanks! Now check your email to confirm your subscription. There was an error submitting your subscription. Please try again. First Name Email Address We use this field to detect spam bots. If you fill this in, you will be marked as a spammer. Subscribe Powered by ConvertKit COMMENTS 1. Susan says May 23, 2024 at 6:03 am Among the best reads I’ve found online so far in recent times. On point and concise points. Thank you. Several resonated deeply, but number 7 is something I’m working on right now. Reply * Maqebo Soaisa says May 23, 2024 at 10:16 pm The Sections that spoke to me more than others are the last two…fearing little necessary failures, and waiting for the perfect moment. Those are my greatest weaknesses and I need to take the given advice so I can start making the necessary changes. Thank you very much. Reply * Chris Neavin says June 2, 2024 at 1:37 pm My biggest weakness is forgiving myself, I loved this article n I’m going to use all the lessons, thank you so much. * Laura Clark says May 25, 2024 at 1:51 am Thank you, very relevant. Thank you. Reply * Arti Chopra says May 25, 2024 at 5:21 am Absolutely I am able to resonate with most of the pointers . My key takeaway is don’t do things to impress others just do things to get improve and progress each day towards your dreams . Reply 2. Tiffany Victoria Bradshaw, MBA says May 23, 2024 at 6:27 am It was a great list I resonated with the concept of trying to control the uncontrollable, and making #1. I also liked the information about forgiving yourself. I liked this list so much that I added it a few of the points to my list of golden rules that I’ve been re-creating from myself lately. I have subscribed and I’m now an inspired reader/follower. Reply 3. Simba says May 23, 2024 at 6:32 am Thank you for the essays and emails. This is the best self awareness piece I have read anywhere online in a long time. I will re-read this list a few more times to help me improve, thank you. Reply 4. Sonja says May 23, 2024 at 6:50 am This list is impressive! Such perfect reminders. I have found not forgiving myself for life changing mistakes I made while young to be the biggest obstacle to a peaceful and productive life. Thank you your newsletter there’s always something that I needed to let sink in deeper. Reply * Jacintha says May 24, 2024 at 2:04 am To achieve our dreams do your part consistently don’t think about others opinion. Reply * Amir Davis says June 7, 2024 at 2:04 pm Thank reading this article is a blessing to me and others. Thank you Angel God bless you. 5. Laura Hoffart says May 23, 2024 at 7:16 am I’ve been a reader of your blog for quite some time now and finally decided to purchase one of your books for a dear friend. The problem was deciding which book! So I ended up buying all 4 just now! I hope they enjoy your inspirational messages and lessons as much as I have. Thank you Marc and Angel! Reply 6. Crystal says May 23, 2024 at 7:36 am So many of the points you shared felt like you were speaking directly to many of the things that I’ve been thinking about lately. The ideas of ‘You will not always have the support of others so don’t forget to be your own support system on a daily basis’ and ‘forget popularity, do what is important to you with passion and honesty’ really hit home this morning. Appreciate your encouragement and support! Reply * Marie says May 24, 2024 at 12:15 am Thank you. Very well written. Positive and inspiring. I appreciate you Marie Reply 7. Che Jackson says May 23, 2024 at 7:59 am Holding too tightly to the way things were is a message for me and quite a few in my network. I’ve caught myself being the “stay off my lawn” and “the youth of today” grumbler, rather than embracing change and being open to learning new ways and ideas. I’m taking this one to heart! Reply 8. Renee Cermola says May 23, 2024 at 8:28 am I just wanted to take a quick moment to tell you how much I enjoy your articles. Your words of wisdom are very well written, informative, and always hit home. I look forward to reading them daily and often share with friends and family. Reply 9. Linda says May 23, 2024 at 9:20 am These are the best set of habits I read in a long time. I esp liked the one “always worrying about someone else’s story” Thats one I am going to nail on my wall. I am awful at that and as of today I am going to try so hard to change that way about myself. The one about not being able to control the uncontrollable knocks hard on me too because sometimes I feel that way. I am doing a mindfullness course for the past few weeks and it is really helping me with mindset and a lot of other things. I can feel the difference happening to me. Just today I had to wait in a long line at a store and I was more relaxed about it than ever before, It works and so do all your tips if we follow them. Thank you so much, I respect you taking time to do up all this information and send it to us. Reply * Raveendra Raman says May 25, 2024 at 3:27 am It is one of the best reads, can be termed as “Life Changing Gems”, beautifully crafted, quite inspiring and practically possible to achieve what we love. Thanks for the wonderful topics. Keep inspiring ! Reply 10. CalebkinG says May 23, 2024 at 9:38 am I enjoyed and resonated with each paragraph. Simply stating the truth in a simple way. But the great idea and fascination behind it’s impact is hitting at the heart of that which does affect us on a moment to moment living. And , how willingly adjusting ourselves from an internal landscape can effectively change us, improving our lives and of those we get a chance to interact with. Reply 11. jacques fleury says May 23, 2024 at 10:10 am A masterful little nugget of practical wisdom! I can see myself putting the ideas presented in this article as part of my daily habits. The very brilliantly written first line captured my attention right from the jump: “You ultimately become what you repeatedly do.” Hence if your daily habits are not resulting in the “you” you want to be, than change your habits! And thanks to this inspirational article, I plan to do just that! Reply 12. Adil Zareef says May 23, 2024 at 10:37 am Very sensible advice. And at 78, I feel confident that your points here at spot on! I’m passing them along to my grand kids. Reply 13. JIM says May 23, 2024 at 12:23 pm Since this has been a very difficult time for me…the love of my life passed away 2 months ago…I’ve been trying to find a way to move forward. Going from a full time care giver to a purposeless griever has taken its toll. This article points to a way to start to move on. All the closure tasks have been overwhelming but I continue to move forward knowing that it is what she wanted. My task is to cherish the memories but find a way to build a new life that would make her proud and honor her memory. Reply 14. Fran says May 23, 2024 at 1:34 pm We are our habits and we are creatures of pattern. Absolutely! We become what we think, we have to watch our character… Excellent points! Reply 15. Harsh says May 24, 2024 at 1:02 am This was really an eye opener. An awesome article that fires the reader up to begin to take action. Thank You for writing this. Reply 16. Jocelyn says May 24, 2024 at 2:48 am Indeed a best article I have read related to this topic. There is something very refreshing about this one. It’s different from the usual cliché motivators. This feels somehow connecting and relatable. I must say it could be the power of the writers! Thank you very much for this…. Reply 17. Paula says May 24, 2024 at 4:10 am I look forward to reading your essays everyday they give me so much encouragement to become the best version of myself which leads me to be where l want to be…. A HAPPY PERSON LEADING A HAPPY LIFE… the way l want to live it .. l will try every day .. l would like to thank you both for sharing your essays . Reply 18. Joyce Nosiphiwo Nqatyelwa says May 24, 2024 at 11:26 am This is the first time that I read such an essay that talks directly with me as most of points are spot on. Understanding and admitting who you are willing to learn to be a better person to interact with life’s diversity for holistic growth is a therapy of a lifetime result to maturity irrespective of age and circumstances around you. This is indeed great and awesome! Reply 19. Muzaffar says May 24, 2024 at 6:37 pm It’s so inspiring! Makes me do introspection. I am a senior citizen and despite dazzling achievements in life, the ghost of past keeps me regretting that I could have done even better than what I did. I am 71 and sometimes physical degeneration discourages me in my creative endeavours. Reading Salman Rushdie’s “Knife” inspired me even after losing one eye and one hand he could come out with such a masterpiece so why should age related problems become discouraging factors in my creative writing. I will continue with my passion of creative writing till I breathe mu last! ‘I would never allow others to become a hurdle in my “blessed madness”! Your article gives me hope. I will read and reread it whenever I feel discouraged just because of age. Reply 20. Marlon Valentine Brando says May 24, 2024 at 9:27 pm Thanks for the wonderful message you sent. I’ve got to look at my daily habits to get out of the rut I find myself in. Reply 21. Mini says May 25, 2024 at 12:55 am Totally n completely adored this blog. It was one of the most beautiful, practical ,sensible ,easy to follow ,no shit n a genuine advice for everyone ! Congratulations for this extraordinary work!!! Keep doing more !!All d best ! ?? Reply 22. Tabassum says May 25, 2024 at 2:08 am Just the right things I needed to remind myself! You are so precise and right at every point you have enumerated here, I can’t choose one which resonated with me-almost all did, some more than others. I think “worrying about else’s story” is something very well put and hit a point I had never acknowledged in myself before, but it does exist and needs to be addressed. Thanks a lot for your wonderful write up! I find it quite motivating! Reply 23. Arthur Hills says May 25, 2024 at 4:51 am Thank you for this.This is the most important thing I’ve read online in quite awhile. Its inspiring, motivational and a tool to move forward. Stay blessed. Reply 24. Eva says May 25, 2024 at 11:16 pm Great points and inclusion of actual steps to help. Well done. Reply 25. Durva says May 26, 2024 at 5:42 am I made a huge mistake, about which I keep thinking daily. But today accidently found this essay, and i must say i’m very grateful for this piece and also the time when i much needed it. Gonna note everything now. A big thank you! Reply 26. James E Sparks says May 27, 2024 at 8:33 am I loved this article number one and two really resonated with me many of the others did as well. I am open to any of these and not push them away. I’ve heard it said in order to get to the feelings you want you have to learn to go through the feelings that you don’t want rather than avoid them. Reply 27. Dana DeLuca says May 27, 2024 at 8:56 am Amongst all of the trash on the internet, I find this gem. It’s the best written, most insightful essay, that I’ve ever read concerning motivation! Thank you for taking the time to put it together and sharing it with the world. Keep up the good work! And .. May you always Stay Blessed Reply 28. Luara says May 27, 2024 at 3:43 pm This is the best thing I’ve read in awhile. 100% on point and explained in a way that is easy to understand. Forgiving yourself is the most hardest part for me in life. I’m still not sure why but I’m starting to understand that without forgiving myself I will not move forward on life. Thank you so much for sharing this article. So very helpful…?? Reply 29. Jill Deniston says June 4, 2024 at 2:45 am I love these! I needed read some of these today. I really liked the one about making yourself a priority. Reply 30. Uncle Sam says June 5, 2024 at 1:45 am Thanks for this essay, the points and how to follow them up are very realistic and the explanations are very easy to understand Reply LEAVE A REPLY CANCEL REPLY Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked * Comment Name * Email * Website Save my name, email, and website in this browser for the next time I comment. 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